We usually think that the person who intervenes in the intimate relationship is a third party, because it is immoral and shameful for them to destroy the intimacy between two people.
In many couples whose marriage has ended, a large part of them attribute the cause of the marriage to a third party, believing that the relationship can last without the existence of a third party. In fact, from another point of view, the third party is not the destroyer of the intimate relationship, but more reflects the original problems in the relationship between the two parties.
Many couples are convinced that they are the ones who can reach each other and are loyal when they first start together. As everyone knows, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, when you love, you can swear an alliance, the sea is dry and rotten, but it is difficult to keep together. In ordinary days, life has changed, and because of men's desire to conquer and women's insecurity and companionship, they want to seek stronger and more valuable opposite sex.
In the minds of the older generation, even if they live in a chicken feather, they have never had the idea of cheating on both sides. With the advent of the modern marriage system, a third party has slowly emerged. There are generally several reasons for this.
First: Human nature is to be curious about what they don't have, seeking temporary freshness and excitement, and they can't stand it, and their self-control is poor. When two people are just together, they must be sweet and sweet, but because they have been together for a long time, they will dislike and dislike each other.
Second: no sense of responsibility. Each of us likes to live without constraints and does not like to be bound by anyone or anything. Also because of the weakness of human nature, like the new and hate the old, longing for freedom, and once entering marriage, it means to restrain their own behavior and reject the outside **, and some people often can't bear the loneliness and desire to pursue freedom, so they leave their sense of responsibility behind.
Third: I think that the cost of cheating in marriage is small and can be afforded. For a constraint on moral level and self-morality, cheating people often do not look at it, thinking that the biggest consequence of cheating is nothing more than divorce, then, the consequences after divorce can be borne by ta, so there is no such binding force on derailment.
In our lives, there will always be some people who appreciate it, but feelings are never about seeking momentary stimulation, nor are they free from constraints. We need to understand the true meaning of love, marriage, and family, and understand that once we enter the relationship participants, we need to be responsible for this relationship and keep it. Marriage Emergence Third Party Intimacy Destruction Moral Shame Cause Destruction Existence Perspective Relationship Reflection Husband and Wife Determination Loyalty Commitment Ordinary Security Desire to Conquest Companionship Value Opposite Sex Thought Cheating Thought Nature Curiosity Freshness Stimulation Disgust Dislike Sweet Honey Self-Control Sense of Responsibility Life Bondage Weakness Pursuit of Freedom Rejection Cost Consequences Divorce Bear Binding Appreciation Do What You Want Participant Responsible