The cousin has been urged to marry by the family, and his two young children already have children. In order to meet his parents' expectations, the cousin found a northern girlfriend and decided to take her back to his hometown to introduce her to his family. In our hometown, bringing a girl home means that the relationship is finalized, and further it means that you can get married. For this special occasion, the man's family will prepare some gifts and hearty meals for the woman as a sign of respect for the girl.
Before returning home, my cousin told his family that his girlfriend didn't like itCayenne peppers, I hope not to put it in the dish as much as possibleCayenne peppers。However, my cousin's mother misunderstood what her cousin meant, thinking that her girlfriend just didn't like to eatCayenne peppers, so in order to satisfy his girlfriend's taste, he put some in the cookingCayenne peppers。However, in reality, girlfriends can't eat spicy food at all. This made the cousin feel aggrieved by his mother's understanding, and the mother also said that she really didn't understand his girlfriend's taste.
There is a sumptuous meal on the table, from which the sincerity of the family can be seen. However, due to the fact that some dishes are put in a littleCayenne peppers, the cousin was unhappy about this. First of all,Cayenne peppersStir-fried pork head is a local traditional dish, after a special stir-frying method, with green pepper and millet spicy, delicious, but my girlfriend did not touch it because she was afraid of spicy. Secondly,Braised flagChicken feetThe appearance is not attractive enough, and it is not particularly convenient to eat, so this dish is only used as a decoration, and no one wants to touch it. Again,Sweet potato flourBoiled meat is a peasant dish, although it is not addedCayenne peppers, but served in the form of a stainless steel basin, it doesn't look delicate enough, I don't know how it tastes.
Dry pot pig's trottersAlthough it is a high-class dish, there is no soup, the trotters are relatively large, and they are smoked, so the salt content is high, and the tender pork is salty, so few people touch it. And fryPrawns, albeit yesCayenne peppersStir-fried, but northerners are generally Xi to cook or steam shrimp directly, so girlfriends are not interested in this dish either. In addition, there are several other dishes, such as stewed soybeans with bean curd, stewed dog meat with radish, and red winding pork, etc., which almost all of these dishes contain someCayenne peppers, there are no greens, they are all farmhouse dishes. For a girlfriend who is coming to the house for the first time, these dishes really need to be improved.
Family is a warm haven, the truest place of belonging within us, and a place in which we can find support and understanding. However, inlifeWe will inevitably encounter some misunderstandings and conflicts, and there will be some moments of friction and disharmony between family members. In this story, the cousin's family has some misunderstandings and dissatisfaction in the process of treating his girlfriend. But instead of falling into quarrels and indifference, they solved the problem through communication and understanding, and finally reached a harmonious situation. This incident became an opportunity for them to deepen their understanding and make them cherish each other more and care more about each other's needs and feelings. Mutual understanding and tolerance in the family are important factors in maintaining family harmony, and it is only through communication and respect that problems can be solved and family relations can be promoted.