Family education plays a vital role in a child's development. As a child's first teacher, every word and deed of parents can profoundly affect every aspect of the child. However, parents' educational styles and attitudes are very different, and different family backgrounds will also bring different educational resources and opportunities. Therefore, some children from low-income families can also become school bullies through their own efforts and achieve a counterattack from the social class, which also has the bitterness and pain of their parents.
Parents' attitudes and ways of educating are influenced by their level of education, economic conditions, and life experiences. Some parents have a limited level of education and cannot provide more help and guidance for their children's learning, so they can only let their children explore on their own. Some families are not financially well-off, and parents need to work long hours to make ends meet, and they are unable to provide expensive educational resources for their children. There are also some parents who do not understand the filling in and major selection of the college entrance examination, but just blindly follow or listen to the voices around them, which makes it easy for their children to embark on a path that is not suitable for them.
Even if students from low-income families can be admitted to prestigious schools, such as Tsinghua University, it does not mean that they can easily adapt and integrate into this environment of high-quality educational resources. Compared with students who have been trained by elite education and have superior family conditions, students from low-income families need to put in more effort to achieve their goals. They need to constantly surpass themselves and strive to climb the heights in order to be able to adapt to this new environment.
The suffering of students from low-level families is mainly reflected in two aspects. First, they face tremendous pressure from their families and society. The financial burden of the family makes them carry more responsibilities and expectations, and they need to do well in their studies and win glory for their families. At the same time, they need to face doubts and unfair treatment from society. Society's prejudice and discrimination against students at the bottom will bring them mental torture and pressure.
Secondly, students from low-income families often face difficulties and challenges in learning. Compared with students who have been trained by high-quality educational resources, they have a late start in academics and have limited knowledge reserves, so they need to work harder to keep up. At the same time, lacking the help and guidance of their families, they may feel confused when choosing a major and planning their academic direction. They need to overcome difficulties and realize their ideals through their own efforts and unremitting exploration.
Although parents from underprivileged families are unable to provide expensive educational resources and guidance for their children, they can still provide some help in their children's development. First of all, the impact of parents' actions and words and actions on children is crucial. A good family environment and family relationships can cultivate children's good moral character and behavioral habits, so that they can become excellent students who know how to be polite and respect others.
Secondly, the encouragement and praise of parents is also crucial for the development of children. Affirmation and support from parents can motivate children to be motivated and confident, allowing them to work harder to learn and grow. On the other hand, if parents only care about belittling and criticizing their children, no matter how much they achieve, they will not be rewarded as they should be, which will reduce their children's motivation and self-confidence.
Finally, parents are the mirror of their children, and their speech and behavior can have a profound impact on their children. Children gradually shape their own behavior and ways of thinking by observing their parents' behavior and imitating their ways. Therefore, parents should grasp the scale and guide their children correctly when educating their children, rather than over-controlling their children's lives.
Parents' education methods and concepts are one of the important factors affecting children's development. Students from low-income families are able to counterattack and realize their dreams, with their own efforts and courage behind them, as well as the bitterness and pain of their parents. The help that parents can provide for their children's growth includes: good role models, positive encouragement and appreciation, and correct guidance. However, parents should also pay attention to the right mentality, let their children struggle and explore on their own, and achieve their own growth.
In the eyes of most people, Tsinghua University and Peking University are also "ceiling" level universities. Every year, it attracts a large number of students to apply for the exam. But being able to be admitted to such a university with "naked scores" is just as mentioned in the article "rare". Especially for low-level students, it is even more precious. Students from low-level families can develop into academic tyrants and achieve a counterattack from the social class, with the bitterness and pain of their parents behind them. Some students from superior family conditions have failed to develop their excellence due to their laziness and waste. Our life needs to be achieved by our own efforts. If the parents' words are incorrect or even misleading, it will lead the students to "go astray" in a vague way. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the right position when educating their children, and do not always want to control each other's lives.
Different family backgrounds can affect a child's educational resources and opportunities, and parents play a vital role in their child's development. Their three views and thinking concepts will deeply affect the growth of children. Parents can help their children grow by setting a good example of behavior, providing positive encouragement and appreciation, and providing the right guidance. At the same time, the family should give children a good environment for growth, and pay attention to the cultivation of family relationships and the importance of family education. As everyone knows, some students from low-level families can counterattack and realize their dreams, behind which there are their own efforts and courage, as well as the bitterness and pain of their parents. The influence of parents on their children is profound, but children also need to have their own efforts and struggles to be able to achieve their dreams.