"It's so embarrassing, the old singer dedicated his life to his singing career, but when he was old, he was thrown into a nursing home by his children!”
can make all ages hear her songs, Yu Shuzhen deserves to be a singing artistAlthough her "Our Life is Full of Sunshine" has been covered by many people, it cannot surpass her original song.
However, Yu Shuzhen, who has been dedicated to the singing career of the motherland all her life, was thrown into a nursing home by her children in her later years.
Many people have accused Yu Shuzhen's children, after all, if it weren't for Yu Shuzhen who has been running around, how could their children have a stable life now, and not providing for the elderly, it is the biggest unfilial piety.
But I didn't expect that,Yu Shuzhen, who was ruthlessly abandoned by her own children, even helped her children speak, saying that they actually put them in a nursing home because of filial piety.
Throwing your parents to a nursing home, what kind of filial piety is this?
As a result, when everyone dug deep into the reason, they found out that the facts were really the same as what Yu Shuzhen said.
Yu Shuzhen, who was born in 1936, has experienced things that many people have never experienced.
Born in poverty, losing her mother at the age of 8 is nothing, the important thing is that as the eldest sister, after her mother died, she took care of her younger siblings and took care of the housework, and all the work fell on her.
However, Yu Shuzhen didn't feel that she was miserable, she felt that she couldn't keep her mother after she died, and taking care of the family as the eldest sister was what she should do, so she didn't complain, but not being able to go to school became a regret in her heart.
Every time she went to the river to wash her clothes, she would run to the farthest river with a large bucket of clothes to wash them, because it was the closest to the school, and she could hear the school bell in the distance.
She couldn't hear the sound of the students learning Xi, but every time the teacher taught the students to sing, she could hear the carefree singing of children her age from a distance, and she would sing along every time.
Later, even if she didn't go to the river to wash clothes, she would hum songs that she heard everywhere while working, and every time she sang, her mood would be much better.
Later, her father married a stepmother, and Yu Shuzhen finally didn't have to do so much work, but she still couldn't go to school, because *** still had 7 brothers and sisters, and the family's income couldn't support all the children to go to school.
Later, Yu Shuzhen, who was still underage, entered the factory as an apprentice, and the monthly salary could only solve her food and clothing, but Yu Shuzhen would still send some of it home.
The daily work in the factory is very tiring and boring, but Yu Shuzhen sings while working, because she thinks that this work is not so difficult to do, and life is not so difficult.
And when I heard Yu Shuzhen singing, the other workers would also sing along, although there was no end to the poor life, and the work would not be lightened because of this, but everyone in the factory had a smiling face.
Later, the factory was preparing to hold a party, and everyone in the factory unanimously recommended Yu Shuzhen to sing, and Yu Shuzhen's song directly won the first place at that party.
After that, as long as there is an activity in the factory, there will be Yu Shuzhen's singing, and there was a time when the leaders of the Tianjin Opera House came to participate in the event, and they were directly shocked by Yu Shuzhen's emotional and very beautiful singing voice.
So the leaders of the Tianjin Opera House invited her to join the troupe, which was simply flattering to Shuzhen, because she sang completely because she liked to be happy, and she never thought of being a singer.
And Yu Shuzhen, who agreed to join the opera troupe, has completely changed her life trajectory.
Yu Shuzhen, who had just joined the troupe, was at a loss, because she had only been in the factory, and she was afraid that she would not be able to adapt to it, so on the first day she came to the opera house, she quickly asked herself who she would learn Xi with in the future.
As a result, the leader of the opera house directly said: "You don't need to learn, you just go directly to the stage." ”
Sing directly on stage?
Yu Shuzhen used to sing in the factory, and she faced people she knew, and she didn't have so many requirements, so it didn't matter if she couldn't sing well, but now she is facing an audience that has paid money.
She felt that she had no professional strength, and she was afraid that she would not sing well and disappoint the audience, but the leaders of the theater thought that Yu Shuzhen's singing voice was natural, and asking the teacher to teach her would wear out her characteristics.
In the end, with apprehension, Yu Shuzhen stepped onto the stage, and when her singing slowly sounded and the people in the audience showed smiling faces of enjoyment, Yu Shuzhen had confidence.
Someone once asked Yu Shuzhen why she became a singer, and Yu Shuzhen replied directly, "Actually, I didn't want to be a singer, I just sang when I was happy, and when I saw that others would be happy for my singing, I wanted to sing even more." ”
In today's singing industry, many people sing to make money, and even plagiarize for profit, and when they make a lot of money, they begin to perfunctory the audience, and even fake sing to deceive the audience.
But Yu Shuzhen, who was born in that era, was very serious about singing, because she felt that it was responsible for the audience, and she had always sung for the audience's smile, after all, even if it was for profit, singers at that time couldn't get much money.
Yu Shuzhen, who is so serious, quickly won the hearts of all the audience with her singing, and her optimistic and cheerful personality also made her colleagues like her, and even some older colleagues saw that she had been single, and even talked about matchmaking for her.
As a result, when they led the blind date to find Yu Shuzhen, they found out that there was a trouble, it turned out that Yu Shuzhen had already had a partner, and the young couple was about to get married.
