Lao Tzu said, "Good deeds have no track. ”
Throughout the ages, we have advocated doing good deeds, not leaving a name, and not expecting anything in return for helping others.
In fact, everything is traceable, and it is impossible to do it 100% without leaving a trace. At the same time, something of kindness, staying, is a manifestation of promoting positive energy, and it is not without benefits.
Kindness is inner compassion and a benign interaction between people.
The ancients left "two paintings", one is gratitude to relatives, and the other is gratitude to "outsiders", and the process of reciprocation is in it.
Yan Xishan's Mother": The person who raised you, the blood bond.
Yan Xishan was an important political and military figure during the ** period, and he was still somewhat angry during his military career.
When he was very young, his mother Qu Yueqing died of illness. He grew up with his grandfather. His father had remarried and didn't care much about him.
Looking at the playmates around him, all of whom have maternal love, he has mixed feelings in his heart.
After he became the governor of Shanxi, although he made some achievements, he missed his mother even more. So he hired a painter to paint his mother's face.
However, the mother did not leave any pictorial information and could only rely on the population to describe it, so the artist's paintings were not satisfactory.
Just when Yan Xishan was very disappointed, his playmate Liu Shisheng took the initiative.
Liu Shisheng and Yan Xishan are neighbors and can draw. With this level of relationship, Liu Shisheng received the task, and then lived in the village of his hometown for a while, chatting with the old people in the village, outlining the appearance of Yan Xishan's mother, and asking the old people in the village, repeatedly giving instructions.
When Liu Shisheng showed the painting to Yan Xishan, Yan Xishan burst into tears.
Whenever life was difficult, Yan Xishan would stand in front of the portrait of his mother and calm down to think. After the subordinates have explored this pattern, they will also use this opportunity to report their work and avoid being scolded.
As the saying goes, "Filial piety comes first." ”
Even people whose parents are not filial are not good. As you can imagine, being polite to outsiders and being polite to parents** is not the true meaning of life.
Do a good job of filial piety, and the fat and water do not flow into the field, but the reputation of the person spreads thousands of miles. What reason is there not to do such a good deed?
If you can't find a reason to do good, think about how your parents raised you and how much time and effort they put into it. There's always one or two things that touch people's hearts.
From now on, greet parents every three and a half dozen **;During the New Year's holidays, visit my parents;When you have free time, take your parents out and see the scenery;When you go out of town, see if there's anything you can bring with you.
If your parents are not alive, you will sacrifice sincerely, remember the kindness of your parents, and be kind to your brothers and sisters, and life will become warmer and the family will have a good example.
Portrait of Chen Duxiu": The person who helps you is toothless and unforgettable.
Portrait of Chen Duxiu is the work of female painter Pan Yuliang.
Speaking of the origin of this painting, it is the process of Pan Yuliang and Chen Duxiu helping each other.
As a teenager, Pan Yuliang became an orphan and was sold to a brothel by his uncle.
At the age of 17, she met Pan Zanhua, the director of Wuhu Customs, and bought her freedom.
Pan Zanhua wanted to send her home, but she refused. Because there is no family worth remembering, if the family is bullied again, it is to jump from the fire pit to the puddle.
After consideration, Pan Yuliang married Pan Zanhua and lived in Zhapu Road, Shanghai.
Chen Duxiu and Pan Zanhua are both from Anhui, and they started a newspaper together and formed a deep friendship. In addition, Chen Duxiu is a progressive young man who is very supportive of Pan Yuliang and Pan Zanhua's marriage and held a wedding.
After Chen Duxiu learned that Pan Yuliang loved painting, he encouraged her to study at the Shanghai Academy of Fine Arts. Since then, Pan Yuliang has entered the painting world.
For a while, Chen Duxiu was arrested and imprisoned in Beijing's Huqiao Prison, and Pan Yuliang visited the prison many times to find a way to rescue him.
She used the time she spent visiting the prison to observe Chen Duxiu's every move, and created a work "Portrait of Chen Duxiu", which was exhibited publicly.
Many people, when they meet someone who helps them, they simply invite them to dinner or give them a red envelope in return. As we all know, such kindness is not enough.
The life of an adult is very busy, and if you want to participate in the dinner, you are helpless. If you accept gifts, you are also suspected of **. Some useless gifts, at home, are also troublesome.
We don't have the skill to paint, but we can write a text, or talk to the younger generation about the benefactor, and promote the benefactor with the outside world, then we have "great benevolence".
For example, the writer Mo Yan, when his family was poor, the neighbor's aunt lent him a bowl of rice. Such trivial things later became paragraphs in Mo Yan's articles.
There are many ways to "spring": help each other in times of need;Advocate good deeds and get more people involved;Sending banners to those who do good deeds and leaving traces of physical objects;Turn benefactors into relatives and friends, and usually walk more;The younger generation of your benefactor needs help, and you have to be proactive.
People, if you are kind, you must leave some traces, and don't turn kindness into a gust of wind, which comes and goes without a trace.
A painting carries goodwill, then the painting will remain in the mind, and it will prompt a person to yearn for beauty.
If you have many moving images and interactions in your life, then your journey is warm.
Calm down, what are you seeing?
Mothers arched their backs, farmed, and sent their children on long journeys;My father was busy at the construction site, sweating profuselyThe teacher is on the podium, imparting knowledge;A friend lends you a few dollars to help you find a job.