The dream of remarriage and happiness is shattered, and Uncle Xi's courtship experience is thought-provoking.
In this world, every remarried old man has a desire for a happy old age, but this is often not the case. 70-year-old Uncle Xi, a retired old worker, originally thought that remarriage would bring him a happy old age, but found unpredictable contradictions after marriage. His story makes people think deeply, what kind of wisdom and patience is needed to run in the remarriage?
Happy memories with his ex-wife.
I am Uncle Xi, and I am 70 years old this year. When my wife was alive, we ran a happy family together, and although it was not a wealthy family, we lived happily ever after. I am very obedient to my wife because in my eyes, she is a perfect woman. Our relationship is not without twists and turns, my wife has been suffering from cancer, and I am by her side, trying to make her happy in her lifetime. My wife eventually left me, leaving me empty and lonely.
The longing of remarriage met Kobayashi.
Two years later, after living alone for a while, I met Kobayashi through a friend's introduction. At first, I thought she was reliable and an ideal remarriage partner. She was very nice to me, caring, attentive and considerate. We gradually established our relationship in the process of getting along, so we got a marriage license. The dream of happiness didn't last long.
The contradiction of money, Kobayashi's Xi of spending money.
When I first got married, Kobayashi's performance was satisfactory to me. She cooked for me with great care and thoughtfulness, which made me feel happy. Soon after, I discovered a Kobayashi who gave me a headache and spent money far faster than I had imagined. She frequently asked me for extra living expenses, and my monthly pension was not a bottomless pit.
The conditions behind the greedy demand AA system.
In order to stop Kobayashi's profligacy, I made a proposal to AA with her. Kobayashi's response surprised me. She agreed to the AA system, but only if I sold my house in the city center and transferred the money to her account. This shocked me, and Kobayashi's greed made me hesitate.
The contradiction of decision, divorce or patience.
I rejected Kobayashi's offer, and she threatened to abandon the AA system. I felt very conflicted, and whether or not I should choose to divorce became a problem for me. I didn't want my friends and family to see the jokes, but my life with Kobayashi made me miserable. Now, I can't sleep all night, torn between the choice of whether to leave or not.
Challenges on the way to remarriage.
Everyone longs for happiness, especially the elderly who have remarried. The road to remarriage is not an easy one, full of unknowns and challenges. Uncle Xi's experience tells us that remarriage is not only the collision of two hearts, but also the art of wisdom, communication and compromise. Perhaps, we should choose our partners more carefully before remarrying to avoid future conflicts and pains. The dream of remarriage and happiness is shattered, and behind it is a contest about money, family and responsibility. I hope that Uncle Xi can finally find his own happiness.