A good friend is a timely rain in life, always by your side when you need it.
However, it is difficult to have a confidant in life, not all people are worthy of in-depth communication, and not all friends can always participate in their own lives.
Time is the best sieve of the human heart, it can isolate some hypocritical people from life, leaving only friends who live and die.
Some friends, like to put feelings on the lips, in fact, are not worth getting along, when you have these friends by your side, no matter how long the contact time, don't contact again, it's not worth it.
There is such a scene in Lu Yao's "Ordinary World": after Sun Shaoan made a fortune in a brick factory, the villagers came to him, hoping to find a job in his brick factory to subsidize the family.
Out of compassion and a sense of responsibility, Sun Shaoan expanded the scale of the brick factory, hoping to recruit more labor and solve the employment problem of many people in the village.
Unexpectedly, the first ignition failed, not only failed to make the villagers make money, but owed a large amount of debt, and even the wages could not be paid.
The attitude of the villagers has changed 180 degrees, no one sympathizes with Sun Shao'an, and many people have fallen into the ground, laughing at him for rushing forward, and even urging him to pay his unpaid wages.
The sudden change gave Sun Shaoan a taste of the world, and then tried to make a comeback, and never accepted anyone's request to work in his brick factory.
There is no shortage of such people in life, when you are in the landscape, they will appear around you and communicate with you as a high-profile friend;
When you hit a low point in your life, it will disappear before you have time to escape, let alone help you through.
People gather for profit and scatter for profit, such people are not called friends, at best, they are just partners who cannot share weal and woe. After seeing people's hearts clearly, don't continue to associate with them, whether you are rich or poor, you are far away from such people.
In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan and An Lingrong are a pair of sisters, they entered the palace together, but due to various misunderstandings and An Lingrong's ubiquitous glass heart, their love broke down.
Instead of treating Jane as her best friend, Ahn Lingrong devised a conspiracy against her. The most disgusting scene was when he carefully used Jane's carefully prepared scar gel.
As a result, Zhen Huan only knelt for two hours, and the baby was lost. After Shuzhenjiao's secret was discovered, the love between Zhen Huan and An Lingrong also disappeared.
When Zhen Huan returned to the palace, she had already taken An Lingrong as the object of revenge, and the two were originally very good friends, but in the end they became strangers.
There is no shortage of such people in life, who communicate as good friends, but behind their backs, they are scheming, so that the other party cannot realize their wishes, and they are restless when they see their girlfriends, but they are not happy.
People get along with each other, pay attention to sincerity, if you can't be sincere, then you are not called a real friend.
When a person is in the name of a friend, but constantly calculates you, don't blindly tolerate and forgive the other party, but recognize the facts, the other party does not regard you as a real friend, leave as soon as possible, do not make a deep friendship, so as not to let yourself be hurt more deeply.
The person who can really be called a friend is the one who can know you correctly with a tolerant heart, no matter what virtues you have.
Good friends will appreciate each other, can find sparkle in each other, and even if they don't, they will sincerely praise each other from the bottom of their hearts and will not look down on them.
Although "Ode to Joy" is about the friendship between the five beauties, it is undeniable that before Fan Shengmei's original family was **, Qu Xiaosha and Fan Shengmei could not be regarded as real friends.
Because in the former's heart, Fan Shengmei is a money-oriented "gold worshipper".
If two people do not interact on the basis of mutual appreciation, it is impossible to be true friends.
Good friends pay attention to equal and sincere communication, if one of them always puts himself on top, in a condescending posture, in the name of friendship, and get along with you, obviously, the other party is not real, there must be another purpose behind it.
A true friend is someone who doesn't get tired when getting along, someone who can show their true self in front of the other person without having to defend themselves.
A true friend is someone who cares about you from the bottom of their hearts, sees your achievements, is proud of you, and is not jealous;
True friends know how to appreciate each other, magnify your strengths, know your weaknesses, and can hide them automatically.