Chen Junsheng plans to divorce because he has fallen in love with another person.
This incident was Chen Junsheng's debt to Luo Zijun anyway, and Luo Zijun's mother and sister, who learned about it, were extremely indignant and almost wanted to beat Chen Junsheng hard.
Luo Zijun's mother did not hesitate to rush into Chen Junsheng's company and was furious for her daughter.
In fact, Luo Zijun's family did not really want her to divorce her husband, because they believed that marriage was worth cherishing. Their original intention was to teach Chen Junsheng a profound lesson. If Chen Junsheng knew his mistake and chose to correct it, and could cut ties with Ling Ling, then they were fully capable of persuading their daughter to continue living.
In fact, Chen Junsheng's parents are two crucial characters in this matter.
Logically, divorce should be considered a major event. If Chen's parents had learned of this, they would have responded because it was Chen's fault. As long as Chen Junsheng's parents understand something a little, they will not consider letting Chen Junsheng divorce.
However, we often overestimate the status of our daughter-in-law in the eyes of our in-laws. In fact, whether Chen Junsheng divorced or not, his parents didn't care much about Luo Zijun's decision, even if the matter itself was Chen Junsheng's infidelity.
For them, the main concern is the happiness of their son. Whether their son is happy or not, they think divorce or cheating is acceptable, but what really worries them is their grandson Ping'er.
During Chen Junsheng's divorce process, his parents had two face-to-face contacts with Luo Zijun, and these two meetings completely eliminated Luo Zijun's final affection and fantasy for Chen Junsheng.
First meeting in the divorce process: Although on the surface it is an apology for the son's infidelity, it is actually out of consideration for the custody of the grandson.
Soon after Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun publicly announced their divorce, Chen Junsheng informed his parents of the news. After a brief verbal explanation to Chen Junsheng, his parents immediately walked up to Luo Zijun and did a good job of "cleaning up the aftermath" for their son.
It has to be said that parents all over the world have a special pampering for their sons, and they are completely outsiders to their daughters-in-law.
Chen Junsheng's parents were sharp-tongued, and they waited in front of Tang Jing's house early. At that time, Luo Zijun went out to meet the lawyer and was furious with the lawyer, accusing Chen Junsheng of not being the kind of person who was irresponsible, which made Luo Zijun very angry and decided to leave.
The lawyer's original intention was to hope that she would try to discredit Chan's public image in court, which would be beneficial to her personal interests. But Luo Zijun didn't understand all this at the time, and she still had a trace of warmth for Chen Junsheng. However, when Chen Junsheng's parents appeared, Luo Zijun's views changed radically.
When they returned, they found that Chen Junsheng's parents had been waiting at the door for a long time, so they politely invited them into the house.
Chen Junsheng's mother stood at the door and said to Zijun first: "We raised a shameless brute and made you suffer. ”
Chen Junsheng's parents behaved very sincerely, and Luo Zijun mistakenly thought that they were here to defend her, but she didn't expect that Chen Junsheng's father's apparent apology was actually not for her, but out of concern for Ping'er.
After Chen Junsheng's mother entered the room, she continued to explain his plan to us, but she said that she could not accept it. She suggested that we could take care of our grandson and let him go. Zijun, although we don't live with him, we all understand that your feelings for Junsheng are deep, and a beautiful and obedient daughter-in-law like you, he should go and find it. ”
Then, Chen Junsheng's father continued: "If the old man in our family is still alive, he can't let such an irresponsible man appear. You can rest assured that I will help you teach him a lesson. If he argues with me, I will beat him until he admits his mistake. I called him **, and he will come back immediately and live well with his wife and children. ”
After listening to this passage, I believe that most people reacted similarly to me when I first met her. I thought that the two old men were here to help Luo Zijun, but when I read the back, I realized that the first two sentences were just to make Luo Zijun lower her guard and make her mistakenly think that they were on the same side, and then she began to tell her true intentions around the bend.
