As people enter old age, they begin to face more problems, such as loneliness, loneliness, boredom, and illness. ForWidowedFor the elderly, they have experienced the pain of losing their lovers, leaving only loneliness and loneliness, hoping to have their children by their side, but often the children are busy with their ownlifecareer, unable to take care of the elderly wholeheartedly. ManyWidowedThe old man is lonelylifeto find a suitable partner to live with. However, we have a different voice - Uncle Wang told us: finding a wife to live with is not necessarily worry-free, it is better to find a nanny to accompany you more comfortably. Next, let's listen to Uncle Wang's story.
Uncle Wang is an old man who has recently retired, who used to work as a section-level cadre in an agency, and now has a pension of 7,000 yuan per month. His lover passed away unexpectedly for many years, and Uncle Wang only realized that there was no one to accompany him after he retiredlifeHow painful it was. In the past, Uncle Wang went to work every day, although he felt a little lonely, but he ate in the canteen of the unit, and went home to watch TV at night and went to sleep. However, after retirement, Uncle Wang faced the problem of grocery shopping, cooking, etclifeThe pain that comes with trifles. DaughterChinese New YearHe only went home once, and usually he was idle at home all day, and there was no one to talk to. Uncle Wang felt like he was going crazy. Later, Uncle Wang met a 50-year-old woman named Wang Fen in the community, she was beautiful, slender, single, and liked to dance. In order to get close to Wang Fen, Uncle Wang deliberately learned to dance, often went to the place where he danced, and slowly got to know Wang Fen.
Uncle Wang expressed his liking for Wang Fen, and Wang Fen did not refuse, but expressed his willingness to try to see if it was suitable. From that day on, Uncle Wang and Wang Fen lived together, and Wang Fen was also a virtuous woman who took care of Uncle WanglifeVery thoughtful. Uncle Wang is proud that he has a good eye and has found a partner who is both beautiful and virtuous. However, Uncle Wang didn't spend a few days with Wang Fen before he discovered her reality and materialism. Wang Fen always plays tricks to defraud Uncle Wang's money, once Uncle Wang doesn't give money, she will "strike" and not do housework, and she is indifferent to Uncle Wang. Through some calculations, Uncle Wang found that he and Wang Fen had only been together for 12 days, but they were cheated out of 20,000 yuan. Wang Fen sometimes said that her parents needed money when they were sick, and sometimes she said that she needed money for the end of medical insurance payments. Uncle Wang later learned that these were all lies, and Wang Fen took all the money to his daughter. Originally, there was no problem with giving money to her daughter, but once she didn't give money, Wang Fen would be unhappy with Uncle Wang. In the end, Uncle Wang calmed down and realized that such a woman couldn't afford to spend on his own, so he broke up with Wang Fen.
Later, at the suggestion of a friend, Uncle Wang hired oneLive-in nannyto take care of yourselflife。The babysitter's name isZhang Xia, 52 years old, chubby but looking energetic. Uncle Wang givesZhang Xia5000 yuan per month salary, whileZhang XiaPerform the duties of a nanny very seriously. Not only are the three meals a day delicious, but the housework is also well organized. Due toZhang Xiais from a rural area, she is very grateful to Uncle Wang for giving her this job, and from time to time she will bring some hometown specialties to Uncle Wang. Over time,Zhang Xiais becoming more and more familiar with Uncle Wang, she is a warm-hearted and grateful person.
On holidays and weekendsZhang XiaSeeing that Uncle Wang was alone, he would take him back to his hometown to participate in lively activities together. Uncle Wang deeply realized that in his later years, he spent money to find a nanny to take care of himselflifeis the most scientific choice, and you don't have to worry about being counted for money. A real friendship can also be formed between him and the nanny, who will continue to take care of his daily routinelife。In Uncle Wang's opinion, he is no longer lonely, someone accompanies him to chat, and someone is responsible for housework, so why bother to find another female companion to make himself angry?PresentlifeIt's already good.
Old age in old agelifeThere are many ways to do it, and everyone needs to find the one that works for them. While there is nothing wrong with the idea that many elderly people will choose to find another partner to accompany them, you must understand that an elderly partnerlifeIt may not be as simple as you think, and once you choose the wrong person, the consequences can be very serious and very troublesome. Therefore, I recommend that you exercise more in your later years and maintain a good attitude. If you can really find a partner who is good to you and trustworthy, you can be togetherlife, but everyone must be more careful. Please remember to give me a thumbs up.