The criteria for choosing a mate for young girls are the most representative of a social value, after all, marriage is a big event, especially for women, it is equivalent to another chance to be reincarnated, and men are not so lucky.
Geographically, the more inland you are, the farther away from the economically developed coastal areas, these things are now more important. Staffed public servants, although not necessarily well-paid, are the first criteria for young girls to choose a mate because they appear to be stable. In other words: a man who earns 300,000 yuan a year working in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen is not as competitive as a public employee in a third-tier city. This is not only the case for young girls, but more importantly, for their parents.
In fact, the income of people in the current system is not considerable, and most of them work in jobs with no future, and they cannot be like their parents: a newspaper, a cup of tea, and a Buddhist life. They are surrounded by some boring and boring work all day long, and they have to work overtime to burn their lives, which is a life that can be seen at a glance. But this is the case, and it is still a sweet spot in the eyes of young girls. The advantage is that it seems to be stable and reliable at present, can take care of the family, has a certain amount of decency, and also has a certain social status.
Now the change of being admitted to the public service can lead to the breakup of lovers who want to talk about marriage, because the social status is different, and one party thinks that his worth is different. What gives them this confidence?This is a major change in social values, and everything is inferior, only the establishment is high. It's not just that you're studying high, what is it to be admitted to university?The most important thing is to be admitted to the public.
Looking back, before the 70s, it was actually the era of the real workers' aristocracy, especially the workers of the state-owned factories. Dual-income families were the upper echelons of society at that time, with high incomes and good welfare, and the factory was another social circle. They were indeed able to live with dignity, and this was the best period in the history of some ordinary people. Even if the current establishment is popular, the gold content still cannot be compared with the era of the workers' aristocracy. As for the current workers of large state-owned factories, although their social status has also been improved in recent years, it is far from being comparable with the era of the workers' aristocracy.
Thirty years in Hedong, forty years in Hexi. There is a rise and there is a fall, and the status of businessmen has greatly declined, and it is still declining.