My mother-in-law came to live for 8,000 a month, my mother spent 1,000 for medical treatment, and my wife was noisy, and I scolded you angrily for letting your mother go
Character: Chan Wai Hung.
Yesterday at 3 p.m., I was teaching at the school to convey knowledge to students. Suddenly, I received more than a dozen urgent calls from my father in a row, and I was worried or had something urgent.
After class, I hurriedly called back to my father**, only to see his anxious tone: "Weihong, you hurry up and ask for a leave to go home, I and your mother are feeding grass in the sheep house, your mother suddenly fainted, it may be hypoglycemia, I am packing up my things, you take her to the hospital for a check-up when you come back." ”
I panicked, hurriedly put down the teaching materials, asked the principal for leave, and drove back to my hometown urgently.
Fortunately, the county seat is not far from my hometown, twenty minutes by car. When she arrived home, her mother was lying on the bed, looking weak, pale and sweating. My father hurriedly prepared a bag of things for her and eagerly asked me to take my mother to the hospital.
Before leaving, my mother was still worried: "Weihong, I don't think it's a big deal, just take a rest, don't go." I get motion sickness, and I don't know how many days I'll have to live, and your dad can't be busy at home alone, and the family has to take care of the poultry and livestock. ”
Listening to my mother's words, I felt a surge of anger welling up in my heart. This time, she can't accommodate her temperament. said with a straight face: "Mom, can you take good care of your body?"When you are sick, not only do you suffer, but I also have to worry about it. How long are you going to drag it out like this?When it's serious, do you spend a lot of money to see a doctor?”
The mother said disapprehantly: "You kid is talking nonsense, it's just low blood sugar, how serious can it be." ”
Seeing my mother so indifferent to her body, a wave of anger ignited in my heart, and I frowned and said, "Mom, love your neighbor before you love yourself." You don't care about your body, what do we expect to live?”
Seeing that I was angry, my mother smiled and patted me on the back and said, "Okay, okay, Mom listens to you, go to the hospital to see, don't be angry." I heard Juanjuan say that your mother-in-law has been living in your house recently, and my mother just doesn't want to cause you trouble. ”
I put my hand on my mother's shoulder, smiled and said, "Mom, you can rest assured, go for a good checkup, stay at my house for a few days, and chat with my mother-in-law by the way." I'll send you back when you're well and want to come back. The mother breathed a sigh of relief.
My mother accompanied me to the county hospital for only 20 minutes, but she was always worried about the family. Through the car window, she looked out and sighed: "Since I came to this house, your father has never cooked the stove." He has to make do with it these days, he is not careful, and I am worried that the chickens at home will be taken away by weasels as soon as I leave. Every time I go out, when I come home, the pigs and watchdogs in the pigsty can lose a lot of weight......”
I looked at my mother in the rearview mirror, and my heart couldn't help but feel sour. The mother was industrious and simple all her life, and almost devoted herself to her children and this family, but she neglected herself.
A mother's life is not easy. I married my father at the age of 19, and at that time the family was poor, and I often had no meal. Grandma was a strict educator and was extremely demanding of her mother, and her mother was wronged at that time.
In order to provide for our siblings to go to school, my mother followed my father to work the land, and her face was always tanned from sunrise to sunset. The peasants depend on the sky for food, and in good years, my mother happily grinds flour and steamed steamed buns for us. If the year is not good, the mother silently bows her head and frowns, and we don't know what she is thinking.
As the crops could not be sold at a good price, my mother went to a radius of ten miles to find coolies to earn a living. We had oil there, and my mother went to the oil rig team to cook for the workers, three meals a day, and she had to cook for a dozen or even twenty people.
My mother also participated in the construction team of the village, doing all kinds of hard work, and she was full of energy, and her peers praised her for her ability and better than men.
Later, with the implementation of the policy of returning farmland to forests, my mother participated in the work of digging tree nests and planting saplings. Before dawn, my mother carried a cloth bag on her back, stepped on the old bicycle, and took a shovel to start a new day's hard work. The bag contained her lunch food, usually two steamed buns, a bottle of water, and a little pickles from home.
In that rugged mountainous terrain, my mother worked as hard as she could, digging faster and planting more than anyone else. At the end of the afternoon, my mother rode home on her bicycle again. Today, her hands are still covered with thick calluses.
After graduating, I became a teacher in the county seat, and every time I went home, I felt inconvenient and wanted to buy a car. When my mother found out, she directly handed me a card with 100,000 yuan in it and asked me to buy a car.
I was instantly deeply moved, and I couldn't imagine how long my mother had spent saving this money.
Now I have to take good care of my mother, she has worked hard for half her life, and she has not yet enjoyed life, so she cannot make any mistakes.
I took my mother to the hospital, and after the doctor's examination, I prescribed some medicine, and told me to go home and rest well, arrange my diet reasonably, and seek medical attention as soon as I feel unwell, and I can't take it lightly.
Out of the hospital, I took my mother home. When I opened the door, I saw my mother-in-law and my wife sitting on the sofa watching TV.
The wife originally said happily: "Wei Hong, you are back!."But as soon as she turned around and saw her mother following me, her expression changed instantly, and she said in surprise, "Mom, why are you here?"”
