The egg girl has been annoying lately. It's not annoying, it's very annoying;Not very annoying, but very annoying.
She said that she had cheated on her husband Brother Peanut, who had never had secrets, and changed the password of her mobile phone.
Egg Sister Peanut and his wife are college classmates, and their relationship has always been very good after marriage.
Now Brother Peanut is cheating!I actually changed the password of my mobile phone!It's worth it!
What to do?The peanut brother that the egg girl said was cheating, is there a real hammer?
Is it just speculation or is it hard evidence in your hands?
Think about Shakespeare's "Othello", isn't Othello suspicious out of jealousy, deceived and killed his beloved Desdemona, and committed suicide in shame after learning the truth?
First determine whether Brother Peanut is really cheating.
Think about "Zheng Ren Suspicious Neighbor", when you think that your neighbor stole the axe, no matter how you look at it, you feel like a thief, and when the axe is found, you feel that the neighbor doesn't look like a thief.
When you think that Brother Peanut is cheating, you will associate all kinds of superficial phenomena with Brother Peanut's cheating, and think that all the appearances point to Brother Peanut's cheating.
When did the egg girl find out that Brother Peanut changed the password?
It must have been when I looked at Brother Peanut's phone casually as usual and found that the password had been changed.
Is it only cheating that you will change your password?Some cheat, and the cheating party changes the password to let his lover know that he is cheating, so that he can take this opportunity to ask for divorce. There are also other factors, such as the egg girl factor?
If the egg girl often takes Brother Peanut's mobile phone and looks through it casually, flips through the chat history between a certain opposite sex and Brother Peanut, and interrogates Brother Peanut in every way, Brother Peanut is tired of explaining, will Brother Peanut also change the password over time?
If the egg girl sees the content sent by a girl to Brother Peanut from Brother Peanut's mobile phone is very ambiguous and explicit, and thinks that Brother Peanut has an inexplicable relationship with the girl, it is useless for Brother Peanut to explain how much, will Brother Peanut also change the password over time?
If the evidence of Brother Peanut's cheating has been firmly held in the hands of the egg girl.
The egg girl can no longer look at Brother Peanut's mobile phone casually as usual.
At this time, I have to ask the egg girl what to do?
Brother Peanut cheated, and the egg girl's choice was not only divorce, but also to continue to live after forgiving Brother Peanut, that is, Brother Peanut cheated on the egg sister Do you want to divorce?If you want to, then you don't care if someone changes the password, just divorce.
If the egg girl doesn't want to divorce, just be honest with Brother Peanut, what can't be said between husband and wife?
Straight to the point and asked if Brother Peanut was cheating?Ask Brother Peanut what his plans are, if Brother Peanut wants to divorce, Sister Egg doesn't want to divorce, and the twisted melon is not sweet, then talk about the conditions, talk about it inappropriately, go to court, and let the judge decide how much Brother Peanut, the party at fault in the divorce case, should compensate.
If Brother Peanut doesn't want to divorce, admits his mistakes, and is willing to live a good life with Egg Girl, then Egg Sister will have a long time without being able to get out of the contradictory psychology, and hates Brother Peanut for cheating, and is unwilling to divorce, and has to think about how to forget this thing from time to time.
I hope that the egg girl will calm down and not let her emotions control her. Don't easily suspect or blame Brother Peanut without conclusive evidence. If he does cheat, Egg Girl needs to seriously consider her choice. If you want to divorce, you can talk to him about the conditions first and try to protect your own interests. If you don't want a divorce, try talking to him to let him know how you feel and what you want. Whatever decision you make, you need to base yourself on your future and happiness. Don't make a decision that you regret because of impulse or reluctance.
Not all marriages are eternal, and since they have come to this point, there is no need to tear up their faces with Brother Peanut and make trouble with them, after all, they are their former pillow people.