Never expose your sense of need lightly. In this world, everyone is like a chip in a casino, and when you show a "you have to be" gesture, others can see your intentions at a glance. If a person sees your low profile, they will subconsciously feel that you are "unworthy" of him.
No matter how much you want something or someone, learn to hide your sense of need, just like playing cards, so that others can't guess your hole cards so that you can be in control.
Never feel inferior or feel inferior to others. It doesn't matter if a person has money or not, and how much money they have, it doesn't matter to you. Some people are too afraid of authority and become timid when they see someone better than themselves or someone who is pretentious, but they don't know that many people's sense of superiority is disguised.
Judging a person's strength depends on their social circle, not their clothing, ride, or diet. If the person's circle is very high-level, then there is a high probability that they are really powerful; But if the person only has a suit and a luxury car, then these are probably just for posturing, and they may actually be destitute.
Don't blindly strive for the high. Those seemingly tall circle of friends, some people are selling products through it, and some people are using it to catch Kaizi and pick up girls. If you're not doing it for these two purposes, you have to control your desire to show off, learn to keep a low profile, and make a lot of money quietly.
Some people can't wait for the whole world to know about a little achievement, but what they don't know is that doing so will only attract the envy of others and make them keep pulling you back and throwing dirt on you. Learn to hide yourself in order to stay away from those jealous eyes and go further.
The human heart is sinister, and human nature is ugly. Everyone is praising morality, but not many people have morality. The human heart is sometimes more terrible than the devil, and human nature is sometimes much uglier than you think. Those who are turned away by you, or who are only in a hurry, may hold a grudge against you for your indifference, or devalue you behind your back. Therefore, when interacting with others, once you notice that the other person has the slightest sign of wrongness, you should immediately be vigilant and learn to protect yourself.
Don't think about getting rich overnight. The probability of this happening is even lower than winning the lottery. The poorer you are, the less you should think about overtaking in a corner, because pie will not fall from the sky. Those stories of seemingly easy success and overnight wealth often hide countless painstaking efforts and efforts. If someone really claims that there is an opportunity to make you rich overnight, it is likely to be a trap, either a trick or a huge pit waiting for you to jump into.
Don't care too much about what other people think of you, especially those who aren't related to you. They like to spray you, envy you, and deliberately hit you, all of which are deliberately adding fuel to your mental exhaustion. The sage Wang Yangming had seen through all this early on, and he told us that the secret to controlling emotions is not to take them seriously.
If you care too much about what others think of you, you're doomed. The worst side of the human heart is that you can't see that you are better off than others. Remember, apart from life and death, everything else is trivial, not even a scrape.
Be cautious when choosing who to confide in. Talking too much can cause you unnecessary trouble. When the relationship is weakened, the things you once confided in may be used as a talking point with someone you once trusted, and even after a conflict or a turn of face, these former candors may become a weapon against you. Remember: don't share your personal information and emotions with others easily, cherish your inner world, and keep a certain distance so that you can better protect your safety and happiness.
Don't make promises blindly, behind every promise is a responsibility and an expectation. Unfulfilled promises bring not only disappointment and misunderstanding to others, but also damage to one's own credibility.