At that time, Mi Shu was in the mood for love, and met King Qin on the street by chance and was heroically rescued by him, and since then he has a deep affection for him.
It's also understandable when you think about it. After all, at the young age of a girl, she has been favored and cared for in the deep palace since she was a child. Suddenly, she meets a man who is both tall and brave and full of wild charm, which moves the girl's heart.
Mi Shu chose the wrong path in life after meeting Queen Qin, and she lived a carefree life in the first half of her life under the protection of Chu Wei and Hou Yi. However, in the second half of her life, because of a heart-warming experience, her peaceful life slowly cracked a terrifying opening.
Whether a person is truly in love with another person is a very obvious question, and those who have seen the true face of love can more clearly judge whether a man truly loves him.
Mi Shu's heart is full of deep attachment to love, but as her audience, we have paid a huge price for her love.
The emotions between the post stations are deep and emotional.
If Chu Feng was open at that time, and both men and women had to follow the etiquette of the Duke of Zhou before they got married, it did not mean that King Qin did not pay enough attention to Mi Shu. But if he uses Mishu's reputation to achieve his own political goals of marriage, then this situation cannot be avoided.
Huanhao is actually not a big deal, when she knew that the outcome of the marriage was not yet clear, she deliberately arranged for someone to spread rumors that Mi Shu was having an affair with her, and used Mi Shu's name to force her mother and brother to agree to her request, which is completely different from hooliganism
Regardless of whether his behavior is above board or not, if the marriage is not successful, King Qin can choose to leave and continue his marriage with the princesses of other countries, but this may bring irreparable damage to Mi Shu.
Mishu's reputation is not prominent, and if she is unfortunate enough to conceive a child and encounter political conflicts, she could be seriously damaged for the rest of her life.
If a man really falls in love with a woman, he will not use her sincerity as a bargaining chip, and King Qin has calculated and used Mi Shu from the beginning.
It has to be mentioned that the original goals of King Qin and Mi Shu seem to be completely opposite, one focuses on the planning of political affairs and national events, while the other focuses on emotional discussions.
However, in those days, male power was supreme, and women tended to shed tears when men conquered the country.
On the day of the wedding, let the other party provoke.
When a man is genuinely in love with a woman, and when other women bully his woman, he will never sit idly by.
On their wedding day, Lady Wei openly provoked Mi Shu, and King Qin was not unaware, but he chose to remain indifferent to it.
Although Mrs. Wei made many insulting remarks about Mi Shu, if it weren't for Mi Yue's eagerness to protect her sister, Mi Shu's ending at that time might not have been optimistic.
I have to say that due to the lack of love, I naturally don't want to anger Mrs. Wei because of the other party.
On the wedding night, words were struck.
When the wedding is going on, it is acceptable if it is not properly maintained, especially on the wedding night.
It is not allowed to be spoiled anymore, nor is it allowed to cause trouble, and after marrying, you must become a virtuous wife, a mother, and a role model in the harem.
The key to truly loving someone is whether she is living her life well and whether she has been wronged, rather than compromising in order to be a role model for a certain woman.
Ties a loved one to the moral pillar of shame and constantly puts a noble hat on her, but in reality, deep down he does not want her to cause him trouble.
Frankly speaking, the marriage between King Qin and Mi Shu was always based on political interests. As for love, on the one hand, it is enough to find balance and pleasure in life in addition to dealing with heavy government affairs, and on the other hand, it is enough to fulfill the duties of a queen.
When the novelty wears off, freedom is relentlessly restricted.
At the beginning of the marriage, although Mi Shu did not love him deeply, she was sincere. King Qin cherishes the young love affair this young woman has given him, and as long as you don't cause trouble for him or touch his interests, he is willing to play with you.
However, if you are disobedient and focus your attention on his core interests, then I'm sorry how far you can go.
In the first incident, Mrs. Wei sets a trap that causes Yu Meiren to choose to commit suicide. Fan Chang hurriedly left the steps and acted indiscriminately, and the King of Qin's rebuke to Mi Shu was like blood and rain, followed by endless cold reception.
In the second incident of misfortune in her home country, Mi Shu stood up to intercede for her parents and brother, and the King of Qin severely reprimanded and ruthlessly restrained her.
You see, I can't tolerate any mistakes on the part of the other person due to the lack of love. I have a very high standard and selfish expectation: as long as you marry me, I want you to stop having any contact with your parents or brothers. I hope you can learn to be a ruthless and unrighteous person who only thinks about me.
King Qin's attitude towards Mi Shu was a little mean, he said that she was training the dog, and if Mi Shu was obedient, he would give her food;If Mi Shu is disobedient, he will punish her lightly, and at worst he will exile her, so that Mi Shu's life and death have nothing to do with him.
