Revisiting the original work of "Snail House", I feel more and more that Song Siming's feelings for Guo Haizao are not true love, but full of calculation and use. In Song Siming's eyes, Guo Haizao is just a substitute for satisfying his personal needs and desires, while Guo Haizao chooses to degenerate in pursuit of superficial material satisfaction.
Recalling their first encounter at the dinner table, Guo Haizao, as a small clerk, seemed to be in a hurry at the wine table, but his heart was full of warmth with his boyfriend Xiaobei. However, all this could not escape Song Siming's eyes, he silently remembered Guo Haizao's thoughts, and began to have ill intentions towards her.
Under Song Siming's ingenious arrangement, Guo Haizao's boss Chen Sifu became the link between them. In order to curry favor with Song Siming, Chen Sifu tried his best to win over Guo Haizao, and even gave her a salary increase. And Guo Haizao, a girl who is eager for money but is financially constrained, will naturally not let go of this opportunity.
When Guo Haizao's sister borrowed money from her to buy a house, she felt very helpless because she had not saved money, and her boyfriend Xiaobei was unwilling to help. Just when she was at a loss, Song Siming appeared in her life like a savior, generously lent her 20,000 yuan, and later raised 60,000 yuan for her to help her sister repay the loan shark.
This money made Guo Haizao begin to have a good impression of Song Siming, and she gradually felt that Song Siming was generous and generous. So, she took the cash given to her by Song Siming and went to the mall to buy a lot of high-end clothes, and from the surprised eyes of the waiter, she felt a sense of superiority that she had never felt before. She began to decorate herself with these high-end clothes to make herself more temperamental.
However, as time passed, Guo Haizao's heart was gradually captured by money. In addition to the ** of money, Song Siming also showed her a high-quality life that she had never imagined. He became Guo Haizao's umbrella and ATM, causing her to gradually lose herself. When Guo Haizao was sent to Hangzhou to deal with a thorny engineering project dispute, Song Siming was by her side and solved all the problems for her. This kind of meticulous care made Guo Haizao feel an unprecedented sense of dependence. Under the ** of money and power, she began to embark on a road of no return, and gradually fell into Song Siming's trap. In a small company, Guo Haizao, a small employee, is often ignored by his superiors. The local person in charge put pressure on her, and she could only defend herself weakly, but the other party was still aggressive. At this time, her colleague Song Siming made a few calls, and easily solved this headache for Guo Haizao.
After returning to the hotel, Guo Haizao's admiration for Song Siming gushed out like spring water. In her eyes, Song Siming is omnipotent and her savior. So, when Song Siming asked her to break up with her boyfriend Xiaobei, she hesitated. She told Song Siming that she had a deep relationship with Xiaobei and needed time to deal with it. But Song Siming got angry after hearing this, which made Guo Haizao too scared to speak.
In her heart, Song Siming's mood change is more difficult than the change of weather**. When he was angry, although he didn't lash out, the indifference and sense of distance made people shudder. Guo Haizao could only say some flattering words when Song Siming was in a good mood, and didn't dare to make him happy when he was angry.
At night, Song Siming still showed no signs of sleepiness, Guo Haizao plucked up the courage to walk to him, took his hand and said, "I didn't ask you to divorce your wife, why don't you understand me?"Song Siming replied coldly: "This is different, which man can tolerate his woman having other men in his heart." ”
In this relationship, Guo Haizao and Song Siming have never been equal. She is like a chess piece in Song Siming's hand, and all actions depend on his face. When he is happy, she can play petty and sell cuteness;When he was serious, she didn't even have the power to speak. In front of Song Siming, Guo Haizao always felt embarrassed and powerless.
Guo Haizao's humility and helplessness also reflect Song Siming's strength and selfishness. He took possession of Guo Haizao's heart, but he was angry that she couldn't forget her ex-boyfriend. He didn't like the real Guo Haizao from the beginning, just because her appearance was similar to his first girlfriend in college.
What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what you have is always taken for granted. The red rose will turn into mosquito blood after being married home, while the white rose is still the unforgettable white moonlight. Song Siming has risen to prominence with the help of his father-in-law, so he needs to maintain his marriage. In the emotional world, Song Siming has always been like a cunning hunter, skillfully manipulating everyone's heartstrings. He longed to find that long-lost warmth in Guo Haizao, trying to fill the emptiness in his heart with her. However, he is always selfish, and everything he does is centered on his own desires. His desire to control is like a ** lock, firmly locking the seaweed, making it impossible for her to escape.
Song Siming skillfully used his connections, resources, and wealth to make Seaweed completely surrender to him. He demands Seaweed's life and affection with an almost distorted standard, giving her endless pampering while being stingy with a name. This kind of naked double standard makes people can't help but feel disgusted with him.
His hypocrisy towards Mrs. Song is even more staggering. He brazenly takes Seaweed to a class reunion, ignoring Mrs. Song's possible pain. When Mrs. Song pressed him, he defended himself in an almost scoundrel tone, beautifying his infidelity as a helpless choice. He spoke earnestly, as if everything was for the stability of his family and career, when in reality, he was only trying to satisfy his own selfish desires.
Song Siming's old spiciness, he can easily see through Mrs. Song's weakness and take advantage of her kindness and trust. He uses some plausible excuses to cover up his infidelity, leaving Mrs. Song struggling with the contradiction between reason and emotion. His words are full of lies and deception, but they are also skillfully interspersed with truths that make it impossible to distinguish between truth and falsehood.
He wanders between two women, a wife who loves each other on one side, and a lover who is as gentle as water on the other. He coaxed them with sweet words, intoxicating them in his gentle trap. Both his wife and his lover are convinced of his words and are willing to become pawns in his hypocritical game.
Song Siming needs a stable family to support his career, and at the same time longs to find the innocence of first love in his lover. His emotional world is full of contradictions and entanglements, and the root of all this lies in his inner greed and selfishness. In the end, he can only lose himself in the false lie, consumed by his own desires. After getting everything he craves, he is indifferent to the gains and losses of the two women. As a man who loves his wife deeply, he should not betray the affection between husband and wife;And if he truly loves Guo Haizao, he should take some responsibility for her future. It is true that love is pure emotion between two people, but true love is not measured in terms of money. In true love, respect and freedom are equally indispensable.
Finally, we must understand that Guo Haizao is certainly pitiful, but she also has something to hate. She lives a confused life, does not know what to live for, is dissatisfied with the status quo, and does not have the courage to change. She always dreams of being supported unconditionally, and if she hadn't met Song Siming, she might also have become Wang Siming and Li Siming's lover. In her bones, she yearns for the squandering of money, someone to solve her problems, someone to spoil and someone to control the life. And Song Siming just happened to satisfy her material vanity, coaxed her with sweet words, and gave her ** satisfaction and stimulation.
The superficial Guo Haizao feels that he is a "lucky person", otherwise how could he be infatuated by such a successful and attractive middle-aged man?In fact, she was very glad of her good fortune in her heart, and she regarded youth and purity as capital that could be squandered at will. However, what we need to be wary of is that real life is full of material **, how many girls can resist such **?