My mother smiled and said, "I had a hypoglycemia attack, Wei Hong took me to the hospital for a check-up, asked me to stay here for a few days, and then sent me back when I was better." ”
The wife smiled reluctantly and said no more.
The mother happily walked over to greet her mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, I'm here, I haven't seen you for a long time, are you okay?"”
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "It's good to come, your own son's house, you can come if you want." ”
After speaking, the mother-in-law sat back on the sofa and continued to watch TV, the mother was a little embarrassed, and she didn't know what to put her hand on**.
I arranged for my mother to live in a bedroom with sunlight and put on fresh sheets and covers. The corners of the mother-in-law's mouth were raised, and she said, "Mother-in-law, do you want to live for a long time?"Seeing how filial your son is, he arranged you to a sunny bedroom. ”
The mother-in-law put on a posture of ownership.
My mother smiled and said, "In a few days, Weihong will send me back to my mother-in-law, I can't stay for too long, and there are still many things at home." ”
When I went back to the bedroom, my wife said in a questioning tone, "Why don't you discuss it with me when you pick up your mother and come to the house?"How much did it cost to see a doctor?”
I replied unhappily, "You didn't discuss it with me when you picked up your mother, did you?"Why can your mother come, but my mother can't?My mom spent 1,000 yuan to see a doctor, so there was nothing to ask. A few days ago, I bought skin care products and clothes for your mother, and you asked me why I didn't say it when I took 8,000 yuan?”
The wife defended: "My mother gave birth to a daughter, and she doesn't live in our house, what's wrong with spending some money?."”
I snorted coldly and said, "Your mother has a few daughters and I have a few cents to do, and whoever treats my mother badly, don't blame me for turning my face and not recognizing people." ”
The wife couldn't take care of it, held back the fire in her belly, and slammed the door angrily and went out.
My mother came to the house, and in the evening I stewed pork rib soup, stir-fried a few dishes, and prepared a warm dinner for her.
During the meal, the couple were always dissatisfied, and the mother-in-law even ridiculed the daughter-in-law from time to time: "Look at Weihong, I am so attentive to my mother-in-law for four dishes and one soup, why didn't I see such a good reception when I came." ”
The daughter-in-law pouted and responded: "Of course the eldest son of the family is different. ”
My mother worked hard all her life, and she got up at 6 o'clock the next morning to clean everyone and wipe the house clean and bright.
As a result, the daughter-in-law slept until eight o'clock, and when she got up, she complained: "Mom, can you get up later, we can't sleep well when you come, it's too noisy." ”
The mother scratched her head like a child who had made a mistake: "I'm sorry, Juanjuan, Mom is bored and wants to help you clean up, but I didn't expect to disturb you." ”
Before the daughter-in-law could finish listening, she turned around and walked to the bedroom, muttering, "Really, it makes people sleep badly so early." ”
Looking at my mother's aggrieved expression, I felt pity, obviously living in my son's house, but living under the fence like this.
I immediately got angry, walked over and grabbed my daughter-in-law, and asked her to apologize to my mother, but she refused and argued with me.
The daughter-in-law pointed at her mother angrily and said, "Return the 1,000 yuan you saw for the doctor, and hurry home, it is because of you that Wei Hong dares to talk to me like this." ”
When I heard this, I became angry and stepped forward and gave my daughter-in-law a resounding slap in the face, and she almost lost her footing and almost sat on the ground.
I angrily reprimanded: "Do you have the ability to repeat it again, is this human words?"”
My mother hurriedly picked up her daughter-in-law and punched me in the chest, reprimanding me for being impulsive.
When my mother-in-law heard the commotion, she came out in a big way, yelling at me, asking me to give her an explanation, and asking me why I beat her daughter.
I scolded angrily: "I am a people's teacher, teaching students every day to be filial to their parents. I didn't expect my wife to be such a person, no matter what she said, I would never apologize for her. ”
The mother cried and said, "Don't quarrel, don't argue, can't I leave, you have a good life." ”
Saying that my mother was about to pack her luggage, I grabbed her: "Mom, you can't go, this is your home, I see who dares to drive you away." ”
My daughter-in-law didn't say anything at all, continued to be mad at me, and wanted to step forward to do something.
I took the vase on the table, smashed it on the ground, and roared: "Your mother spent me 8,000, I never complained, my mother spent 1,000 on medical treatment, you still have the face to ask her to pay back, now hurry up, I don't welcome her at home." ”
My daughter-in-law was stunned by me, and her mother-in-law said, "Weihong, you can't drive me away like this, I'm just this one daughter, and I still expect you to support my old age." ”
I sneered: "You think beautifully now, every time you come to my house, I never say a bad word about you, treat you like your own mother, but you bully me and have no temper." If you don't leave, I'll divorce your daughter. ”
My mother-in-law saw me so mad for the first time, and she was worried that I would do what I said, so she silently packed up and left.
Since then, my daughter-in-law has stopped talking out about my anger and showing respect for my mother.
Indeed, a person should maintain a certain temper, especially in the traditional virtue of honoring one's parents. If you can't take proper care of your own biological parents, how can you talk about true filial piety?As for the treatment of my mother-in-law, I firmly believe that I have always had a clear conscience. After all, if she doesn't know how to cherish and understand, then pointless disputes will only add to the annoyance.
Friends and family, do you think my actions are correct?Please help me to revise the above text so that it is different from the original text, but the core meaning is consistent.