Wen Ye Feifei YFF
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In reality, some women will still contact their exes after breaking up, in fact, there is a reason for this.
For women, their hearts will be very sensitive and fragile, and they have invested in true love, even if the relationship is over, they cannot withdraw in time.
When she can't let go of you in her heart, she can't help but want to contact you, hoping to renew her relationship with you.
Of course, there are also some women who have another psychology and have nothing to do with love, but just want to continue to get comfort and help from you.
She may be accustomed to your presence and companionship, and she is also accustomed to your dedication, and suddenly loses all this, which is unbearable, so she puts down her reserve and takes the initiative to get closer to you.
In the final analysis, after a breakup, a woman still contacts her ex, and generally has the following psychology:
After the breakup, the woman still contacts you, the biggest possibility is that she still loves you in her heart and can't let go of the past.
Once, she invested deep affection in you, looking forward to a better future, and it was difficult to bear the blow of loss.
The moment she waved goodbye to you, she was very sad inside, and this pain was too much for her to bear.
Therefore, after a ** tearful and sad feeling, she really wants to redeem you, hoping that the past love can continue to go on.
As a result, she can't help but send you a message, looking forward to reconnecting with you, and longing for old love**.
The more a woman loves you, the more she can't let go of her past emotions, and she will continue to invest in it, hoping to move you with her true feelings.
Even, when a woman's emotions are difficult to control, she will come to you personally, hoping to connect with you.
Perhaps, she didn't say her purpose directly, but she came to you and continued to contact you, which proves that the love for you still exists.
Therefore, if a man finds that after the breakup, the woman still contacts you, he should pay attention to it, if you also miss her, it is better to join hands with her to renew the good relationship, maybe you will gain a better love.
After the breakup, the woman also contacts her ex, maybe it has nothing to do with love, but she treats you as a good spare tire.
This kind of woman will no longer be as involved in true love as in the past, but approach you with some kind of purpose.
On the surface, they are very welcoming to youIn fact, I hope that you will continue to take care of them and provide them with more living security.
For example, if she is in a bad mood, she will contact you to comfort her, care for her, and dispel the pain of loneliness for her.
Or, when she is in trouble, she will also contact you, hoping that you will help, give her money and materials, and accompany her through the difficulties.
For another example, she pretends to have feelings for you and keeps connecting with you, but in fact she enjoys your efforts.
Until she meets someone better, she will use you as a spare tire to fill the gap in her relationship and life.
Therefore, when a man finds out that a woman has broken up and comes to you again, he should also be more vigilant to avoid gains and losses in the relationship.
Women will contact their exes after breaking up, and there is also a psychology that they are used to your existence and cannot get out of the feelings they have paid.
This kind of woman used to love you very much, depended on you for everything, and was used to your care and love.
Therefore, when she lives alone after the breakup, she suddenly finds that something is missing and will be very miserable.
Even, after she left, she didn't know how to take care of herself, she didn't know how to live better, and she always remembered the past.
She will often think about the past and feel that with you by her side, everything can be handled and life is going well.
But,When she doesn't have your company by her side, she suddenly gets used to itIt seems that life also has a lot of difficulties, and it is difficult to deal with trivial matters alone.
Therefore, she can't help but contact you, hoping that you can continue to accompany her, take care of her, and even rebuild a relationship with you and fall in love together.
Ye Feifei YFF emotional message:
To sum up, after a breakup, women still contact their exes, and generally have these kinds of psychology:
I still love you, and I can't let go of the past;Treat you as a spare tire, and hope you continue to pay;I'm used to your presence, and I can't get out.
It can be seen that when a relationship ends, the woman is still in contact with you, with a different psychology.
Men need to judge women's emotions according to the actual situation, and if it is worth it, it is better to re-accept.
Of course, if you find that a woman has ulterior motives and the relationship is not worth developing, you can also refuse it tactfully, and you don't have to dwell on it.
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