In traditional Chinese culture, family is a very important concept. Family harmony and happiness have a profound impact on every member of the family. However, the fortune of the family is also very important, if something bad happens to a family, then the atmosphere of the family will become very heavy, and it will even fall into poverty. Therefore, the fortune of the family and the words and deeds of family members are closely related.
Professor Tsang Shiqiang is a well-known master of Chinese culture who has a very in-depth study of Chinese traditional culture and the I Ching. In terms of family fortune, Professor Zeng Shiqiang believes that if a family often has these three kinds of people, then the family's poverty will increase, which is not a good sign.
The first type of person: the person who complains constantly.
Professor Tsang believes that if a family is constantly complaining, then the atmosphere in the family will become very heavy. Complaining is a very negative emotion that can make people feel frustrated and helpless. If a person complains a lot, then his negative emotions will affect the people around him and make the atmosphere of the family very depressing.
In the family, if someone is having a difficult situation or something that is not going well, it is okay to talk about it appropriately, but you can't complain all the time. Complaining doesn't solve the problem, it only makes it worse. If a person complains a lot, then he will gradually lose confidence and courage and will no longer be willing to try to solve the problem. In this way, the family will become more and more impoverished.
The second type of person: the person who misbehaves.
Professor Tsang believes that misbehaving can also bring poverty to the family. People who misbehave usually refer to those who are of bad character and who are not honest and trustworthy. Such people may show some bad behavior Xi in words and deeds, such as stealing, fraud, and so on.
If a family often has people who misbehave, then the members of the family will also be negatively affected by them. For example, children may imitate these bad behaviors, causing problems with their conduct. In addition, people who misbehave may cause a lot of unnecessary troubles and disputes to the family, leaving family members tired and annoyed.
The third type of person: the lazy person.
Laziness is a very bad Xi that can affect one's career and family life. If a person is lazy, then he will not be willing to work hard or Xi, resulting in his career not being able to develop. At the same time, laziness can also make a person's body deteriorate gradually, affecting his health and quality of life.
In the family, if there is a person who is lazy, then the atmosphere of the family becomes very negative. Lazy people are reluctant to do housework or take care of their families, which leads to problems in the relationship between family members. At the same time, laziness can also make family members feel tired and helpless, affecting their mood and health.
How to avoid these bad people at home?
In order to avoid these bad people at home, we can take precautions in the following aspects:
Learn to screen friends.
When making friends, we should learn to screen friends. We should try to make friends with people who are positive, optimistic and cheerful. At the same time, we should also try to avoid associating with people who are not behaving well and are negative. If we find that our friends around us have bad behavior Xi or negative emotions, then we should consider keeping our distance from them.
Raise awareness of self-prevention.
We should raise our awareness of self-defense and try to avoid associating with those who are not good. At the same time, we should also learn to identify those who are bad and avoid being deceived or taken advantage of by them. If we find that someone around us has bad behavior Xi or signs of misconduct, then we should consider keeping our distance from them or disconnecting them outright.
Enhance family cohesion.
Family cohesion is the foundation of a family's happiness and harmony. We should strengthen family cohesion and make the relationship between family members closer and more harmonious. At the same time, we should also try to avoid associating with those who are not good and avoid them from having a negative impact on our family. If we find bad Xi or misconduct in our family members, then we should consider taking steps to correct them or seek help to solve the problem.