Later, Chen Junsheng walked in and claimed that he was adamant about getting a divorce. The two old men pretended to speak ill of Luo Zijun in front of her, slapped her embroidered fists a few times, and then quickly changed their attitude and said to Luo Zijun:
Zijun, we should keep communicating with each other. Later, we hope to see Ping'er. You see, we only have one grandson in our family, and no matter what happens at home, we will make sure that Ping'er is taken care of properly. You can rest assured that if someone else's child has anything, he will have it and will not feel that he is missing anything from other children. ”
Savor this sentence carefully, what exactly does it refer to?
Chen Junsheng said it lightly after a few words of scolding about the divorce, and he immediately turned around and said that they would take good care of Ping'er, implying that before the lawsuit, Ping'er was already destined to live with them and had nothing to do with Luo Zijun.
It's like giving you a sweet date and then setting a trap for you. Fortunately, Luo Zijun has not lost her mind at the moment, and she immediately realizes that the family is acting with her, and it seems that they want to take away her only remaining son.
Luo Zijun said quickly: "What do you say, how can you raise Ping'er so big?."Ping'er was not raised by you in the past, and it is impossible for her to grow up with you now and in the future. How did you bring him up?It was my child, I gave birth, and no one could take him away. ”
At this moment, Chen Junsheng's parents finally revealed their true colors. Chen Junsheng's mother said to Zijun, "Please sit down, don't get too excited. Come, listen to me, we are doing this out of concern for you. If you think about it, whether from the perspective of economy or life, it will be difficult for you to be with peace in the future. No matter who we are with in the future, we will keep our grandchildren with us.
Considering that Ping'er prefers to stay at his grandparents' house when he comes on weekends, we will not allow him to take the children to live with other people. If you're worried about this, you can rest assured.
Chen Junsheng's mother said really beautiful words, she repeatedly emphasized that it was for the benefit of Luo Zijun, worried that she would be very hard with her child, and the child would not suffer if she stayed by their side.
In fact, Chen Junsheng's mother has long been prepared for her son's future, but she doesn't care too much about her daughter-in-law. She wants to leave all her savings and energy to her son, hoping that he will inherit her career. Sun Tzu is the person Luo Zijun must stay, they not only demand that Luo Zijun have nothing, but also require Luo Zijun not to even keep the child, whether Luo Zijun can see his son in the future has become a problem.
At this moment, Luo Zijun had a complete insight into the true face of Chen Junsheng's family, and she said: "I originally thought that you were here to talk to me, and I also thought that you were here to persuade him not to divorce me. ”
However, Chen Junsheng's mother retorted: "We really don't want to see you divorced, and we are really helpless against this Junsheng him." ”
Helplessness can only be false, the son's happiness is real, and it doesn't matter if the daughter-in-law is bitter or not, but the grandson must be won, at that moment, Luo Zijun realized the indifference and hypocrisy of the Chen family.
Then, Chen Junsheng's father told him: "Ping'er's surname is Chen, and she must grow up with Chen's parents." ”
Luo Zijun is really angry at the moment because she plans to change her son's surname to Luo after the divorce.
At this moment, Chen Junsheng's father revealed his true identity and said to Zijun: "We are not here to quarrel today. I really want to discuss with you calmly, from the birth of Ping'er to the present, whether it is eating, drinking, or living, none of which is maintained by my son's money. His tuition fees are so high now that he is completely dependent on you, is that okay?”
These two old men finally stopped revealing their true intentions, they did not come to persuade their son for Luo Zijun, nor did they really think that their son owed too much to their daughter-in-law, but they tried all kinds of ways to get their grandson back.
In addition, Chen Junsheng's mother said with tears in her eyes: "Zijun, can you stand in our position and think about it for us?"”
I really think this sentence is funny, obviously because his son betrayed his daughter-in-law, the divorce should have been compensation for Luo Zijun, but now he told Luo Zijun not to think about anything for us, we are pitiful, and you are not pitiful. How can I not sympathize with him, you say?It's laughable.
In the end, Luo Zijun couldn't bear it anymore, she completely understood that the family was actually performing in front of her, and although it was she who really suffered, the Chen family demanded that she have nothing, and also planned to take her son. Luo Zijun couldn't stand Chen Junsheng and his family, so he kicked them out of the house.
