My name is Lu Qiming, a native of Shanghai, and I grew up in a loving family. My parents are ordinary office workers, and they love me very much, but they never dote on me. Growing up, they taught me many things about how to be human, one of the most important of which is to keep your senses intact at all times.
Insensitive force, as the name suggests, is an unresponsive and insensitive response to things. In today's fast-paced society, blunt sensibility seems to be a natural talent. Because it is only by being unresponsive to everything around us that we can better focus on our lives. And this kind of blunt sensibility is exactly what I am after.
My parents are both Taurus, they have a steady, down-to-earth personality, and always maintain a dull sensitivity to people and things. I remember one time, the neighbor's aunt got angry at our family because of a little thing, and if she changed to someone else, she would definitely get angry and quarrel. But my parents kept their cool, they didn't argue, they just explained what happened in a gentle tone. Afterwards, the aunt felt embarrassed, and when she came to apologize, they just laughed and said it didn't matter. This kind of obtuse sensitivity to things makes me deeply admire.
Under their influence and eyes, I also learned this blunt sensibility. In life and work, I have always maintained a peaceful state of mind. In the face of jealousy and slander from my colleagues, I always choose to ignore them. Because I know that instead of wasting time arguing and explaining, I can focus on something more meaningful. This insensitivity allows me to better focus on my goals and makes me more calm in the face of difficulties.
However, this blunt sensibility is not blindly dull and wooden. Emotionally, I have always been sensitive and delicate. My wife and I have been married for 10 years, and we have been supportive and encouraging each other for 10 years. Although there are sometimes frictions and misunderstandings in life, we all choose to trust and understand each other. This kind of blunt sensitivity allows us to better deal with the contradictions and conflicts in our relationships, and also makes our marriage more stable and happy.
In the eyes of my friends, I may be a person who is not very expressive and unsociable. But in reality, I cherish my friends and loved ones around me very much. Although I don't use rhetoric or flattery, I always express my emotions with my actions. Whenever I was struggling, my friends would stand by my side without hesitation, support me and encourage me. This kind of blunt sensitivity allows me to better appreciate the sincerity and preciousness of friendship and family affection.
Of course, I wasn't born with a dull sensibility. In the face of challenges and difficulties, I also hesitated and hesitated. But it was these experiences that made me realize that only by maintaining our insensitivity can we better face the challenges of life. Do not give up easily in the face of difficulties, do not compromise easily;Do not be proud or blindly optimistic in the face of success;Don't be discouraged in the face of failure, don't complain. That's the kind of blunt sensibility I'm after.
In closing, I would like to say, "May we all maintain this blunt sensitivity and continue to move forward in the sea of life."May we all learn to appreciate the beauty of life and use love to solve the problems of life;May we all have a happy and fulfilling life. ”