At first glance, when you see "Parents' Love", you may think that Jiang Dehua is chasing after Ding, and even the eldest brother Jiang Defu and sister-in-law An Jie are also distressed. However, looking back, Lao Ding is really "high climbing".
Let's look at the situation proposed by Jiang Dehua. In fact, she is much better than Lao Ding. She could have stayed with her brother or sister-in-law, and the decision was justified. The second ancestor of the Jiang family has always been brought up by her. Her neighbor, Zhang Guiying, used to praise her, saying that she loved her more than her mother. Jiang Weiguo can't forget the smell of his aunt in his life, and when Jiang Yafei got married, he gave her this bowl of wine. When he got older, when he returned to that island, Jiang Yaning pulled An Jie instead of her, which shows how much the Jiang family attaches importance to her. Even if she stayed at her brother and sister-in-law's house, the second ancestor of the Jiang family respected her from the bottom of his heart.
The relationship between An Jie and Jiang Dehua, although it is far from her family background, is also like brotherhood. An Jie didn't invite him to coffee, and Jiang Dehua didn't care, as long as An Jie had something delicious, he would never share it with himself. An Jie was able to allow Jiang Defu's "relatives" to live in his home, but he did not allow them to bully Jiang Dehua. So An Jie said to them: "Jiang Dehua is the housemother of our family, and she has the final say." It can be seen how much the Jiang family attaches importance to her.
Jiang Dehua didn't have to stay with his brother and sister-in-law. She can proudly marry a local fisherman. As the sister of the commander of the garrison, no matter who she marries, she will be received with the most solemn etiquette. Moreover, she can also marry a soldier of the same age without being a general, but if Jiang Defu is still in the position of commander, then her marriage will become even more grand.
Now it seems that Jiang Dehua's pursuit of Lao Ding is actually more like Lao Ding's "high climbing" of Jiang Dehua. In any respect, Lao Ding is not as good as Jiang Dehua. However, Jiang Dehua can have many objects to choose from, and Lao Ding is the only one. Although "Parents' Love" does not intuitively show such feelings, but after careful analysis, it can be seen that it was Lao Ding who "climbed" Jiang Dehua.
Jiang Dehua's life in the army should have been very difficult. But it was precisely because of her strength and kindness that that that era was extraordinarily special. In the face of so many options, Jiang Dehua still chose **Ying without hesitation, even if it would make him suffer a lot of criticism.
Jiang Dehua's benevolence comes from his heart. She also didn't want Xiu'e's younger siblings' children to suffer a little during this time. In Jiang Dehua's view, doing much better than talking. Since Lao Ding came to the island, she has been secretly taking care of Ah Ding and Ah Ding, and she is very careful. This also made the fourth son want Jiang Dehua to be his mother.
In the artillery school, Jiang Dehua was not interested in Lao Ding, because his pride at that time was not as pitiful as "pitiful". Although Jiang Dehua is open-mouthed, she is full of sympathy for the suffering of the world and cares for all those in difficulty. This is also why she rejected An Jie from the beginning, and has always been thinking about her sister-in-law Zhang Guilan, who grew up in the countryside. Although she doesn't like her nephew Jiang Changyi in her mouth, she still protects him in her heart.
One of the important factors why Jiang Dehua did this was the "injustice" in his heart. In the artillery school, Jiang Defu and Lao Ding's living conditions were similar, but after landing on the island, Jiang Defu's compound was much larger than Lao Ding's. Although his younger brother lives happily, Jiang Dehua can't ignore the gap between the two families.
In the end, Jiang Dehua and Lao Ding reached an agreement. Jiang Dehua's ideological realm always surpasses Lao Ding's. Lao Ding is very capable and far-sighted, he has neither background nor military achievements, but he still insists on teaching in the military academy, and he also falls in love with Meng Tianzhu, the future son-in-law. However, he was not satisfactory in his life, and after replacing Jiang Defu as a teacher, he was severely criticized. After coming to this island, he met Wang Zhenbiao, the boss who often gave him small shoes. However, Lao Ding is still very happy in this life, he met Jiang Dehua, a man who can accompany him through difficulties.
Jiang Dehua's meticulous care for Lao Ding is Lao Ding's greatest support and help in work and life. After Lao Ding and Jiang Dehua got married, life was different. Jiang Dehua is a strong and hard-working person, he has always supported him and created brilliant achievements for his career. Jiang Dehua has always been the pillar of Lao Ding's career, and he is Lao Ding's strong backing, so that Lao Ding can work, full of enthusiasm and enthusiasm.
Although Lao Ding is unsatisfactory in many things, he has also been pursuing things that he can't get, such as marrying a learned daughter-in-law. But it was this Mr. Ding who made Jiang Dehua see his tenacity and dedication to life. Jiang Dehua accepted everything from Lao Ding, without any complaints, and was always by his side, silently protecting him and protecting this family.
Compared with Lao Ding's career achievements, Jiang Dehua pays more attention to family harmony and happiness. She knows very well what she wants to do, as long as she can protect Lao Ding and protect her children, it is enough. Although she could not be buried with Lao Ding, she had no complaints about Wang Xiu'e's choice. Jiang Dehua never asks for anything for the goodness and goodness of people, she has always adhered to her principles and used her own behavior to infect the people around her.
Jiang Dehua's care for his children has always been wholehearted and conscientious. Despite the occasional complaints, she never stopped dedicating herself to the family. Jiang Dehua has always unconditionally supported Lao Ding's decision, and in the face of other **, she has never had the slightest hesitation because of Lao Ding.
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In short, Lao Ding and Jiang Dehua can be regarded as a happy marriage in life and soul. Although Lao Ding has had a rough life, it is also a very happy thing to be able to marry Jiang Dehua. Jiang Dehua's strength and persistence made their days very happy and warm.