My hair and I grew up together, and it can be said that we have an intimate relationship that we talk about everything.
We played together, Xi together, and went through many ups and downs together.
In the process of growing up, we supported each other, helped each other, and established a deep friendship. Now because of 120,000 yuan, the relationship has become extremely tense.
A few years ago, my Fa Xiao borrowed 120,000 yuan from me on the grounds of capital turnover. At that time, he swore that he would return it on time, and I did not ask for any collateral out of trust in him.
So far, he has owed me a full 120,000 yuan, but he has refused to pay it back for various reasons. He said that he had no money and that he would sue if he wanted to, which made me feel very sad.
Faced with this situation, I started thinking about how to solve this problem.
I sent him a message on WeChat, telling him that I now have a mortgage and car loan to repay at home, and two children to raise, and I am under a lot of pressure, and I hope he will repay the money as soon as possible, but his attitude makes me feel helpless and disappointed.
He said at the beginning that he had no money in his hand, so he had to slow down, and when he had money, he would pay it back immediately.
But when I went back to my hometown, I heard people in the village say that he now bought a big villa outside and drove a luxury car.
I feel that I am a wedding dress made for others, my life is so hard, and I borrow money to fulfill the free life of others, I feel that I live like a clown.
I asked him on WeChat, you have the money to buy a good car and a good house, don't you have the money to pay me back?even scolded him angrily, saying that his behavior was an old man.
Maybe it was this sentence that angered him, he said, you don't have the ability to be jealous of my life, right, I have been inferior to you everywhere since I was a child, and now I live better than you, you are unbalanced in your heart, that's right, I'm just an old man, what's the matter, I just don't have money in my hand now, what will I give back to you, if you want to sue me!
I'm also angry, I never thought that one day, we would be so upset because of a sum of money.
I began to seek legal assistance, consulted a lawyer, and learned that there were legal avenues to recover my debts. However, this process takes a lot of time and effort, and the results are not always ideal. If the other party really doesn't have any money in his hand, there's no way.
After making my decision, I started to act.
I collected relevant evidentiary materials, including loan agreements, transfer records, etc. I then contacted a lawyer to consult with them about specific legal advice and procedures. Then start preparing the complaint and file a lawsuit in court. During the whole process, I remained calm and sane and was not disturbed by any external factors.
After a period of preparation and waiting, I finally ushered in the day of **. In court, I presented the whole incident and evidence to the judge. My hair was also defended and made a statement in court. After a heated debate and trial, the judge finally made a fair verdict: my small hair must return my arrears and bear the relevant legal costs.
He beat me up and scolded me, he said, brother, we grew up together, you are real, you are too immoral to do this.
I hold back my anger, who is unkind?You do the first year of junior high school, I do the fifteenth, since everyone wants to tear their faces, regardless of the friendship that they grew up together, then don't contact it in the future, I don't want to be friends with people like you, I can't afford to lose this face.
He said so, you withdraw the lawsuit, and I will pay you.
I said, I'll talk about it when I get it, I hung up **, and finally, I saw the transfer on Alipay, and the money I owed for many years finally returned to my pocket.
I chose to block his **, and I don't want to look at him more in the future, sometimes, I'm thinking, Shengmien, Dou Mi Qiu, if I don't lend him money, can the friendship between us continue to be maintained?