Who is the key person who helped An Jie through the confinement?That is Jiang Defu. At the beginning, Jiang Defu proposed to let An Xin take care of An Jie's confinement, and this decision had a well-thought-out reason. 
First of all, the first reason given by Jiang Defu is that An Xin has given birth to twins, so she has rich experience in confinement care. This makes her more adept at dealing with the needs of her twins. The second reason is that because of family relationships, An Xin is An Jie's sister, and she is more intimate to take care of, which helps to reduce potential conflicts. These two reasons sounded irrefutable, so An Jie gladly accepted Jiang Defu's suggestion. However, why is it said that Jiang Defu's arrangement hides good intentions?In fact, An Jie's pregnancy with twins does not mean that An Xin has to take care of the confinement child. An Jie and Jiang Dehua are fully capable of taking care of their children, because they already have experience in taking care of children. At the same time, it is also a reasonable choice to hire someone else to help with confinement care. Under the conditions at that time, An Xin hired a neighbor to take care of her two daughters. Therefore, let An Xin come over to take care of the confinement, although Jiang Defu gave a good reason, but if you consider his personal political future, these two reasons are not so sufficient behind this. In the end, the reason why Jiang Defu arranged it like this was actually because of his foresight and willingness to take care of An Jie's confinement child. 
Jiang Defu asked Jiang Dehua to come back immediately, which also showed his good intentions. Jiang Defu clearly knew that Jiang Dehua's return to his hometown would force An Jie to go to the island with the army, and both Jiang Defu and An Jie felt very clear and grateful for this. Therefore, Jiang Defu emphasized that Jiang Dehua can return to this place called home at any time, that is, the home in Jiang Dehua's heart. However, why did Jiang Dehua arrange for Jiang Dehua to come back before An Jie gave birth?The answer is very simple, Jiang Defu wants to reduce An Xin's work burden. With Jiang Dehua's presence, An Xin can get more support during her confinement period in caring for An Jie, and Jiang Dehua also has the opportunity to gradually adapt to life on the island and learn how to take better care of the baby. Therefore, letting Jiang Dehua and An Xin come back together is actually a win-win choice, which can not only reduce An Xin's burden, but also allow Jiang Dehua to gradually integrate into the new living environment. 
encountered a big wind and waves, why did Jiang Dehua live in An Xin's house. When Anjie encountered wind and waves on the island, fortunately, there was a guest house that provided a safe place to stay. At the same time, the soldiers who sent Jiang Dehua to An Xin's house also said that they had a place to rest. However, why did Xiaobing send Jiang Dehua to An Xin's house?The reason is that this is Jiang Defu's explicit order, but why does Jiang Defu have such an order?Jiang Defu's purpose is to let the surrounding neighbors see that An Xin's family has a relative who serves in the army, so as to form a kind of protection for An Xin's family. In the social context of that time, having a relative escorted by a soldier would have been awe-inspiring. Especially on a small island under military management, Jiang Defu knew that the news that Ouyang Yi had relatives of military officers would spread very quickly. 
Why didn't Jiang Defu personally come forward to protect Ouyang Yi's family?First of all, Jiang Defu's identity is inconvenient to get involved directly. At that particular time, an island commander openly supported a rightist, and such behavior was likely to lead to him being interviewed. Secondly, both Ouyang Yi and An Xin have strong self-esteem and are unwilling to accept direct assistance from others. In fact, when An Jie went to visit An Xin's family on the island, Ouyang Yi avoided it, showing that he was unwilling to be seen by others in a depressed state. However, why did Jiang Defu still let Jiang Dehua, who has a straightforward personality and direct words, live with Ouyang Yi?Although Ouyang Yi was resistant to Jiang Dehua, Jiang Defu understood his sister's character. Jiang Defu knew that although Jiang Dehua had an outspoken personality, after seeing the plight of An Xin's family, she would become more tolerant and no longer have opinions on the An family. In the world of crows, swans are all sinful, and it is difficult for people from different levels to communicate. Jiang Defu believes that through Jiang Dehua's direct words, the damage can be minimized, and it will not cause greater waves if he directly intervenes like Jiang Defu himself. 
It's not that Jiang Defu doesn't know his sister, on the contrary, he knows Jiang Dehua's intelligence and kindness. The reason why Jiang Defu arranged it this way was because Jiang Dehua's presence could ease Ouyang Yi's self-esteem and make her more receptive to help. Although Jiang Dehua's outspokenness may have touched Ouyang Yi's sensitive point, Ouyang Yi will not directly conflict with him, especially under An Xin's mediation. Therefore, Jiang Defu's good intentions not only consider family relationships, but also consider the emotions and interests of all parties. In the process of taking care of An Jie's confinement child, Jiang Defu not only did not have conflicts with An Xin, but also made every effort to protect An Xin's rights and interests and strive to ensure family harmony. After An Xin took care of An Jie's confinement, Jiang Defu not only arranged for a vehicle to take her to the dock, but also apparently gave her a lot of items to take home. Behind this move, Jiang Defu's good intentions can be seen. 
Jiang Defu understood that on that small island, no matter how much money he had, he could not buy some necessities. Therefore, he decided to prepare enough daily necessities for An Xin when she left. This is not only a reward for An Xin's hard work, but also so that Ouyang Yi will not feel burdened and maintain his self-esteem. Jiang Defu knows very well that those who love love to return, and those who are blessed come to come, through this generous send-off, it is not only gratitude to An Xin, but also respect for Ouyang Yi. Jiang Defu's statement that "no matter how much money An Jie gives An Xin, it is useless", reflects the reality of the island's lack of resources. In this environment, household goods may be more important than money. Therefore, preparing sufficient supplies for An Xin not only allowed her to live a better life after she returned, but also made up for the shortage on the island. Such a careful arrangement not only made An Xin feel the care of her family, but also brought happiness to the whole family. Jiang Defu's good intentions for Ouyang Yi's family finally won An Jie's gratitude and Ouyang Yi's awe in his later years. This kind of care and support not only helps the family on a material level, but also brings them closer to each other emotionally. In this process, Jiang Defu built a more harmonious family relationship with a selfless father's heart. 
In addition to emotion, we may be able to think: In our own family, can we also be like Jiang Defu, with heart and affection, to pay more care for our relatives?Perhaps it is this sincere emotion that makes our lives more fulfilling and makes our family our most solid backing. I hope that every family can spend all kinds of ups and downs in life together under the light of love, and weave a warm and beautiful time together. A good drama that has been watched n times