Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge Zhang Juzheng, the first assistant of the Ming Dynasty and the teacher of the Wanli Emperor, he was a great reformer of the Ming Dynasty, and he turned the tide to help the Ming Dynasty not fall, and extended the life of the Ming Dynasty for 76 years, he regarded Wanli as his own life, but Wanli killed his whole family after his death.
Why is Wanli so ruthless?Let's take a look at Zhang Juzheng's education of this emperor, and maybe we can find the answer from it.
Wanli ascended the throne at the age of 10, and Zhang Juzheng, as the first assistant of the cabinet, paid all his efforts to this little emperor. In order for Wanli to grasp the strategy of governing the country as soon as possible, Zhang Juzheng personally compiled teaching materials, and even he combined the characteristics of children who like to watch ***, and wrote a book of "Emperor Jian Illustrated Narrative" in the form of **, so that Xiao Wanli could learn. Xiao Wanli also has a lot of respect for Zhang Juzheng, and everyone calls him "Mr".
In addition to his dedication to Xiao Wanli's studies, he is also very concerned about his body. Once, Wanli had a rash. Waiting for him to go to court, Zhang Juzheng knelt in front of the dragon chair, with tears in his eyes, staring at Wanli with infinite love. Wanli also understood the teacher's intentions, and he comforted: "Sir, I am completely **." Now I eat 4 meals a day, and I can eat 2 large bowls of rice at each meal. This situation is more like a pair of intimate father and son.
However, since ancient times, "love is deep, responsibility is keen", and Zhang Juzheng is no exception. In order for the emperor to govern the country well, Zhang Juzheng was very strict with Wanli. Once Wanli misread a word in class, Zhang Juzheng shouted angrily, and Wanli was so frightened that he fell directly from the chair. In the next few days, Wanli saw Zhang Juzheng, and he was trembling.
Wanli likes calligraphy and writes beautifully. Once, he showed the written words to Zhang Juzheng, his eyes full of anticipation, hoping to be praised by the teacher. But Zhang Juzheng taught him to put his mind on learning to govern the country, and writing was a showmanship. He also gave him the example of Song Huizong's plaything losing his mind, and asked him to take it as a warning.
From these little things, we can see that Zhang Juzheng is very similar to Wanli, much like an ordinary father's child, because he has high hopes, so he can't help but be strict, and even control them in the name of love, while ignoring the psychological needs and feelings of the child.
Freedom is a right that everyone wants to have, and even more so the Emperor. When Wanli was 18 years old, Zhang Juzheng still didn't worry about letting him be in power, which made Wanli even more dissatisfied. Depressed, he borrowed wine to kill his sorrows, got drunk, and beat people in the palace.
Zhang Juzheng, who rushed to hear the news, had an expression of hatred for iron and steel, and reprimanded the emperor for "living in the palace is quite abnormal", forcing Wanli to step down, and finally had to write an edict to the world. It is conceivable how much Wanli's self-esteem has been hurt.
All this made Wanli's heart always breathe, and later other ** to Zhang Juzheng** just gave Wanli a reason to punish Zhang Juzheng. But his fear of Zhang Juzheng came from his bones, so he didn't dare to act rashly.
In the tenth year of Wanli, Zhang Juzheng died, and Wanli finally waited for the opportunity to vent. Wanli ordered someone to raid Zhang Juzheng's home. The raiders locked up Zhang Juzheng's family and starved more than a dozen people to death. And Zhang Juzheng's eldest son was unwilling to be humiliated and committed suicide on the spot. In the end, the Zhang family spent nearly 10,000 taels ** and 100,000 taels ** before the lawsuit was settled.
It could have been a pair of monarchs and ministers with a harmonious and intimate relationship, but it ended up in such a way, which is really embarrassing. Therefore, sometimes tragedy happens, not because of not loving, but because of too much love. When love becomes a cage that imprisons each other and suffocates each other, backlash will follow.
Love is not control, not persecution, even if your original intention is for his good, in the end it may deviate from the original intention and become regretful. Encourage parents.