How is the relationship between love and non-love determined?There is one way, and that is to compare.
Therefore, in the comparison with Mi Yue, Mi Shu gradually realized that King Qin actually didn't really love her.
King Qin can choose to live alone in the same room with Mi Yue if Mi Yue does not agree, and use her reputation for Mi Shu.
On King Qin's birthday, he left all his concubines to see Shang Ying, and only chose to take Mi Yue to meet his old friend, but for Mi Shu, he chose to keep his mouth shut.
When Mi Yue had a difficult birth, King Qin rushed into the delivery room regardless of the fate of the country, but he chose to deal with Mi Shu's pregnancy indifferently.
Too many things, even if Mishu tries to deceive her, it won't help, because it has always been her unilateral wish.
After Empress Wei's death, Mi Shu stood in front of her tablet and said with emotion: "I am really not filial and deeply regretful. ”
In order to pursue the so-called true love, she did not hesitate to go against her mother's brother's wishes and marry the Qin State, but in the end she suffered a complete failure.
The man who had promised her for life is now deeply in love with another woman, and Mishu may have gone through countless pains and pains.
Mi Shu gradually lost her mind in the emotions of jealousy and resentment, and she wanted to hate King Qin deeply, but in the end she couldn't make up her mind, and could only blame Mi Yue for all her hatred and her own miserable experience.
Mi Shu may not know that Mi Yue is actually an innocent person. However, all her negativity urgently needed an outlet to be released, and at this moment, Mi Yue happened to collide with the gun.
With the betrayal of King Qin, Mi Shu's face became distorted. She desperately wanted to hold on to the fading emotion, but as time went on, her loss grew faster. King Qin's attitude towards her also became more and more indifferent, and even at the last moment of her life, he didn't want to see her again.
The once innocent and beautiful girl has left us forever, leaving behind only a resentful woman in the deep palace who has been hit hard in her love life.
In the cold and unforgiving environment, her mind becomes more vicious, and her whole body is covered with spikes, and every woman who tries to get close to her husband is impaled.
The first half of Mi Shu's life is colorful, but the second half is full of sadness.
From the moment Mi Shu met King Qin, the tragedy of her life began.
However, a young woman who was once as beautiful as a summer flower turned into a scheming woman in the deep palace in the end, which makes people sigh.
Therefore, it would be nice if Mi Shu's tragic fate could be rewritten.
So, let's assume for a moment how Mishu should spend the rest of her life if she marries a man who doesn't love her
In fact, one of the most fatal factors that led to Mishu's tragic fate was that Mishu didn't know how to give in to what she couldn't get with all her might.
Although it is often said that man can overcome destiny, there are moments when we have to face the fact that there are some things that are difficult to obtain even with great effort. Therefore, learn to accept the arrangement of fate and on that basis, try to play the cards in your hand and play your best so that you can be the ultimate winner.
Take Xin Guiren in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" as an example, she is not as good as Mi Shu in terms of family background and appearance, but why can Xin Guiren have the last laugh?
Ultimately, the core philosophy of Xingui people is to recognize their own shortcomings and ensure that each resource can reach its full potential on the basis of existing resources.
Although physical appearance and family background are shortcomings, if conditions allow, even if you can confidently stand in the line, you can survive the rest of your life.
In the same way, if King Qin didn't really love her, then he wouldn't really love her either. For those men who no longer love her, there is no need for Mi Shu to waste her time and energy, she can concentrate on her career, educate her children, and learn to attract talented people, so that Mi Shu will have a wonderful life for the rest of her life.
Unfortunately, she was too attached to the sincere feelings of an emperor, resulting in herself trapped in a power struggle between harem women. Not only did this make her life more tiring, but since her son was not well educated, she even turned her sister into the most formidable rivals, and ended up losing not only her wife, but also her army.
Sometimes, you may admit that there are things you can't get, but if you learn to accept and accept them properly, you will find life easier.
In addition, in a person's life, if there is no dispute with someone, it is equivalent to competition.
In the book "The Biography of Miyue", there is such an incisive sentence: "The real warrior is not to fight for the gains and losses of a city or a place, but to pursue the final victory." The chaffinch, on the other hand, competes in the grass nest for who can eat more, but they don't know that a strong wind is blowing, and even the grass nest cannot be saved. Kunpeng, on the other hand, does not fight or fight, trying to make themselves stronger, able to fly higher and swim farther, their world is so vast and infinite.
Therefore, if Mi Shu wants to live the rest of her life and win the final victory, the key is two aspects: first, she must learn to accept and accept her fate appropriately;The second point: learn not to argue with others and face them with the attitude of a Buddha.