Opposites attract. It's an iron law.
But this does not apply in all cases.
Some women will let men see one side and never forget;On the contrary, there are women who, even with their best efforts, have a hard time tying up a man's heart.
Just like Lin Huiyin to Xu Zhimo, the first time we met, we left a very deep impression on each other, talking and laughing, willing to sublimate emotions, and even abandoned the chaff wife for her.
Zhang Youyi is Xu Zhimo's wife, gave birth to children for Xu Zhimo, took care of his parents, and what he got was not gratitude, but contempt that he never put in his heart, and the two finally divorced.
There is no doubt that Lin Huiyin's attraction to Xu Zhimo is far greater than Zhang Youyi's.
A is honey and B is arsenic.
Love is such a magic that can show two completely different attitudes in front of those who love and those who don't.
Most of the women who can attract men have one characteristic: sobriety.
As Bi Shumin said: I like women who know how to be grateful and independent, and know how to thank their parents, rather than blindly following their parents;Know how to thank God, but not narcissism;Know how to thank friends, but don't rely on;I know I'm grateful for every seed, every breeze, and I know I should get up early to plant and go with the wind.
Maintain unique independence and sobriety, and you will always understand what kind of love you want.
For men, an independent and sober woman is a good partner in life, and even if you can't find it, you won't forget it.
Yang Jiang has a good friend named Fei Xiaotong, and the other party's intentions for Yang Jiang are self-evident, but Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu fell in love at first sight, which made Fei Xiaotong incomprehensible
The beloved woman became someone else's wife, so they had to give up, and after Qian Zhongshu died, Yang Jiang and Fei Xiaotong became single white-haired old men.
Fei Xiaotong went to visit Yangjiang every once in a while. One day, Yang Jiang sent him down the stairs, and he said meaningfully: The stairs are not easy to walk, don't grasp the difficulties in the future.
Words maintained the face of each other, and also said his heart, Fei Xiao informed that it was impossible between the two, and he gave up the idea of pursuing.
A sober and independent woman who knows what she wants, just like Yang Jiang, is unambiguous in love, choosing one person to die and loving another.
Even if his lover has left, he has calmly seen through life and death, and he is still concerned about one place, not destroying the honor of old age.
A sober woman is like a mirror that can make herself transparent. As Bi Shumin said in that article, I am very grateful to my parents, but I don't blindly follow them.
There are many women in unhappy marriages, they just listen to their parents too much, and their parents pick thorns, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always stumbles.
No matter whose fault it is, he is confused but not self-aware, blames but does not introspect, takes the words of his parents as the standard, lacks self-judgment, and blindly starts from the perspective and cognition of his parents, and sows the seeds of an unhappy marriage.
No matter how close they are to their parents, they have to come to terms with the fact that the journey between parents and children is drifting apart. A truly intelligent woman knows that the second half of her life is spent with her lover and will not let her parents' opinions affect her life.
Some women think that they have mastered the hearts of men, thinking that as long as they are good-looking, they can easily capture the hearts of the other person.
In fact, relying on appearances, trying to attract men to their side is too superficial, and a really good man will never only stay on the surface of his appreciation for a person.
What's more, no one will be young forever, the face is short-lived, and the appearance attracts a man for a long time.
A truly intelligent woman will focus on cultivating her heart, because the attraction between a man and a woman is two people at the same frequency, and each other's hearts and hearts are close to each other.
Being an independent and sober woman is the shortest path to successful love.
At the same time, constantly cultivate your own heart and know how to pay attention to your own growth, even if there is no nourishment of love, such a woman will be full in heart and will not be too bad. Wisdom makes people feel terrible.
The best friend and her boyfriend have been together for three months, and under the coaxing of her boyfriend's sweet words, the best friend gave her all in exchange for her boyfriend's ruthless proposal to break up.
It turns out that when two people are together, the other party has never thought about the determination to go on with his girlfriend, but when he is lonely and bored, he uses his girlfriend as a temporary tool to relieve loneliness.
After getting along for three months, on the one hand, I got the beauty of the girl, and on the other hand, I was tired of getting along with the two, and I didn't look forward to the future, so I naturally separated when I was fresh.
If you love someone, you will give unreservedly, and if you don't love, you will be stingy and bargain.
If a man wants to be with you from the bottom of his heart, he will go out of his way to put a lot of energy into you.
They will spend time with you, they will invest their hearts in you, and they will plan their future with you.
On the contrary, everything will cease to exist, so be sure to keep your eyes open when looking for a lover and not blindly invest in the emotional vortex that seems to be true love.
When you find that a man is not completely honest emotionally, remember to carefully identify it, stop losses in time, and don't invest too much and cause harm to yourself.