After being disconnected by an ambiguous person, the best coping performance is 3 no s

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Ambiguous, like a colored candy, with a charming sweet smell, people only taste it once, it is enough to recall a lifetime!

If you can, even if you can't be husband and wife, as long as you can accompany the ambiguous person for a lifetime, it is also a dream that too many people look forward to realizing!

However, in real life, how can any relationship be one-way and forever?

Ambiguous, like love, but it is never the same as love!

Love is a love that can't help but be close and willing to be bound by reason!In short, in a two-way relationship, the joy of both parties is trust and steadfastness!

Ambiguous, you can only experience the feeling of love, but you have never been qualified to make some kind of reasonable restraint to the other party, and you are extremely insecure!

As for trust, it doesn't involve it at all!

Why can't an ambiguous relationship break through the next step to establish a relationship?There are several reasons for this:

1: Some people are not single and can't meet the conditions of love;

2: Some people's existence value is not enough, and they can't meet the conditions for the rest of their lives;

3: Some people are professional fish farmers, and when they are finally admitted, they kick out the "low-quality" people!

In the adult world, we must learn to adapt to whose coming and going, and getting used to who's hot and cold!

Ambiguity can't break through the next step to establish a relationship, which means that one day it will be disconnected!

Disconnection will make people who are looking forward to the continuation of the relationship very hurt and hurt. But at this time, you must not do foolish deeds and completely lose your dignity!

After being disconnected by an ambiguous person, the best coping performance is 3 no's

Once the ambiguous relationship reaches the point of disconnection, don't be in a hurry to say "I love you", this is a taboo in an ambiguous relationship!

In an ambiguous relationship, whoever says "I love you" first will fall into the passive situation of the relationship!

You must know that the ambiguous relationship that can be further developed will not make you feel passive in the disconnection.

When the passive mind has already arisen and the disconnection has occurred, remember:

Keep quiet, don't confess blindly, you will even have the last decency shattered to the ground!

Some people just like to hang people's appetites, the more enthusiastic you are, the more she keeps quiet, watching you rush to satisfy his twisted narcissistic complex for this inexplicable relationship!

And you, in the face of such a person, the more you keep quiet, the other party will be anxious and speculate about your thoughts!

Only, you have to remember such a truth:

After being ambiguous for a long time, the person who suddenly brings you a passive disconnection, the biggest reason for hanging your appetite is just "not loving enough" or "not loving at all", so they ignore your feelings!

In the face of such a person, you quietly do what you do, leave everything to time, and you will slowly heal yourself from the torment.

When you heal yourself, you will find that the person you used to play with is really rubbish that you don't want to think about it!

Some people, in the face of the sudden termination of an ambiguous relationship, the inner uneasiness will cause him to have a very wrong impulse: to ask "why"!

In fact, there are so many whys, when I contact you, I want to contact, and when I don't contact, I don't want to contact.

A relationship that is already unclear, if you want to figure it out, isn't it against yourself?

For a person who chooses to disconnect after being ambiguous for a long time, your "why" is just a humbleness of self-depreciation, and the other party will either not give you a response, or will give you a perfunctory!

Either way, your reason will end in a dead end!

Adults, it is time to distinguish which relationship is a positive and developable relationship, and which relationship is the relationship that should be stopped in time to retain the last bit of dignity!

When the other party has started the act of disconnection, your answer to why is hidden in a "broken" word!

Instead of losing the dignity to ask why, it is better to leave the last bit of good impression in the other person's heart. At least, when there are occasional memories that are remembered by the other party, you can still know that you are not a "bad person".

Compared to leaving a good impression, you lose your dignity and humbly ask why, just to make people look down on you in their hearts!

The most tiring thing about life is to focus on oneself after paying attention to others. Even, in order to pay attention to others, I have been neglecting to pay attention to myself!

When the ambiguous relationship ends, some people will fall into the self-friction of paying attention to the other person's dynamics and disturbing their emotions.

In fact, people who have been ambiguous can't even be friends!

In this case, after the relationship is disconnected, it is not a good thing to delete it!

Some people say that putting down a person without deleting or blocking is the best way to let go!But have you ever thought that if you don't delete a vague relationship with a beginning and no end, won't you properly stretch your expectation that there will be no ending?

It's good to delete, you don't need to pay attention to any of the other party's status, when you persist for three or five days, you may be unbearable, but in a week, half a month, you will gradually get better......

At the very least, you've heard what the 21-day rule is

When you really insist on not paying attention to the other person or do distractions whenever you think of the other person, you will really let go at a specific time!

In the face of a person who has been ambiguous for a long time and has made a disconnection, only if you are more ruthless than the other party, can you quickly pick out of this wrong relationship and live as your true self!

A person who can have an ambiguous relationship with you is far more aware than you of whether you are "suitable" or not.

A person who chooses to cut off contact with you after an ambiguous relationship, your joys and sorrows really can't arouse the other party's emotions!

After you don't ask why, don't say I love you, and stop paying attention to each other, you'll find out

In fact, in the past ambiguous relationship, I never found a shadow of love, at most it was just like!

Adults, don't ignore the truth and look at the surface, you won't be hurt by any kind of wrong relationship!

I'm a high-quality affective writer who has provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.

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Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!