Everyone has a common problem, that is, they like to be calculating.
Whether it's gains or losses, or wrong or wrong, I like to be more serious, even if I know that there is nothing to worry about, but I still care about it, I can't let go of others, and I can't let go of myself.
A small thing, just think about it for a long time, waste a long time, even the mood is ups and downs, obviously it is a trivial thing, but you can't let go.
Although people like to care, this is normal, but if you are too careful, it will seem that you have no pattern, because really smart people will not care.
If people are really willing to be good for themselves, willing to live well, and willing to live happily, don't dwell on it, no one or anything is more important than your mood.
When people are calculating, they are all out of a kind of unwillingness, they want to distinguish between right and wrong, you and me, no matter how big or small, they like to talk about it.
But in the end, what's the use.
You can't change anyone, and no one is right or wrong, a small detail makes you so obsessed and so real.
Life has ups and downs, big and small things have gone a lot, do you have to take care of everything?Unpleasant things, unpleasant people, unpleasant environments, just stay away, there is no need to take it seriously.
People who are too sober always like people who are more serious, but people who are confused, big things can turn into small things, and people who are confused live a happier, more comfortable, and simpler life.
People who hold on to one thing are destined to do anything, they are in a state of entanglement, have no self-control, can't bear the blow, and can't let go of too many troubles in their hearts.
A little less care, a little more happiness, a little less worry, a little more simplicity, less trouble, more relief.
Thinking too much, you are destined to be emotionally disturbed, lingering, you are destined to not be able to let go of yourself, some people have some things, choose to forget, maybe it is a good thing for you, at least it can make you live a simple and calm life.
People who don't know how to care may be stupid, but the past things, and the people who have been haunted and can't let go, really have no pattern.
To be a man, win in the pattern, lose in the calculation, think more about things, think less about people, look down on life, and live happily.
The reason why you care is because you are energetic, and when you are tired of tossing yourself, your heart is tired, and you have no energy, you will be selectively relieved.
In life, there is no kind of happiness that is specially designed for us, and there is no kind of pain that is reserved for us alone. True freedom and happiness come from inner wisdom and serenity.
Be kind to yourself, forget what you can forget in the past, don't care about what you can do in front of you, learn to let go of anxiety and worry, don't think too much about the future, precipitate your mood to remove impetuousness, and be calm and comfortable.
There is a saying that the poor mind is full of scheming and complaining, and the rich mind is full of dedication and gratitude, to be a person who is rich in heart, rich in the outside, rich and loving.
Indeed, people who love to plan are often narrow-minded, but people who are open-minded and generous are broad-minded, know how to give and be grateful, and live a more contented and happy life.
Therefore, there is nothing to worry about in life, and one day you will find that all love and hatred will be relieved, life is short, and you can enjoy it in time.
If a person scolds you twice, you remember one day, he scolds you for two days, you remember it for one year, he scolds you for two years, and you remember it until you die, then this person is equivalent to scolding you for a lifetime.
We have to understand that what can interfere with you is often your too much concern, and what can hurt you is often your own inability to think about it, if you are peaceful and no one can hate, if you don't investigate, no one can disturb you, there are always some people in life who hate you and criticize you, slander you but want to be you.
Don't worry about unimportant things with important people, don't worry about important things with unimportant people, the more you calculate, the more you lose.
It's true that you can't forget, but you can look for happy things to cover, divert your attention, and create happiness and happiness.