Parents refuse to commit suicide in the hospital The indifference behind the family, the distortion of human nature
As the saying goes"Tiger poison does not eat children", but some people, as well-developed animals, have more vicious hearts than tigers. There is such a father, his words and deeds not only refresh people's morality, but also expose some problems in his family.
The father refused to visit his seriously ill son in the hospital and, after his death, refused to sign the funeral contract. This college student should have reached the age to express himself, why did he commit suicide by drinking sulfuric acid?Why is his father so helpless?
Some time ago, many people called ** to show the young man's relatives, photographer Lu Daosheng said that Liu Xuezhou's decision to commit suicide because he was disappointed in his parents was full of sadness, because his parents, these two promising young people have no love and don't understand ruthlessness, they decided to commit suicide, and the whole network is regretting the cause of their death, and they are also condemning their parents: How can you give birth if you don't support you.
In the Affiliated Hospital of Shenyang Medical University, the young man who also suffered the pain of being abandoned was Lu Daoshen, and after experiencing Liu Xuezhou's heartache, the student's misery was unprecedentedly serious.
The attitude of the college student's father is almost incomprehensible. Not only did he ignore his son when he was seriously ill, but he also refused to sign the body claim form after his son's death, leaving his son's body in a state of adrift and unable to return to his roots.
The boy who committed suicide by drinking sulfuric acid is called Xiaofeng, a student, and the university is supposed to be a place for students to chase their dreams, but it has become the end of Xiaofeng's fate.
Xiaofeng's family is poor, and he was admitted to university through hard work, and Xiaofeng was not idle after going to college, he often used his spare time to study, save tuition, and thus reduce the burden on his family.
For his classmates, tuition may be just a small fee, but for Xiaofeng, it means nearly half a year or even a year's savings.
Although his family is poor, Xiaofeng is more sensible than his classmates, and he is more fortunate to meet his girlfriend Huang Hongju, who has the same idea as him, in college.
Even if the family is poor, Huang Hongju and Xiaofeng have endless topics, the two have a good impression of each other in their daily part-time jobs, Xiaofeng appreciates Huang Hongju's strong and sensible, and even more appreciates Xiaofeng's practical ability, and the two began to save money after dating.
After a year of hard work, they saved 5,000 yuan before the winter vacation, for others, 5,000 yuan may be just a month's salary, but for two students who are not deeply involved in the world, this is the sum of the items to go home on Chinese New Year's Eve"Reasonable"Means.
With their hard-earned 5,000 yuan, they happily boarded the train home, pulled their suitcases, looked at the shivering scenery outside the window, and looked forward to going home for the New Year.
Unconsciously, this Spring Festival should have been Xiaofeng's warmest festival, he should have taken his beloved girlfriend back to his hometown, sent his family newly bought clothes, held a family banquet, an unforgettable moment, but there were unforeseen circumstances, and Xiaofeng's journey back to his hometown turned into sadness.
As soon as he got out of the car, he found that his 5,000 yuan savings and luggage were gone, and Xiaofeng was obviously stolen.
In a panic, Xiao Feng immediately decided to call the police, but in the crowded streets, it was not so easy to find this mobile thief. Looking at the lost luggage and the tears of not having a return ticket, in the noisy street, Xiaofeng held his girlfriend's hand and thought about the solution to the problem.
Xiaofeng dialed his father's ** and wanted to go home early, in fact, he wanted his father to send him some travel expenses, but his father only heard his voice and asked him what he had a problem in a cold tone.
Xiao Feng said his request, and his father put down ** and wrote down two words"No money", Xiao Feng was silent for a long time, looked around to find a good girl to understand the situation, touched his girlfriend's head and walked into the crowd alone, not long after, Huang Hongju's girlfriend saw Xiao Feng in the crowd excited, curiously stepped forward, after seeing her boyfriend, fell to the ground and vomited a mouthful of blood.
Huang Hongju hurriedly dialed the emergency ** and waited anxiously outside the operating room, the doctor didn't know what happened to her, and said:"Your boyfriend has drunk sulfuric acid, which is life-threatening, and the family had better come to visit. "Only then did she know that her boyfriend was"Suicide by poisoning"。
Huang Hongju was stunned, listened to the doctor's words, hoped that her boyfriend would live well, and hoped that her boyfriend's family could come to the hospital to accompany her boyfriend, but when she dialed her boyfriend's family** to explain the situation, the other party took her as ** and hung up the earpiece.
When Huang Hongju hit ** again, Xiaofeng's father said:"We don't have the money to go to the hospital to see Xiaofeng. "Huang Hongju hung up the earpiece and was stunned. Huang Hongju's family is not wealthy, and she spent all her savings to treat her child, but now she can no longer find money to go to the hospital.
The doctor needs the signature of Xiaofeng's parents, but none of Xiaofeng's relatives are willing to sign, although Huang Hongju loves Xiaofeng, but there is nothing he can do, Xiaofeng's vital signs have dropped slightly, and finally died in the pain of frustration.
Xiaofeng's rescue was ineffective, the hospital needed relatives to take over the body, Huang Hongju thought that the family would take care of her son's body, but she didn't expect Xiaofeng's words and his father's performance to surprise her, Xiaofeng's father said:"We don't claim it, throw it away"。Huang Hongju's medical staff and expressions make people can't believe it: these are their biological parents.
Although Xiaofeng's parents tried their best to keep it, but Xiaofeng responded to the ground, Huang Hongju held a funeral for Xiaofeng with the help of caring people, Huang Hongju dressed in black, full of sadness, maybe in Xiaofeng's life, his girlfriend had become his lifeline.
Xiaofeng's funeral was held after Huang Hongju's disappearance, and when the news of their son's suicide was mentioned, Xiaofeng's parents cried, but they were more accusatory: Xiaofeng lied, often deceived relatives at home, he was not filial to his children, and now he is going to commit suicide again, this is really heartbreaking, children without parents have no parents!
Although ordinary people can't understand the behavior of the two white-haired old men, but face"Brunette sends brunette"The situation, they must not be comfortable.
Some people say: This pair of parents is really wonderful, their children's lives are in danger, they don't care about it, they are really infatuated parents, and their ruthlessness indirectly killed Xiaofeng;Some people also said: Xiaofeng's ability to bear is too weak, in the face of suffering, he should actively face the battle, not to escape by dying, suffering is just life.
The loss of money is only the fuse of Xiaofeng's suicide, we can't judge whether Xiaofeng's approach is right or wrong, and we can't condemn the moral behavior of Xiaofeng's parents, Xiaofeng's parents' behavior shocked many parents: to be kind to children is to be kind to yourself.