Bow to bad luck This is a story that has tormented Yanyan and her family. Every mother wants her children to grow up healthy and happy, but the shattering of this parent's dream befalls them because of a small negligence. Yanyan's baby suffered from intestinal necrosis under the care of her mother-in-law, and the doctor lifted the veil of the culprit, but in the face of this fact, Yanyan's mother-in-law was tormented by remorse and self-blame, and refused to forgive herself. In the midst of this family crisis, we can't help but wonder, whose responsibility is for this?Is it a negligent mother-in-law?Or is the message conveyed inaccurately?This article will go from shallow to deep, ** this suffocating tragedy.
In order to improve the family's economic situation, Yanyan decided to go to work in other places with her husband and handed over the child to her in-laws to take care of. Before going out, Yanyan deliberately emphasized with her mother-in-law the correct way to make milk powder for her children. However, things didn't go as smoothly as Yanyan had hoped. When the mother-in-law saw that the neighbor's child was fatter than her grandson, she thought that it was because the child did not drink enough milk powder, so she came up with a plan to add an extra spoonful of milk powder every time she made it. However, after a long time, the child continued to have symptoms of vomiting and diarrhea, which caused panic in the mother-in-law, who rushed the child to the hospital. The doctor's diagnosis shocked everyone, and the baby's small intestine was almost completely necrotic. The doctor pointed out that this is due to the baby's lengthBlood clots, indigestion caused by excessive intake of milk powder with too high concentration. This small negligence actually led to the danger of the child's life and plunged the whole family into great pain and self-blame.
In this warm and joyful family, Yanyan and her husband have always been exemplary representatives of their parents' hope for their son Jackie Chan. However, the stone of fate spoiled their beautylife, pushing them into the abyss of darkness. In order to be able to support the family, Yanyan decided to go to work in other places with her husband, hoping to earn more family income. This decision may be a bit regrettable for the young baby, who cannot stay with his dear parents and can only commit himself to the care of his grandparents. Yanyan and her husband are full of concern and cherishment, but they believe that the child will receive the careful attention and love of her mother-in-law, but the development of things is a heavy bomb thrown at them when they least expect it.
Yanyan is a responsible mother who loves her children, and before going out, she and her mother-in-law repeatedly emphasized the method of making milk powder for the baby. She believes that her mother-in-law will do what she says and take good care of the baby. In the days of working outside, every day Yanyan would eagerly call the family to ask about the baby's current condition, and she was always anxiously waiting for the voice from the other end to tell her that everything was fine. However, a ** sounded to break her peace, and she heard the mother-in-law's voice in the ** trembling voice saying that the child was sick and had been sent to the hospital. Yanyan and her husband immediately put down their work and hurried home to visit their children. They saw the baby at the entrance of the hospital, the child's face was pale and visibly unwell. After some examination, the doctor told them that the baby's small intestine was basically completely necrotic, and the child was fortunately sent to the hospital in time and was not life-threatening. Hearing the news, Yanyan was stunned, she couldn't believe it was true, she looked at the baby lying in the hospital with a heartacheHospital bedsTears crackled down my face. And the mother-in-law was also holding the child in pain, constantly repenting and blaming herself. She kept asking herself why she didn't follow the method Yanyan told her to make milk powder for her childObviously, Yanyan has repeated it to her so many times from beginning to end, why did she ignore this important detail?The mother-in-law cried and said, "I hurt the child, I am his grandmother, I actually hurt him, I will never forgive myself." ”
As a mother, Yanyan's hard work and concern can be imagined. When she decided to leave home to work in other places, how difficult and helpless the decision was, every decision had to be abandoned, and every choice had to face countless considerations. Although she feels sorry for her children, she knows that such a decision is a major investment in the future of the family, and it can be said that it is a process of disconnection. Yanyan's decision is a big shock for her, because she doesn't know what this will bring to her child, she sometimes rejoices that this world is a child happy, and transparent, so although she and the child have been separated for many months, she can feel the child's healthy breathing, but sometimes she is full of anxiety about the child, such a small life in a strange environment, whether the child has scandalous care, whether it can survive this hardship smoothly, she thought painfully. Yanyan is a responsible mother, and she has been reflecting on her own problems since the incident, whether she has not done a good job, whether she has explained it clearly to her mother-in-law, and whether she has made some low-level mistakes, these questions have been lingering in her mind. She is a tenacious person, hard-working, driven, and with childrenTirelesslyShe is always concerned and cares about it, and can't wait to know how the child is doing. Therefore, every day she will call the family, care about the child's daily diet, and every time she hits **, she hopes to hear the mother-in-law happily say that the child is very good and healthy. However, this time, it was the trembling voice of her mother-in-law on the other end, which made Yanyan panic and speed up the pace of going home.
In this matter, blaming the mother-in-law seems to be an easy choice. After all, she is the one who is responsible for taking care of the child, and because she did not follow the method Yanyan taught her to make milk powder, it led to the child's health problems. However, we can't completely put the blame on the mother-in-law alone. First of all, during her part-time job, Yanyan maintained communication with her mother-in-law through **, and should also pay attention to and understand the health of her children. If you are not aware of your child's problems in advance, you may be able to avoid a tragedy by going home or consulting with a doctor in time. Secondly, when Yanyan teaches her mother-in-law how to make milk powder for her child, whether she conveys enough clear and unambiguous information to her mother-in-law, and whether she checks whether her mother-in-law understands and masters the correct method, these are all factors that need to be considered.
Therefore, in this tragedy, the responsibility should be shared by many parties. The mother-in-law's negligence and practices are indeed the direct cause of the child's illness, but Yanyan, as the child's mother, should also bear the supervision and responsibility for the child's health. At the same time, there are certain problems in communication and understanding between family members. This story is also a wake-up call to pay attention not only to the issue of children's healthy diet, but also to the communication between family members and the clear distribution of responsibilities to avoid similar tragedies from happening again.
In this story, the mother-in-law did make a serious mistake by giving the child too much concentrated milk powder, which led to serious problems with the baby's health. However, we can't simply put the blame on the mother-in-law alone. As the child's mother, Yanyan should also keep an eye on the child's diet and health, and maintain clear communication with her mother-in-law during the migrant work. She needs to make sure that the mother-in-law has understood and mastered the correct feeding methods and checked the child's health in a timely manner. If Yanyan had taken these steps before the incident, she might have been able to avoid the child's health problems. Therefore, in this tragedy, Yanyan should also bear part of the responsibility.
In addition, there were also problems with communication and information transfer between Yanyan and her mother-in-law. When Yanyan taught her mother-in-law how to make milk powder for her child, did she convey the correct method in a concise and easy-to-understand way?Do you confirm that your mother-in-law understands and has mastered these methods?These are all factors to consider. And the remorse and self-blame of the mother-in-law for the wrong decision also shows that she did not intentionally make a mistake, but felt deep remorse after making a mistake. Therefore, we should give our mother-in-law a certain understanding and tolerance.
In this story, the responsibility is not singular, it is shared by multiple factors and people. Family members need to understand, support and collaborate with each other to ensure the health and safety of their children. This story provides us with an opportunity to reflect, reminding us to communicate in a timely manner, to clarify responsibilities, and to reduce the occurrence of similar tragedies.