Recently, an expert's suggestion has sparked heated discussions on the Internet. The expert suggested that when faced with the problem of "difficulty in raising a baby", parents can temporarily seek help from relatives. However, this suggestion was ridiculed by netizens, and some netizens even jokingly asked: "What should I do if my relatives ask me to get out?"”
The main reason why netizens reacted so violently on this issue is that this suggestion does not take into account all kinds of complicated situations in real life. First of all, the family structure of modern society has changed a lot, and many families are only children and have no siblings to rely on. Second, even if there are relatives who can turn to for help, they have their own lives and pressures and may not be able or willing to help. Finally, asking relatives for help may lead to a series of family conflicts and social problems, such as tensions between relatives, children's psychological problems, and so on.
So, in the face of the problem of "difficult to raise a baby", how should parents deal with it?First of all, parents should face up to this problem and actively seek solutions. For example, they can seek professional parenting guidance and learn scientific parenting methodsYou can also seek support from the community and **, such as applying for childcare allowances, attending childcare classes, and so on. Secondly, parents should also pay attention to their mental health and seek psychological counseling in a timely manner to relieve the pressure of parenting.
In general, the advice that "it is difficult to raise a baby and ask relatives for help" sounds good in theory, but it is difficult to implement in real life. Therefore, when parents face the problem of "difficulty in raising a baby", they should take scientific and reasonable countermeasures according to the actual situation, rather than blindly seeking help from others.