The post-80s occasionally go, the post-90s don't want to go, the post-00s don't go at all, and the Chinese-style visit relatives and friends, is it really going to be lost in the hands of young people?Behind the excuse of being busy, how many people are helpless and sad?
In the past, visiting relatives and friends in the countryside was a simple and intimate daily scene. In the family, everyone will prepare a well-prepared meal for this home visit. The table is filled with fragrant pastries, sweets and local specialties.
The family walked to the relative's house with the prepared gifts, and the family walked the muddy path togetherDeparting from their doorstep, with the first rays of the morning sun, they headed for their destination. But such a New Year's greeting scene soon changed in the back.
The post-80s generation, due to the pressure of life and family responsibilities, they bring the memories of their relatives who followed their parents when they were children into adulthood.
However, as time passed, the post-80s generation gradually took on more responsibilities. Their parents are getting old, and the burden of the family is gradually weighing on their shoulders. The experience of visiting relatives with my parents has now become a precious memory. Although the pace of life is fast, the post-80s generation, under the urging of their parents, will occasionally walk around during the festival.
They may not be as excited as they were when they were children, but visiting relatives is still an important way for them to socialize. Even in the busy work and life, I can reunite with my family, relatives and friendsIt is a deeply emotional experience.
Although the pressure and pace of life in modern society have made this kind of visit to relatives less frequent, it still retains a special emotion, a nostalgia for the past years.
The post-90s generation grew up in a relatively affluent environment, and as only children, their status in the family is particularly special. Unlike in the past,The post-90s generation gradually lost their interest and enthusiasm for traditional relatives. They are more likely to stay at home during the Chinese New Year and stay connected with their loved ones through the internet.
This generation grew up in a very different environment from the post-80s and post-70s, living in an era of Internet popularization and rapid development of information technology.
This new way of communication makes them more inclined to keep communicating at home through mobile phones, computers, and other devices. Compared with traditional visits to relatives and friends, they enjoy the convenience and comfort of communicating with friends and family at home.
The post-00s generation of young people has grown up in a thriving social environment. They are more exposed to new technologies and diverse lifestyles than previous generations. The rapid development of society has not only changed their daily lives, but also affected their communication and relationships with their relatives.
With the rapid development of society, the process of urbanization has accelerated, which has widened the distance between families. Family members are distributed in different cities and even different regions, which makes it more and more difficult for the post-00s to visit relatives.
The traditional kinship model is incompatible with the diversity of their lives. They are more inclined to maintain communication with friends and peers through modern technological means such as mobile phones and computers, which also makes the traditional visit to relatives become dispensable for them.
Moreover, their perception of family relationships is also different from before. Visiting relatives is no longer an inevitable traditional Xi in their lives, but a choice.
Compared with the past, they pay more attention to their life circle and social circleThey are more inclined to be with like-minded people, which also makes them more willing to choose activities that interest them during the holidays.
Although the way and frequency of communication between them and their relatives has changed, it does not mean that they do not value family affection. On a special day,The post-00s will still exchange greetings with relatives through **, etc., to express holiday blessings.
The rapid development of society has brought greater pressure on young people in life. In modern society, the work environment is highly competitive, and the work pressure is generally high. With that comes more time to devote to work to cater to an increasingly competitive environment. As a result of their busy schedules, young people spend less and less time visiting relatives and friends.
In addition to work pressure, regional differences are also one of the reasons for the decrease in the number of relatives. With the difference in urban and rural development, many young people choose to work or live in cities, while most of their families and relatives are concentrated in rural areas. Such regional differences have led to an increase in the cost of visiting relatives, making communication between relatives less frequent and convenient than in the past.
Due to work pressure and geographical differences,Young people's time for rest and self-regulation has been drastically curtailed. In order to pursue a better life and development, they may have to give up the time spent with relatives and choose to devote more energy to work. This situation makes it more difficult for them to have time to maintain family relationships, and it also makes traditional family visits more and more rare.
In addition, the comparison mentality between relatives in rural areas has also become one of the factors that young people are reluctant to leave their relatives. With the development of society and economic progress, the exchange between relatives is not simply a family exchangeAnd it is often filled with a certain degree of comparison psychologyEspecially on such an important occasion as the Chinese New Year.
In the traditional Chinese New Year visit to relatives, people will inevitably compare the situation between relatives, and this comparison is often accompanied by the mood of comparison.
The occasion of visiting relatives is filled with various discussions about the work, income, living situation of family members, etcThis makes visiting relatives a kind of platform for "showing off" and "competing". Young people feel stressed and embarrassed in this scenario, and they are reluctant to be the focus of conversation among their relatives.
This comparison mentality also makes communication between relatives more complicated and uncomfortable. Young people may face various expectations and judgments from their relatives, such as income from work and living conditions, which makes them feel stressed.
This kind of comparison psychology makes the New Year's meeting no longer a simple greeting, but involves a variety of sensitive topicsYoung people are therefore more inclined to avoid this awkward situationChoose to stay home or do activities that are more enjoyable for you.
"Breaking off kinship" does not mean the end of family affection, but the diversification and modernization of family expressions. Society is developing, people's lifestyles and concepts are also changing, and the reconstruction of family relationships is gradually taking place. Maintaining respect and understanding, and embracing different expressions, may be a better way to maintain family relationships in these times of change.