The story begins with a lively feast and a mysterious host, whose name is not well-known in the city, but who always spends a lot of money to invite friends to his seat whenever there is a festive event. Behind all this is a game of his sophistication of human feelings.
First of all, there are those who specialize in the "gift of asking for money". Whenever there is a trivial matter, he feasts all over the world, as if everyone owes him a favor. Whether it's a child getting a good grade in an exam or a lively party, he can always use this as a name to gather friends.
However, for most people, these feasts are not a big deal, but more like they are set up to join in the fun. But the host, however, took pleasure in it, and collected the gift money from the guests, like a cunning fox.
The gift of not receiving an invitation is also a controversial topic. As soon as the news of his friend's wedding and birthday banquet spread, he prepared gifts early and went to be apprehensive.
However, when he came to the scene, he found that his friend's eyes were a little embarrassed. It turned out that his friend did not invite him officially, he just stepped in the banquet out of thin air. Such behavior not only ruined the master's plan, but also became the object of ridicule during the banquet.
Gone forever" is even more puzzling. Invitations from old classmates to a wedding or a full moon banquet seem to be an expression of hope to relive old friendships.
However, when he arrived at the scene, those old classmates treated him like strangers. What exactly is their purpose?Do you really want to get closer, or is it just to have a good time?Such a casual gift is undoubtedly a farce that is not worth participating in.
Finally, it is the "sophistication" of the courtesy. Young people who are new to the workplace are often faced with a series of invitations, and these invitations carry certain expectations. The strangeness between colleagues makes the gift a kind of coping. In this workplace communication, young people have to choose whether to go without hesitation or refuse to stand by. The chaos in this is really worrying.
Behind these seemingly lively feasts, there are actually games of gifts. In this modern society, relationships are distorted into the exchange of money and gifts, and true friendships are becoming increasingly scarce. We should reflect on whether the gift is really meaningful and whether it should become a rigid rule of interpersonal communication.
Perhaps, we can get rid of these unnecessary etiquette shackles and truly cherish those who are sincere to us. Instead of wasting time and money in a big celebration, we should be grateful to those who have always been there for us. After all, life is a long road, and true friendship is the strongest support.