It has been said, "What kind of man a woman falls in love with, what kind of person she will often become." For women, they can only bear half of the responsibility for what they look like, and the other half of the responsibility should be borne by men. ”
A married woman and her husband are like budding flowers and nourishing soil, flowers bloom early or late, and are inseparable from the soil.
Whether the husband's emotions are stable or not, and whether the husband has a sense of responsibility for family affairs, have a huge impact on the wife's appearance.
The husband is the second face that a woman chooses for herself after marriage.
Daphne du Maurier wrote in "Butterfly Dreams".
Kindness, sincerity, and modesty are worth far more to a man, and to a husband, than all the wit and beauty of the world. ”
Confucius once reasoned with his wife, but found that it didn't make sense, so he was very depressed, and complained angrily: Only villains and women are difficult to raise.
He must not understand that his wife is not to be reasoned, but to be watered with love.
My high school classmate Xiaoqin, who was a tomboy when she was studying, always had a short head that couldn't be shorter, and her female classmates were angry with the boys and cried, and she often stepped forward to hug her. She can also be seen running on the football field.
Seven years later, I met her by chance when she was dressed in a cheongsam in the lobby of the hotel and playing "To Alice".
Her new look, gentle and serene, surprised me.
She is married, and her husband takes good care of her.
When she was angry, she once threw the pots and pans at home to the ground, and the man did not lose his temper after being surprised, he kept patiently and softly soothing Xiaoqin's out-of-control emotions, and would tell jokes to make Xiaoqin happy.
In the end, the man still hugged Xiaoqin and said: I will love you well.
Xiaoqin's tears rained down, she used her outer strength to cover up her inner fragility, and now someone understands how fortunate she is.
The wife knows that her husband loves her enough, so that the wife has confidence and confidence in her marriage: although the future is unknown, there can be sugar and hardship to carry together.
The husband has enough responsibility for the family and will make his wife not flinch or be anxious in the face of unexpected situations in life, because she knows that her husband will always stand with her and face the wind and rain of the future hand in hand.
If a woman in marriage wants to be gentle and quiet, and the years are quiet, she can't do without her husband's warm and inclusive love and a strong sense of responsibility for marriage and family.
The Turkish poet Yu Waina once said, "Where there is a husband, there must be a wife." ”
This fully shows that the influence of a husband on his wife in all aspects is enormous.
The husband in the movie "Ten Thousand Arrows Pierce the Heart" has a cowardly and good-looking personality, and the wife has a spicy and strong personality, and she is calculating.
The husband finally divided the house, and when he moved, the moving worker raised the price on the spot, and the wife scolded the worker, but the husband hid in the house and handed cigarettes and soda to the worker.
Many times it is the wife who defends the rights and interests of the family, and the husband enjoys the benefits of the heroine's efforts, and finally blames the wife.
The husband can't support a family, can't protect the rights and interests of the family, and the wife is anxious in her heart, and she is disappointed in the man again and again, and there is no hope.
The wife struggles to take on the responsibilities of the family and protect the interests of the family, and she is forced to become fierce and aggressive, so that the family will not be bullied.
However, the husband is not only ungrateful, but he also drags his feet, constantly dislikes and obstructs his wife, and even if he ultimately protects the interests of the family, the man still harshly scolds his wife for "what you have done wrong", as if to prove that he is the head of the family.
The two people in this kind of marriage are like a tug-of-war, seeing that the wife is about to reach the end and achieve the goal, but the man has to drag the woman, making the wife exhausted and miserable.
It has been said, "The strength of a wife is not an excuse for a man's weakness." The strength of the wife is the result of the weakness of the man. ”
I think so. Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Don't marry a man who looks very honest, he has no opinions, he doesn't communicate when there are contradictions, and he never apologizes, let alone say anything that warms your heart." Pretend to be deaf and dumb in case of trouble, and choke you to death when you open your mouth. is also very self-conscious, always feels that he is right, ignores your efforts and grievances, and only stares at your mistakes in his eyes. ”
once watched a couple with mixed feelings in a livelihood mediation show.
The husband and wife have been married for 12 years, and the husband lies down as if he is invisible, he has not worked for two or three years, but he never shares his wife's housework, and often does not return home at night.
For 12 years, my wife has been working hard to take care of the children and support the family.
The husband shirked his responsibilities and said: "She always thinks that I can't bring my daughter well. "She won't let go, what can I do?""I'm the extra person in this house. ”
In the show, the wife has deep nasolabial folds, ** is a little loose, she looks tired, and she is obviously much older than her husband.
Married life is long, and the burden of marriage should be borne by both people.
The husband should say more warm words to his wife, and also have a grateful attitude towards his wife's dedication, otherwise the wife will be exhausted and miserable in this boring marriage.
When I got home, no one talked to my wife's tiredness, and no one cared for my wife's dedication, so that an indifferent marriage was a fuse that broke my wife.
The silent husband not only exhausted his wife, but also made the marriage scarred and precarious.
In the American drama "The Good Wife", it is said: "The greatest charm of marriage is actually to let people explore how deep the connection can be between two people who are not related by blood." In a nutritious marriage, the strongest bond is not love, but a compatible and harmonious spiritual world. ”
The husband's words, actions, and emotional reactions can affect the wife's appearance.
The husband can manage his emotions well, actively participate in the affairs of married life, and create a warm and comfortable family environment, so that his wife can be beautiful and smiling.
An excellent husband who loves his wife can create his wife's beauty and deserve to have his wife's beauty.
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