In "The Little Prince", it is said: "There is only one true luxury in the world, and that is human relationships." ”
It's really in a word.
In the adult world, the entanglement of interpersonal relationships is as complex as the intertwined ancient forest.
Some people are polite and smiling on the surface, but inside they build high barriers, alienated and defensive;
Someone's seemingly indifferent exterior hides a passionate heart, waiting for the moment to be ignited;
There are also those who are not good at words, but in the moment of wind and rain, they can silently lend a hand and interpret the sincerity of friendship with actions.
Time is a sharp knife, but also a gentle carving knife, it carves traces on our hearts, but also makes us more clear: fellowship with people, the most important thing is to be comfortable and calm for a long time.
Relationships that need to be flattered and barely maintained are like castles in the air that cannot stand the test of time.
And the true relationship that is really worth paying can be understood without words, and can be accompanied for a long time without deliberately pleasing it.
Such a relationship is like a spring in the valley, which can remain clear even under the scorching sun;
It is like a tough rock that can stand tall even in the midst of wind and rain.
Fellowship with others is about sincerity and understanding.
Don't get carried away because of good times, and don't abandon each other because of bad times.
This kind of relationship, like the warm sun in spring, makes people happy;
Like the bright moon in the autumn night, it makes people feel quiet and satisfied.
No need to please, get along comfortably
Writer Su Ling once said: "Companionship with comfort is the true meaning of making friends." ”
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, some of whom make you happy, others who make you tired.
For those who can refresh our hearts, we naturally want to have a deep relationship with them;
And for those who bring us depression and unhappiness, we long to escape.
This feeling comes from our inner instincts and is our guide to finding soulmates on our long journey through life.
The standard for adults is the word "comfortable". In our dealings with each other, we need to maintain a moderate distance of goodwill and not be overly concerned about who needs to please whom.
Only by doing what we want, intimacy and affection, can our friendship stand the test of time.
For the rest of our lives, let us make deep friendships with those who can make our souls comfortable, pay our hearts for those who deserve it, find a peaceful world, and taste the quiet years together.
Understand each other, and it is warm without words
In the long river of time, the crowd is surging, and everyone is looking for the person who can understand themselves deeply.
Whether it is a lover or a friend, it is an indispensable companion in life.
And when you meet someone who really understands you, even if the road of life is tortuous and life is trivial and tasteless, you can bloom with joy in the bottom of your heart.
This is true of friendship, and even more so of love.
When the hearts are dependent on each other, even if they are speechless, they can understand it, this is the true portrayal of Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang, the fairy couple.
Accompany when it is difficult, and do not give up when it is hard
Life is like a long river, prosperous like a dream, ever-changing, and what is truly precious is those who are always by your side, whether in good times or bad, and who will spend the wind and rain with you.
They are the precious wealth in your life, the sustenance and reliance of your soul.
In this complex and ever-changing world, the preciousness of true feelings is indescribable, and there are very few people who can lend a helping hand to you in times of hardship.
When we go through a long time, it is a great luck to meet a partner or friend who is willing to go through the ups and downs with you.
Please cherish this friendship and live up to their trust and dedication.
As a famous saying goes: "A good relationship is not necessarily inseparable day and night, but it must be cold and not cold, and people are not far away." ”
As we grow older, we understand more and more how precious a genuine relationship is in a complicated and cold world.
With them, even if you are silent, you can feel the warmth and joy in each other's hearts.
May we live a happy life with our loved ones by our side and our best friends by our side for the rest of our lives.