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I saw such a sentence on the Internet:
Children cry and laugh, while adults laugh and laugh. ”
In this life, there is the suffering of impermanence, the suffering of feelings, the suffering of greed, the suffering of loss, and the suffering of hardship.
But no matter what, suffering, since we are always with you and me, then why should I be entangled and increase my consumption?
No one's life will not endure hardship, and people will live a lifetime, and it will be very hard.
Of course, life is like tea, it will only be bitter for a while, not for a lifetime.
As long as we can face it bravely and persist in it, there will always be a time when the bitterness and sweetness will come.
I like a passage from Liang Yongan very much:
"Our life's task is to be an excellent ordinary person.
This excellent ordinary person loves the world, loves all things, and loves all beings
Then go down to earth to find a thing that you like in your heart and have the value of the times.
It's good for a person to be able to do one or two things well in their lifetime. ”
People, if you want to be excellent all the time, it must be difficult, and it must be very hard.
However, think about it from another angle, be an excellent ordinary person, you can be excellent, but also allow yourself to be ordinary, find things that you like in your heart, and can give yourself value and harvest, stick to one or two things, and do yourself well, you will be quite happy and happy.
Therefore, you can endure hardship, but you must suffer what makes you feel worthwhile, and it can really bring you value gains.
In the end, we can get sweetness and hope from the bitterness.
Hardship lies in harvest and remodeling
Mencius said:"Born in sorrow, die in peace. ”
People, from birth to adulthood, will always experience some suffering, experience some difficulties, and even experience some impermanence.
No one can say for sure, no one can say, but what we can be sure of is that in the face of suffering and pain, we can only face it, and only by bravely overcoming it, can we usher in a new life that has been reborn.
Indeed, in the process of being comfortable and enjoying themselves, they will definitely be taken away by God and become incompetent, vulgar, and failing.
On the contrary, only by constantly learning from each other's strengths and cultivating one's mind can one slowly accumulate experience and prepare for the ups and downs of the future by constantly learning from each other's strengths and cultivating one's temperament.
The reason why many people are afraid of hardship and feel that it is meaningless to endure hardship, so they choose to lie flat, and even choose to despise the enthusiasm of hardship.
Kazuo Inamori once said: Most people may have too superficial understanding of the meaning of hardship.
If people always feel that they can't live while enduring hardships, or even when it becomes more and more difficult, it means that the hardships they have endured are themselves low-level and low-level hardships.
For example, if you treat yourself as a kind of machine, messing around like an assembly line every day, then even if you work 18 hours a day, you will not be able to bring you any spiritual growth.
This kind of person has long mixed his life and work, and he has long been unaware of the difference between life and work.
Because these people just want to earn more rewards through simple, easy-to-do actions, there are never other ideas.
Wang Xiaobo used such a sentence to pierce the illusion of suffering at a low level:
"Man is an animal that can deceive himself, and we have suffered a lot of useless suffering, and we have wasted many years, so some people want to say that this experience is noble. ”
What people are most afraid of is being in the same pit, constantly consuming their mental strength, consuming their own time, and consuming their emotions.
Eventually, they became more and more numb, wasted their years, wasted their lives, and suffered more and more useless suffering.
In fact, the meaning of enduring hardship is that you can improve yourself and reshape yourself, rather than copying yourself.
People are very miserable in life
Mr. Yang Jiang sighed in "100-year-old speech":
"In this materialistic world, life is really hard enough. ”
It is not easy for everyone in life, no one can be easy, and no one can get their wish.
Real life is full of ups and downs, just like sailing in the sea, fluttering, undulating, and boundless.
Therefore, a person can only control himself, know how to control his own life, and know how to choose his own direction in life.
Only in this way can we get truly valuable and rewarding growth significance in the process of enduring hardships and in the years of suffering.
A person can only gradually have what he wants if he keeps trying to grow, keep walking, or even keep running.
The famous Austrian writer Franz Kafka wrote in "The Castle":
"If you try to get something, as long as you are calm, calm, and seek truth from facts, you can achieve your goal without knowing it. ”
Although the road is long, if you keep walking, you will definitely be able to reach it.
What you want to get, you must let yourself have the ability and strength to match, don't have any superfluous ideas, and don't have luck thoughts.
Take real action, take out the fighting spirit of daring to bear hardships and stand hard work, and constantly forge ahead towards the goal, one day, after suffering enough and getting through, you will get what you want.
Survive the suffering, and blessing will come
Some people say: I always believe that after walking through the smoke and rain of Pinghu Lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, those who have gone through many calamities and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean. ”
In this life, everyone is very difficult, everyone is very hard, and no one can be rewarded without paying.
Therefore, in the face of difficulties and suffering, we do not escape, we do not deny, we do not complain, we face bravely and boldly endure hardships.
Then, after surviving the difficult years, stepping over, carrying over, life is a new world.
There's a quote in the Island Bookstore that says:
"There is the most difficult year in everyone's life, and when you get past it, life will become lofty and vast. ”
In life, if you want to reach a new chapter, or if you want to change your face, or if you really want to achieve yourself.
Then, to calm down, calm down, and be willing to endure hardships is to spare no effort to grow, and finally strengthen yourself and achieve yourself.