"You also agreed to this matter at the beginning, is it interesting now, still **?Are you still human?A tear-stained woman angrily pointed at her husband and asked, because of himParalysed in bed for many years, the wife is overwhelmed,I found a "male nanny" to take care of my husband, I was taken care of well, but after a long time, my husband began to look for troublesaid that his dignity was gone, and his face was lostand found a large group of people"**
What the hell is going on?What did this "male nanny" do to make the man paralyzed in bed feel ashamed?
Luo Youhua, Open the door!I know you're in there!Do you have the ability to find a man outside, but don't you have the ability to open the door?"In an old residential building in Shantou, Guangdong, a man angrily banged on the door of a woman's house, and soon after, the door opened from the inside and a man appeared. Seeing the appearance of the man, the man outside the door was even more angry.
Then he scolded: ".You shameless little mistress!Don't you know that Luo Youhua is a family person?？Facing the scolding of the man outside the door, the man inside the door did not panic at all, and said calmly: "I know, and her husband acquiesced in our affairs." Who are you who came to my house to make trouble?”
At this time, a woman came from outside, and when she saw this battle, she instantly understood, she turned to the man outside the door and said, "Your brother knows about our affairs, and this is also his acquiescence, what are you making trouble here?"Hearing the woman say this, the man outside the door was also stunned, his younger brother clearly said that he was cuckolded, what is the situation?
In 1996, Luo Youhua, who was in her prime, married a family living in rural Shantou, Guangdong, with a vision of a new lifeChen XiliangAlthough the life of the two is not rich and expensive, it is also plain and happy. In the second year after marriage, Luo Youhua became pregnant and gave birth to a lively and lovely oneSon Xiaoqin。I thought that life could go on so simply and peacefully.
Unexpectedly, misfortune is quietly approaching. Soon after his son was born, her husband Chen Xiliang felt that something was wrong with his body. At first, he didn't listen to the call, and he always couldn't hold things steadily, Chen Xiliang didn't take it to heart, thinking that he was tired from work. However, after a while, Chen Xiliang actually fainted at his own home!
After an examination at the hospital, Chen Xiliang was told that he had itCerebellar atrophy, that is to say, it won't be long before Chen Xiliang can only lie on the bed and wait for someone to serve. After Luo Youhua heard the news, it was like five thunderbolts, he was still young, did he have to support such a burden?After some struggle, Luo Youhua decided to prop up the family.
Her husband needs money for treatment, and her children also need money when they grow up, and there is basically no way to make money in the countryside, so Luo Youhua thought about it again and again, and resolutely decided to take her husband and son to the city to look for job opportunities. Luo Youhua didn't read much, so she didn't find a decent and easy job.
After a period of observation, she found that young people in the city are busy with work and basically have no time to cook, especially in the morning, and most of them will buy something on the side of the road for breakfast. Luo Youhua thought it was a good business opportunity, so she startedSell breakfast。As long as the taste of this industry is good, there will be customers and the income is good.
However, Luo Youhua is the only one by herself, she gets up earlier than other peers every day, and she can't even lift her head when she's busy. After the breakfast stall was closed, Luo Youhua had to rush home to take care of her husband who was paralyzed in bed, obviously the person who made the most money in the family, but Luo Youhua basically didn't spend the money on herself.
A few years later, Luo Youhua was overwhelmed by perennial fatigue, obviously only in his forties, but his face was crawling with traces of time, not to mention his haggard face, and he lost weight visibly.
Looking at his increasingly haggard wife, Chen Xiliang was also very unbearable, his wife had taken care of him without complaint all these years, he was raised for nothing, but his wife was getting more and more haggard, plus Luo Youhua really couldn't move her husband, so she said to her husband: "Why don't we hire a male nanny?"Unexpectedly, before Luo Youhua went out to look for it, someone took the initiative to send it to the door.
This person is their neighborWang Jianqun。Wang Jianqun was widowed at an early age, he pulled his children to grow up alone, and after his children started to work, he was alone at home, and sometimes, when he saw Luo Youhua doing physical work, he would also enthusiastically help. It may be that the two have similar experiences, and there are a lot of topics when they are together.
Wang Jianqun's occasional concern would also bring Luo Youhua a warm feeling, and gradually, there was a relationship between the two. Luo Youhua felt very sorry for her husband, so she confessed everything to her husband, and Chen Xiliang was also angry at first, thinking that his wife had betrayed him.
