Tao Te Ching Cloud:When the sergeant heard this, he persuaded him to do itWhen the sergeant heard this, if he survived, he diedWhen the corporal heard this, he laughed
This ancient adage reminds us that the way to live in the world lies in foresight.
In interpersonal communication, people at high and low levels often have different ways of getting along.
So, what is the greatest vision of being a human being?
People are not proud
In the position of man,Not being arrogant is true wisdom
There was once a literary scholar in the Tang Dynasty, who made achievements in literature and painting, and also became a great official in the officialdom.
However, instead of being arrogant and looking down on others, he is known for his low profile and humility.
Just like Bai Juyi, a student in the Tang Dynasty, he sought the help of the situation, but the situation was indifferent to fame and fortune and advocated literary talent.
His low profile has attracted the respect and trust of more people.
"Too many people, mixed up at the top, immediately show a swaggering appearanceThe words are a few decibels higher, and all kinds of words that look down on people are on the lipsTreat low-level people as if they were their own slaves"This phenomenon is not uncommon.
The higher the level of a truly far-sighted person, the more introverted he is.
"During the Tang Dynasty, he had achievements in literature and painting, and he was also a big official in Chang'an City, and he was very famous
Such people, their voices are often the same"Big Voice"., pay more attention to their own cultivation and literacy.
People don't complain
Life is at the bottom,Rise to the challenge with peace of mind
People at the bottom often face difficulties and pressures, but this is not a reason to complain.
In the process of chasing dreams at the bottom, we must work hard bravely and turn our vision into practical action, so that we can gradually change our destiny.
"People are poor, and they must have backboneIf you think of yourself as a normal person and maintain a positive attitude, you will be looked down uponThis sentence expresses the attitude of the poor.
Dare to self-affirm and not give up easily"The people who the society wants to help are those who dare to work hard, and they are never people who are willing to fall
Poor people should not be synonymous with complaining, but a symbol of positivity.
"People don't complain, forge aheadNo matter where you are, you need to keep moving forward.
In the workplace, if you want to be recognized and promoted, you need to be aggressive.
"As for people, first of all, they must look down on themselvesIf you look down on yourself, how can you expect respect from others?
There is no group among people
Independent thinking is the first step in being unbeatable
In the midst of all people, do not follow the crowd, do not blindly follow others, in order to keep a clear mind.
"A swan, mixed in a flock of chickens and ducks, is an ugly duckling, bullied by ducksWhen the swan leaves the chickens and ducks and swims in the lake, it becomes a real swanThis fable illustrates that only by standing out and daring to be independent can you show your true value.
Tang Bohu said: 'Others laugh at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at others who can't see through it.'
People can't stay in one group all their lives, they must go out of the low-level group and go to the high-level group according to their own development.
In other words, people need to choose a group that suits them according to their own development and goals, and not be limited by the group.
Life is a mirror, and whatever posture you have, you will live to what levelThis is a realistic view that is worth pondering for everyone.
People's living conditions and attitudes determine their situation. Different postures will determine the height of life.
Vision and development
Climb high and look into the distance, and see the mountains at a glanceLook down at the road, step by step
On the stage of life, we need to be able to not only see the future and see the overall situation of life, but also be down-to-earth and take one step at a time.
"People are in high places, keeping a low profile, not incompetent, but introverted, consolidating their own mass base
People are in a low place, full of confidence, not blindly confident, but step by step, accumulation
Life development is not always easy, and it is necessary to maintain stability in the midst of foresight and development ups and downs.
"People are in the middle, they do not dislike the group, they do not please the group, they are neither humble nor arrogant, and they live as the mainstay of the groupNeutral but not mediocre, it is a state of relative peace.
Of course, we also have to judge how the people around us will develop, and be in the company of those who are also actively struggling, and stay away from those who are resigned to fate.
We need to choose to be in the company of like-minded people, motivate each other and make progress together.
Life is destined to be ups and downs, you should never let yourself live in a straight line, let alone be cocooned
The twists and turns and ups and downs of life are something that everyone experiences.
In the process, holdVisionary, not arrogant, not resentful, not grouped, is a manifestation of wisdom.
In this way, we can walk more firmly on the journey of life, see more clearly, and live more vividly.
Looking to the distant future, we will better write our own stories.