It is always difficult to leave the homeland, it is always difficult to give up the hometown, and the hometown is the deepest. This is everyone's infinite nostalgia for their hometown.
Especially when you reach a certain age and have to leave your hometown to live in other places, this kind of reluctance and nostalgia will be even stronger.
Recently, a ** family shared a sad scene when a woman in Suizhou, Hubei Province took her father who lived alone to live in the city, and the moment her father locked the door, she burst into tears and cried into tears!
After the death of the woman's mother, only her elderly father lived alone in her rural hometown. And after she got married and started a family, she worked in other cities for a long time and settled in the city.
Considering that after the death of his mother, it was inconvenient for his father to live alone in his hometown, and there was no one around to take care of him, so he asked his father's consent and prepared to take him to the city to live with him and enjoy his old age in peace.
When she decided to leave her hometown, the woman found that her father was always unsettled, giving people a sense of loneliness and melancholy.
The day before leaving his hometown, my father went to his mother's grave on the mountain alone, said goodbye to his mother underground, and sat for most of the day. Look at the grave for a while, look at the distant mountains for a while, and think about it.
The woman found that when her father went to say goodbye to his mother underground, he sat in front of his mother's grave for an afternoon, and cried all afternoon, and his voice was hoarse!
The woman knew in her heart that her father was unwilling to follow her to live in the city. Because, his hometown is where he was born and raised, and it is the place where he has lived for most of his life!
Here, there is an old house that he and his mother built brick by brick;Here, there are fields that he and his mother have cultivated for most of their lives;Here, there are relatives and neighbors he is familiar with, and there are mountains and rivers, grass and trees that he is familiar with;On the mountain, there are the tombs of his grandfather, grandmother, parents and wife. In his heart, his hometown is the most familiar, kind, and favorite place in his life, and it has long been engraved into his bones!
However, the woman was very worried that her father was living alone in his rural hometown. Because, there is no one around to take care of her, and she and her husband work in a city thousands of miles away, and it is rare to come back to visit him. If my father has three illnesses and two pains, it will be troublesome.
Before leaving, my father insisted that he lock the door himself.
After turning around the front and back of the house, he locked the door of the house first. When he walked out of the courtyard gate, he slowly locked the courtyard gate himself. After the courtyard door was locked, he reluctantly pushed the courtyard door open a crack, looked at the courtyard a few more times, and then reluctantly ......walked towards the car parked outside with the support of the woman
When his father locked the door, the woman was always by his side. She saw that her father's eyes were full of tears, and his eyes were full of reluctance!She just stayed by his side silently and didn't bother him!
When the woman helped her father to walk towards the car, the father could no longer suppress the nostalgia and sourness in his heart, kept sobbing, and took out a tissue to wipe his tears!
When the car started and drove away slowly, my father didn't forget to turn his head and take a deep look at the old house behind him!Tears couldn't help but flow down his cheeks!Looking at his expression, it seems that he wants to engrave his hometown into his mind and put it in his heart!
The woman knows in her heart that her father is inseparable from her homeland, and her father will never forget her deceased mother!For my father, the lock of the door of my hometown will be opened again in some years and months!This lock may be an eternal parting!Why don't you make him sad?Why don't you make him cry?
As the saying goes: "A golden nest and a silver nest are not as good as your own kennel." ”
What is said is that no matter how good other places are, they are not as good as their own homes. Although his home is dilapidated and poor, he lives comfortably, reassuringly, comfortably, and steadily, and has a sense of belonging.
At this moment, this father may be thinking so. No matter how good the home in the daughter city is, it is not as good as the earthen house in the hometown;No matter how comfortable my daughter's life in the city is, she is not comfortable and down-to-earth in her hometown;No matter how convenient the home in the daughter's city is, it is difficult to find someone who can talk and chatter.
What's more, on the mountain of his hometown, there is still his lifelong wife!After he left, it was rare to go to her grave to take a look, to sit down, and to talk to her and talk to her about his lovesickness!
The picture of this woman's father leaving his hometown is a true portrayal of many rural old people!
In the countryside, most of the children left their hometowns and went to the city to work and settle down after they grew up. And when the parents are old, or when the parents are only one person left, the children will generally take their elderly parents to support them in order to fulfill their filial piety and take care of their parents.
However, they often ignore the emotional needs of their parents, ignore their parents' nostalgia, and ignore their parents' inherent life Xi. As a result, parents are not happy in the privileged living environment of their children, and some even live like years.
If the parents are still able to take care of themselves, it is better to let the parents stay in the rural hometown. As a child, no matter how busy you are at work, it is also a good choice to take time out as much as possible, often go back to your hometown to see, and often return to your parents to accompany you.
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