Eventually, Luo Zijun came to her senses, accepted the lawyer's advice, and decided to take legal action, seek compensation, and fight for custody of her son, as she was deeply disappointed in Chen Junsheng.
A second encounter in the divorce process: he took out his pension and years of jewelry, persuaded Luo Zijun to show a "kind" side, and at the same time tore up the indifference in her human nature.
After a lot of hard work, Luo Zijun finally won the lawsuit, and the vehicle, real estate and son were awarded to her.
In fact, Chen Junsheng's cheating behavior is not excessive. Chen Junsheng made a mistake first, so Luo Zijun should be compensated. Considering that Chen Junsheng's annual income is as high as one million, without this property and car, he and Ling Ling's life would be able to maintain very well. But Luo Zijun's situation is different, if she really doesn't have a property and a vehicle, her life will be even more difficult.
However, when the results of the court's trial were announced, Chen Junsheng privately proposed to Luo Zijun that he wanted to buy a new house for her and the children. It turned out that the big house belonged to him and Ling Ling, because their parents were old and needed to take them over to live together, and now buying such a house brought a lot of pressure.
In fact, this idea was not proposed by Chen Junsheng, but Ling Ling's idea. Ling Ling has even bought Luo Zijun's small house in the future, but because the geographical location is not as good as before, it is farther away from Ping'er's way to school, and it is not an elevator room, and the community is not a high-end residential area with the big house before.
Ling Ling's strategy is really admirable. She wanted to get this house, mainly hoping that Luo Zijun would sympathize with Chen Junsheng and agree. But in fact, Ling Ling later rented a house for Chen Junsheng's parents. She didn't really want to live with Chen Junsheng's parents, she just wanted that bigger, more valuable house.
But at that particular moment, Luo Zijun accepted Chen Junsheng's proposal because her heart became soft, and she thought that he had also experienced a lot of difficulties in their years of married life.
When I saw the house where Luo Zijun lived from behind, I really felt a little lost, because the decoration there was almost unfinished, almost unrenovated. He said he wanted to move his house to a better environment so that he could save more money.
Although the conditions were not ideal, I believe that Ling Ling had already planned it in advance. The replacement cost of that big house even exceeded Luo Zijun's compensation amount, and the house prepared for Luo Zijun didn't even pay attention to Yaqin, the former nanny of Luo Zijun's family.
Fortunately, Luo Zijun was accompanied by Tang Jing. Tang Jing criticized Luo Zijun as "stupid", questioned why she agreed to change houses, and demanded that she pay 500,000 yuan within two years. But Tang Jing's real intention was not to let Luo Zijun suffer any losses, because after changing houses, Luo Zijun suffered losses. Especially when Tang Jing saw the new house arranged by Chen Junsheng for Luo Zijun, she was even more resolute against Luo Zijun's decision.
However, Luo Zijun said that she had agreed, so Tang Jing suggested that she continue the conversation, and if she did not provide half a million, she would not move out, because the real urgent people were not Luo Zijun, but Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling.
At that time, Luo Zijun's heart was full of hesitation, but Tang Jing knew that considering Chen Junsheng's annual salary and Ling Ling's salary, it was completely feasible to save 500,000 yuan in two years.
In a strategically located location, the property has the potential to increase in value, especially considering that the house is far away from the child's school and the environment is poor, so Luo Zijun has suffered a lot of losses as a result.
Luo Zijun felt very conflicted about Tang Jing's behavior, although she was reluctant to call ** in front of Tang Jing to ask Chen Junsheng to pay 500,000, but deep in her heart, she still felt a little reluctant.
It was only when Chen Junsheng's parents showed up that Luo Zijun made up his mind and asked Chen Junsheng to pay 500,000 within two years, otherwise she would not move.
On that day, Chen Junsheng's parents came to look for Luo Zijun and showed Luo Zijun in front of Luo Zijun the pension funds they had accumulated over the years and the jewelry they loved deeply.
mentioned that the more than 200,000 yuan owned by Kari is actually the funds that the two old men have accumulated for many years for retirement, and these jewelry are also very cherished by Chen Junsheng's mother, but in fact, the value of these jewelry is not high.