Yu Shuzhen's object is a singing teacher who led her into the troupe, at that time, Yu Shuzhen had just joined the troupe, helpless, this male teacher often cared about her, and every time Yu Shuzhen encountered problems in life, he would look for him.
After going back and forth, the two also have feelings, but the two have always been very low-key, so many people don't know.
In the end, Yu Shuzhen and the object also got married, and the time of marriage was a good period for Yu Shuzhen's singing career, and the husband didn't want his wife to give up her career for the sake of the family.
Because he saw Yu Shuzhen shining on the stage, he was moved by Shuzhen.
So the husband sacrificed himself to fulfill his wife and took over the work of the family, which made Yu Shuzhen very moved, and Yu Shuzhen would also take care of the family, and gave birth to a pair of children to her husband within a few years of marriage.
It was at this time that Yu Shuzhen ushered in the most important period of her career.
In 1979, the movie "Sweet Career" began filming, and the most important theme song of the movie, "Our Life is Full of Sunshine", has not been sung.
This song is another classic work by the famous arranger Lu Yuan, who wrote "The Song of Karamay", and good arrangers are naturally very picky about singers, and they all want their songs to be interpreted perfectly.
Lu Yuan, who had always been dissatisfied, finally remembered Yu Shuzhen, who was already famous because of the song "Li Shuangshuang Sings".
And Yu Shuzhen, who received Lu Yuan's invitation, agreed without saying a word, that is, because of Yu Shuzhen's natural and emotional interpretation, in the end, the song was perfectly presented, and Yu Shuzhen became an instant hit, and has been popular all over the country since then.
Since then, Yu Shuzhen has been running around for China's singing career, but she is too old to go on stage and she still retires.
However, when everyone heard her news again, they found that Yu Shuzhen, who had children and daughters, did not enjoy family fun at home, but was lonely in a nursing home.
Although Yu Shuzhen is away all the year round, she cares about her children at allEvery time she goes to a foreign business show, Yu Shuzhen will buy all kinds of gifts for her children to take home after the performance.
When she is busy outside, she wants to talk to her family, so she can only run to the commissary a few centimeters away from the performance venue to make a **, but she will run tirelessly every day.
Once called**, Yu Shuzhen heard the child coughing, so she asked if the child was sick, but her husband said that it was okay, Yu Shuzhen knew that her husband was reporting good news and not bad news, so she was very worried.
So as soon as the performance ended the next day, Yu Shuzhen bought a train ticket to go home overnight, and her colleagues persuaded her to go back with them tomorrow, but Yu Shuzhen couldn't wait, even if she only had a standing ticket, she had to go back.
At three or four o'clock in the middle of the night, Yu Shuzhen arrived home, knowing that the child just had a cold, her hanging heart was relieved.
may be in the eyes of the children, the mother has been busy outside, and no father loves them more, but they don't know that in the places they can't see, Yu Shuzhen's love is no less than that of the father.
It is precisely because colleagues know that Yu Shuzhen loves her children very much, so after knowing that Yu Shuzhen's children actually threw her into a nursing home, they were very angry and accused their children of being unfilial.
However, at this time, Yu Shuzhen said that the children were not unfilial, and she actually took the initiative to enter the nursing home.
At the beginning, the children also took their two elders to live together, but after all, many concepts and Xi of the two generations are different, so there are often conflicts.
And the most important point is that Yu Shuzhen doesn't want to live a life like other old people, revolving around her children and grandchildren all day long, and even having to report when she goes out to buy vegetables.
Now that she is retired, she also wants to make up for the regret of not going to school, and hopes to learn something Xi, but living with her children will cause a lot of trouble.
So Yu Shuzhen, who wanted to live her own life and didn't want to cause trouble to her children, put forward the idea of living in a nursing home, but this idea was unanimously opposed by her children.
In our country, "you raise me young, I raise you old" is not only traditional filial piety, but also a responsibility, as a child to send parents to a nursing home, not to take care of you is unfilial piety.
No, it's not that we don't have the ability to provide for you, we live happily but our parents are still in nursing homes, this is spread, I don't know how many people poke our backbones!”
Seeing her children so embarrassed, Yu Shuzhen had no choice but to give up, but Yu Shuzhen, who stayed in the house after that, was depressed every day, and all this was also seen by her children.
In the end, they agreed to their mother's proposal, so Yu Shuzhen came to the nursing home, and she also enrolled in the university for the elderly, and began to learn Xi painting that she wanted to learn but never learned.
There are many like-minded elderly friends in the nursing home, and Yu Shuzhen lives a fulfilling life here every day.
Children do not leave their parents in nursing homes and ignore them, they often come to visit them, and see that their parents are living happily, and every time they are sick, they can receive timely care, which is more convenient than at home, and they feel that the original decision was correct.
In the end, people found out the truth behind the matter, and they all agreed with the children's approach and Yu Shuzhen's consciousness.
Although children and parents are one, it does not mean that the two generations have to live together, after all, the two generations have different cognitions because of different eras.
insisting on being together not only cannot promote feelings, but will breed a lot of contradictions, so Yu Shuzhen's approach is a good choice.
And Yu Shuzhen's open-minded and cheerful attitude towards life is also worth learning Xi.