In addition to Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu, Xiao Lian and Liu Chunjiang have become the most unacceptable pair for the audience.
One of them chose to cut his hair and enter the empty door, while the other died of a shortage of anger**.
Why can't a person who loves each other so much come together?
Some believe that if there is to blame, it can only be blamed on the feudal hierarchy.
However, in addition to the feudal hierarchy, I think that what led to the tragedy of Xiao Ren and Liu Chunjiang was actually their own behavior.
Why is it said like that?Next, I will do a detailed analysis for you.
First of all, from Xiao Lian's perspective, I think she has always lacked enough trust in Liu Chunjiang's deep affection for her.
On the occasion of the Xia family's wedding, Liu Chunjiang fell in love with Xiao Ren at first sight, and since then he has continued to write letters to Xiao Ren to express his deep affection for her.
However, when faced with Liu Chunjiang's fiery emotions, Xiao Lian always chose to escape.
With the appearance of Lin Jiani, Xiao Ren became more afraid of competing with Miss Lin, who was from a higher background than her, for Liu Chunjiang, and in the end she even chose to hide in the temple.
Liu Chunjiang found Xiao Lian, and after she returned from the temple, her attitude towards Liu Chunjiang was still evasive. If it weren't for Liu Chunjiang's illness that touched her, she might not have agreed to elope with Liu Chunjiang.
In the emotional journey with Liu Chunjiang, Xiao Ren has always maintained a negative evasive mentality. Although she did not dare to be presumptuous because of her family background and social status, she could not fully trust him considering the man's sincere feelings for her. The two should work together to muster courage for this relationship?
The emotional twists and turns between Xiao Ren and Liu Chunjiang are partly due to Xiao Lian's distrust of Liu Chunjiang.
The reason why she chose to become a monk was that she clearly knew that when Liu Chunjiang found out that he had married the wrong person, he came back to her and insisted on being ordained a monk, so she couldn't wait for Liu Chunjiang's decision, should the two of them find a way to elope together?
Since we have gone through so many difficulties and trials, why can't we hold on for a while longer?
Moreover, from Liu Chunjiang's point of view, his weak character and insufficient resistance to pressure are the reasons for this.
Although Liu Chunjiang returned from overseas and was influenced by modern thoughts, he still retained his views on the feudal family in his heart, and he never dared to easily disobey his parents' choices.
When his parents arranged a blind date for him and Miss Lin, his resistance was not particularly fierce, at most he could only be said to be a hunger strike.
Why can't Liu Chunjiang firmly oppose the blind date arranged for him by his parents?The reason is very simple, he is afraid that if his marriage fails, he will be blamed and opposed by his family and society. On the one hand, his character seems too weak, and Father Lin dares to make decisions for him so unscrupulously because he accurately grasps his son's cowardly character. However, as long as Liu Chunjiang was a little stronger, the Lin family and his wife did not dare to ignore their son's demands easily.
From another point of view, I think Lin Chunjiang still has some expectations for his parents, he thinks that maybe one day, his parents will agree to him being with Xiao Lian, but he doesn't know that he will never be able to wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.
In addition to the previous mention, the love tragedy between him and Xiao Ren is mainly due to the fact that he is under too little pressure.
What is shocking is that Liu Chunjiang, as an adult man, has such a low psychological endurance.
After breaking up with Xiao Ren, his mental state completely collapsed?In this case, shouldn't we think carefully about how to plan the next elopement?There's no real point in just having a nervous breakdown?
As soon as I saw Xiao Lian choose to become a monk, I was so angry that she died unfortunatelyWhat do you call this?If you shave your hair, won't it be longer?Is it really so angry that you want to die?
I have to say that he was spoiled by a good family environment and his parents since he was a child, and they protected him so well that he did not go through too many difficulties and tribulations, so a small blow was enough to break him.
If you have been beaten a lot since you were a child and have eight mouths a day, you will not be so easily injured when you grow up.
Here's a summary.
The love pathos between Liu Chunjiang and Xiao Lian is influenced by the feudal family concept and is regarded as the biggest **.
However, in addition to this aspect, I think it is also inextricably linked to themselves.
One of them chased like a moth to a fire, while the other always had a negative evasive mentality.
In fact, as long as Xiao Lian has more trust in Liu Chunjiang, Liu Chunjiang can also show more strength, and I am sure that the ending of the matter will not be so tragic.
Alas, it can only be said that it was fate, but it was fate!
** on the topic: What factors do people generally think lead to the love pathos between Xiao Lian and Liu Chunjiang?