I really didn't expect that I had found a lifelong support, but it turned out to be like this," Aunt Li, who is in her 50s, sighed.
Aunt Li's self-report.
I am an ordinary retired worker who once had a failed marriage. This marriage made me disheartened.
When I was in my 20s, I was introduced to Li Feng. He was an electrical repairman who worked in a home power plant.
After getting married, after a few years, we didn't have any children, and Li Feng's unit was not profitable and closed. Li Feng opened a repair shop.
Li Feng's skills are good, the fees are reasonable, the business is getting better and better, one person can't be busy, and he hired a few helpers, and used a girl to take orders.
Gradually, I found that Li Feng was coming home later and later, and his eyes flickering when he was talking to me, as if he was hiding something from me.
One day, there was a power outage in my factory for maintenance, I wanted to go to the store to have a look, who knows, before I entered the door, I heard the voice of Li Feng and a woman talking in the house, the woman said, we already have a child, you should give me an explanation. Li Feng said, don't worry, I'll tell her when I go back, I will marry you, and she won't have children, what do you want her to do.
I was so angry that I pushed open the door and saw that the girl who was in charge of taking the order was sitting in Li Feng's arms, and the two of them were mixing oil in honey. When Li Feng saw me coming in, he was stunned for a moment, and then said, it's okay if you're here, I always wanted to tell you, but today you came, let's talk about it. Let's go apart, I have children too.
I broke up with Li Feng, I took a sum of money and rented a house by myself, forgetting all the unhappy things.
For many years after that, I lived on my own, freely. I don't want to find a man anymore, Li Feng hurt me too much.
After I retired, my life became empty without a job, and in order to pass the free time, I went to the park with my colleagues to dance and attend a party for the elderly.
At the party, I met Lao Ding, he is retired in the system, there are more than 8,000 per month, although more than 60, but Lao Ding seems to be only more than 50, elegant and graceful, and his speech is also funny and humorous, unconsciously, it attracted me, and I found that he is very popular.
However, he was different from others, he liked to talk to me, I was with him, he always knew what I wanted to buy, and he bought it for me before I could open my mouth. I was curious and asked him, how do you know I like that, and he said, I can see it in your eyes, I am so moved, as if I am back in my girlhood, I am deliberately pampered, it feels so good.
He said that he wanted to be with me, and also said that his salary card was given to me, and I was the mistress of this house. I asked him, why did so many people like you, why did you pick me?He said, you are elegant and demure, and you have a temperament that is indisputable, so I like you. I didn't even think that I was so good in his eyes.
In this way, I married Lao Ding, lived in his big house of more than 140 square meters, three bedrooms and two living rooms, and became the hostess.
Lao Ding handed me the salary card, and in the first few days, our days were so sweet, Lao Ding accompanied me to the park to play, we watched movies together, and went to the restaurant for dinner.
However, only a few days later, this evening, Lao Ding told me that tomorrow my son Ali's family of three will come over for dinner, they went out on a trip a few days ago, and now they are back, let me go to the supermarket in the morning to buy more vegetables. I nodded and agreed, at this time** rang, it was Lao Ding's grandson, he said in a milky voice in **, grandpa, I want to eat durian, steamed mandarin fish, and braised pork ribs....After saying a bunch, Lao Ding Xizi said, okay, okay, make it for the baby tomorrow.
The next morning, I bought the vegetables according to the menu, and was busy in the kitchen for a long time, at noon, the family of three came, Ali and his daughter-in-law called me mother sweetly, and the little grandson called my grandmother one by one, and it was so hot. I'm glad to hear it, and I'm going to have a good time.
After eating, the three sat in the hall and chatted with Lao Ding, I was a little tired, and wanted them to help wash the dishes, but I found that it seemed that the little couple didn't mean this, the first time they met, I was embarrassed to call someone to work, Lao Ding didn't speak, I could only wash the dishes by myself.
Later, when they left, they brought back a lot of vegetables and took away the uneaten durian.
I thought that they only came occasionally, who knows, I thought wrong, it turned out that Ali's house and Lao Ding are a community, just a few steps away.
Every day the couple got off work in the afternoon, they came to dinner with three people, and never cleaned up the bowls, went back after eating, and always the baby ordered, to eat this, eat that, only a few days, I was tired, the baby also said to people, my mother said, we don't have to cook, there is a free canteen, you can eat whatever you want.
In this way, the 8,000 yuan that Lao Ding gave me was not the expense of the two of us, but for 5 people, and the three of them had to eat and drink well, and they had to be served, and I also learned that I was not the mistress of this house at all, and it turned out that this house, before Ali's mother passed away, was transferred to Ali according to her wishes. What have I become, free nanny, house, money, I can't get anything, this old ding, just like Li Feng back then, deceived me.
I said to Lao Ding, Ali they have their own home, they should be independent, they can't always let us take care of it, we should have our own two-person world, Lao Ding said, Lao Du is old, how can it be so romantic, I said, I serve them every day, too tired, more than half of your salary is used on them, do you treat me as a nanny?The nanny eats and drinks for nothing, and she has to get 5,000 yuan, you say that I am the hostess, but this house does not belong to me.
Lao Ding said, I always thought that you had no quarrel with the world, but it turned out that like those people, you want a house and money, and the children call you mother, and the baby calls you grandma.
I said, I'm sorry, I'm not 18 years old, I'm past the age of being full of love and water, and if a man wants to be nice to a woman and make a woman feel secure, shouldn't he give a woman a house and financial security?
I packed my bag and left without looking back, okay, I'm dead, in this life, I'll live alone.