However, Luo Youhua said: "While I have a relationship with him, I will not leave you, and we will take care of you together." So I have a helper. Chen Xiliang also agreed after thinking about itHe knows very well that his wife has not been easy for these years, and if he were someone else, he might have left him to marry someone elseThinking of this, Chen Xiliang agreed to his wife's proposal.
Since then, Wang Jianqun has begun to enter the house in a bright and bright manner, in fact, as Luo Youhua said, Wang Jianqun is not ambiguous at all in taking care of Chen Xiliang, bathing and feeding, serving feces and urine. Chen Xiliang is also very grateful to Wang Jianqun for taking care of him.
However, after a long time, Chen Xi's conscience was not a good feeling, seeing his wife and Wang Jianqun in front of him, he felt that his dignity was gone, and Luo Youhua sometimes spent the night at Wang Jianqun's house, which made him feel even more uncomfortable, completely forgetting that he had promised it at the beginning.
He proposed to let Luo Youhua break up with Wang Jianqun, but he didn't expect his wife to refuse without thinking about it!So, he called himself a**Third brother Chen Xiquan, cried to the third brother: "Luo Youhua has someone outside!."He's going to leave me and run!”
Chen Xiquan, who didn't understand the cause and effect, heard that his younger brother had been so wronged, and immediately rushed to his brother's house to ask Luo Youhua to give an explanation, so the opening scene appeared.
Wang Jianqun doesn't mind this unhealthy relationship, he has seen Luo Youhua's hardships all these years, he admires Luo Youhua for being able to take care of her paralyzed husband for so many years, and he doesn't mind whether he is famous or not, he just wants to be with Luo Youhua and help her share some of the burdens on her shoulders.
Under the mediation of many reporters and police, Luo Youhua and Wang Jianqun agreed to end this unhealthy relationship, Luo Youhua returned to the family to take care of her husband, and Wang Jianqun will continue to help. Under the guidance of reporters, his son Xiaoqin also agreed to go out to find a job to reduce his mother's burden.
It can be said that Luo Youhua has done enough to be benevolent and righteous, just got married, her husband was sick in bed, the child was small, and the burden of the whole family of three was all on this weak woman with low culture, she did not choose to leave her husband and son and leave home, which is already very good. If her husband really regrets her, he can take the initiative to ask for a divorce and let her find a good family with her son. But he didn't, so, judging from Chen Xiliang's past, he is a more selfish person, and he will feel guilty about his wife, but not much.
Luo Youhua is supporting his family at the same time, but he also has to support his son, but his son is not an adult, he only knows how to ask his mother when he doesn't work, he doesn't understand her at all, and he doesn't help take care of his father, I really don't know how such a son grew up, because of Luo Youhua's doting, and in the end, this doting also raised his son.
In this case, Luo Youhua has been haggard for more than ten years, and if he wants to find a spiritual sustenance, he can't simply look at it from a moral level, since Chen Xiliang can't stand this strange relationship, he shouldn't have agreed in the first place, and agreed to look at his wife and others and slander his wife for cheating, and let his brother find **, such a character is really not flattering.
Faced with such an ending, Luo Youhua was very upset with Wang Jianqun, and kept saying that he was sorry, but Wang Jianqun saw it very openly, he sympathized with Luo Youhua very much, he felt very worthless that Luo Youhua was slandered by her husband, and he felt that Luo Youhua had done her best to her husband who had been paralyzed for more than ten years.
Is Luo Youhua a good woman?You say that she counts, it is indeed a fact that she cheated in marriage, you say she doesn't count, it is also a fact that she has taken care of her husband who is paralyzed in bed for more than ten years, and she also takes her lover to take care of her, in fact, no matter what choice Luo Youhua makes, it is understandable.
Even if Luo Youhua had feelings for other people, she never abandoned her husband and this family, but on the moral and ethical level, Luo Youhua's approach is indeed immoral. This matter is not simply right and wrong to be judged, and as outsiders, we have no position to put the right and wrong of the beak Luo Youhua.
Let's ask, if you are in Luo Youhua's situation, do you choose to shoulder the burden of this family, or do you choose to escape?Hopefully, Chen Xiliang can treat Luo Youhua well, and also hope that their son Xiaoqin will mature as soon as possible and take over the burden from his mother Luo Youhua as soon as possible. Luo Youhua gave everything for them.
What do you think of Luo Youhua?Do you think she's a good woman and a good wife?