In this world, sometimes I interact with others with sincerity, but I am always disappointed. There will always be people around you who take advantage of you, hurt you, often hit you, and ridicule you.
To be a human being, you must understand that the most ruthless revenge against a person is not to attack the other party, there are only two words: ignore. If you do it, you'll be happy.
From a psychological point of view, ignoring keeps you from trying to correct the prejudices and discrimination of others.
The more you care about the harm of others, the more the damage will continue to deepen, but you will ignore the ability to let go of everything, so that the other party has no choice. They are as boring as clowns, and you are always proud and comfortable, with a clear view of who loses and who wins, and the gap between the patterns is also clear.
In the face of the person who hurts you, the more you care, the more your emotions will be influenced and manipulated by the other party. Ignoring is not admitting fear, but not putting oneself in the position of the victim, bypassing being prejudiced, discriminated against, and being attacked.
If anger is an expression of emotion, then ignoring is spiritual contempt. Ignoring the other person in interpersonal interactions can make people feel disrespected, which can deepen the mental friction of the other person. Many times, instead of changing other people's minds, it is better to try to be yourself, quietly rise to the top, and then amaze the four.
When something can be changed on your own, the only thing you can do is stay away. Because we can't sway him, stay away from the person who hurts you, and not letting the other person's plan go your way is itself a kind of revenge.
Avoid any contact with him and don't let his negative energy affect you. Staying away from him is not only to protect yourself, but also to avoid being affected by his negativity.
As the old saying goes, "If you can't be provoked, you can hide." "The best revenge is to stop the loss in time and learn to stay away.
If you are always struggling with the other person, it only means that you are the same person as the other person, and it is better to forget it than to waste your time with the other person.
It is that we have to surpass those who make us unhappy with a positive attitude and a fighting spirit. It's wise to have this time to work hard to improve yourself and become good enough. Never let other people's ridicule succeed, take other people's ridicule as your own motivation to move forward, and strive to realize your own value, and when you realize it, other people's ridicule will be meaningless.
The best revenge for other people's ridicule is to make yourself excellent, and only in this way will you distance yourself from the other party, once the distance is opened, your height will become a height that he will never be able to reach.
Finally, in the face of hurt and betrayal by others, we can choose a higher realm to deal with. The most vicious "revenge" for a person is not by hurting them, but by protecting oneself, growing, and releasing resentment to get rid of the distress of negative emotions.
Only when you focus on your own life will the criticism and evaluation of others not affect you. Ignoring and staying away is not self-deception, and timely advance and retreat is the ripe choice.