Chen Junsheng's parents came to Luo Zijun in the hope that Luo Zijun would move out if he could get the more than 200,000 yuan, so as not to bring trouble to his son.
As expected, in the end, I felt heartache for my son, and felt that my son was actually suffering a loss by taking out 500,000 yuan, and was even willing to use the pension funds he had accumulated over the years to pretend to be pitiful.
At that moment, I was really shocked. I thought to myself, since Chen Junsheng's father can come up with more than 200,000 yuan, then Chen Junsheng is also fully capable of taking out the remaining money. But if you want to mention your parents' pension expenses for many years, and describe how unfortunate and pitiful your family is, it really seems a little unfair.
Chen Junsheng's mother still said to Luo Zijun with a hint of grievance: "Our Chen family is unfair to you, but you can't be so ruthless. Junsheng didn't want to come back for any other reason, but because we were both old and in poor health, which was why he wanted to bring us back to live. If you had asked him now that he needed so much money, he would have gone to buy a bigger house a long time ago if he had. Zijun, you used to be very kind. ”
Luo Zijun was still silent, and at this time, Chen Junsheng's father couldn't help but take out a bank card from his pocket and told him: "Zijun, you also know the daily frugal life of our old couple, this is all our savings, a total of 253,000 yuan, even including change is here." I think so, let's not wait for two years, I will give you all the money at once, you said that the 500,000, we really can't take it out, is it okay, Zijun. ”
This is really a well-planned plan, 500,000 was directly cut in half, and Chen Junsheng didn't spend a penny, his parents directly solved this problem for him, and they really felt sorry for his son.
Fortunately, Luo Zijun still maintained a certain amount of calm at this critical moment. Ling Ling had taken the initiative to find her before, asked her to be angry, and suggested that she move out and pay as little as possible. Now that Chen Junsheng's parents have reappeared, this is indeed a good strategy.
In front of Ling Ling before, there was also He Han's ** guidance, this time Luo Zijun felt a little at a loss, she was not sure how to deal with the old couple's pleas alone, but recalling He Han's previous words, she finally mustered up her courage.
She said to Chen Junsheng: "You can bring these jewelry back, I don't need it." It means a lot to you and is useless to me. I don't need these, what I need is for Chen Junsheng to give me 500,000 in two years. Chen Junsheng has already used his lover, and now he has moved the old couple out to bargain with me. What I want to say is that this matter is non-negotiable with me, no matter who he comes to.
Mom, I shouldn't have called you that now. Auntie, you just want to live with your son now, and you are also afraid of the separation of mother and son, so you should be able to understand why you two old couple, why do you take Ping'er away from me at all costs, and what my feelings are. You are only a problem with one house now, and it is a big deal to rent another apartment and solve it. And I was in a much more broken situation than you did. ”
At this critical moment, Chen Junsheng's father said to Zijun: "I always feel that you are a kind-hearted child, why have you become so ruthless now?."”
I really think this quote is funny, is the kindness of others an excuse for you to oppress them?I don't think I'm either, people's kindness is the reason why you bully others. If my family and I do so well, but always say that others are callous, then I am really a good person who is being bullied.
Luo Zijun continued: "You want me and my son to move to a small house, the difference between the two houses is more than one million, and I only need 500,000, not much." It's not me who is really ruthless, it's your son. You think I've changed, yes, Wang's has changed. Please tell Chen Junsheng in the future, if there is anything, tell me directly, don't waste time talking about feelings with me, the last thing between us is feelings. ”
Luo Zijun's counterattack performed quite well, but fortunately she did not fall into the fog array set by Chen Junsheng's family. Although they may seem pitiful, they are not in such a predicament, they just don't want to pay more.
I think that after this incident, Luo Zijun should have completely seen through the indifference and ruthlessness of the Chen family.
When I read this text, my heart was filled with deep emotion. This reflects many realities in which the daughter-in-law is an outsider in many families, while the son and grandchild are the real family members.
Luo Zijun's divorce process profoundly reveals the hypocrisy and indifference of these people, which is undoubtedly a profound lesson.