"You are so ashamed, don't say it's my son anymore".
In 2004, Zhang Fengyi beat his 15-year-old son Zhang Boyu and angrily reprimanded him. At that time, Zhang Boyu couldn't understand why his biological father said this. Zhang Fengyi said: "Your mother is destroying you!".”
Who would have thought?Even Zhang Fengyi, who is an iron-blooded tough guy and iron-clad in the eyes of the public, will be hindered by trivial matters in life, and even accused of being a sinner who "abandons his wife and children".
Zhang Fengyi's first marriage started when he met Lu Liping when he starred in "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon", and the two who played husband and wife in the play got acquainted and sparked a spark of love.
These eye contacts eventually make their fake play come true and they quickly fall in love.
They thought that it was enough for two people to love each other, without any regard for suitability, future prospects, or financial conditions, and they got married at a speed that no one expected.
In 1988, Zhang Fengyi only spent more than 50 yuan to reach this marriage - after receiving the certificate, he invited a table of relatives and friends to dinner.
At that time, Zhang Fengyi was not well-known and did not have much money in his pocket, but Lu Liping had a certain reputation and was sought after and loved by many people.
Zhang Fengyi's belongings are actually only more than 50 yuan, but he feels extremely happy and excited. He felt that he had married the goddess of his heart, as if he had the whole world.
Lu Liping may indeed have a deep liking for Zhang Fengyi, whether in terms of fame or wealth, Zhang Fengyi is not as superior to her, but she is the "dream lover" in the minds of many men.
As a result, it is widely believed that their union is motivated by true love, and everyone wishes their marriage blessings.
Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping did love each other at first, and always showed affection in public, until Lu Liping became pregnant and their child was born, everything changed.
Zhang Fengyi's reliability is indeed convincing, he is mature, forward-looking, and has a clear plan for the future. At the same time, Lu Liping seems to be stagnant, and even has a tendency to regress.
Lu Liping chose to be a full-time housewife after Zhang Boyu was born, no longer working, giving up all performance opportunities, and concentrating on taking care of her children at home.
It is often said that the birth of a child deepens the bond between family members, but when Zhang Boyu was born, Zhang Fengyi complained about his appearance: "This child really doesn't look good." ”
Lu Liping doesn't care about her son's appearance, she puts all her mind into taking care of the child.
As a result of this dedication, she gradually lowered her requirements for herself, and even stopped paying attention to her appearance and appearance, sometimes even omitting to brush her teeth and wash her face. Mother's love is great.
Everyone likes beautiful and charming things, but Lu Liping has always looked raunchy. As time passed, Zhang Fengyi's love for her gradually waned and eventually disappeared.
Zhang Fengyi bluntly accused Lu Liping of not taking care of himself, and at the same time he looked at Lu Liping with a cold gaze.
She and Zhang Fengyi kept arguing, and every hurtful word was wearing down the only remaining relationship between the two, and finally she couldn't bear it anymore and said the words "we divorce" out loud.
After Zhang Fengyi heard this, he agreed without hesitation, maybe this was what he was looking forward to. He felt that Lu Liping and the child made him feel constrained, so after the divorce, he simply gave up custody of his son and handed the child over to Lu Liping.
Lu Liping deeply understands that at all times, women need to rely on themselves to survive and live, and cannot completely rely on men. Although disappointed in Zhang Fengyi, life still has to go on.
So, Lu Liping began her strong life as a mother, taking care of her children while working.
He got his wish and gained freedom, not only that, but also ushered in the peak of his career, with one after another awards, small awards and fame, and many fans ......has been smooth sailing in his career as an actor, and his love life has been rejuvenated.
After the release of his masterpiece "Farewell My Concubine", he met his current wife, Huo Fan.
Although Huo Fan is only a dance teacher, his "teenage heart" cannot be restrained when he sees her face that turns red because she sees him, however, due to a failed marriage, his way of dealing with feelings tends to be more steady, mature and cautious.
When facing Huo Fan, Zhang Fengyi will also feel inferior and afraid because of his age. He feared that he would be disliked because he was 12 years older than Huo Fan, and was afraid that someone younger than him would snatch Huo Fan away.
Huo Fan smiled cheerfully, making Zhang Fengyi feel down-to-earth: "I like you very much, you don't have to worry about this." ”
When Zhang Fengyi and Huo Fan were together, he always felt happy and satisfied. He is full of enthusiasm for his work every day, and then can't wait to meet Huo Fan, and the two are full of sweetness and affection.
Zhang Fengyi is happy here, but the lives of his ex-wife Lu Liping and son Zhang Boyu are not satisfactory.
In order to let her children have a complete family, Lu Liping did not hesitate to use her marriage as a bet and bargaining chip, hoping to find a suitable "father" for Zhang Boyu to avoid letting her children suffer the suffering of a single-parent family.
There is no doubt that Lu Liping has done a better job of caring for children than Zhang Fengyi.
Lu Liping carefully selected a retired football player as her husband, she fell in love and married with a purpose, and was very cautious about retired football player Tao Wei. Tao Wei was very friendly to Lu Liping and Zhang Boyu.
He used to be an athlete, with a straightforward and cheerful personality, a bit of a big grin, and sometimes careless and not too concerned with details.
In contrast, Lu Liping is more sensitive and vulnerable and needs more attention. Because of personality differences, the two often quarreled, which eventually led to divorce.
Marriage is a kind of affection that cannot be forced. Lu Liping was very lucky, she met her destined person in 2001, and it was during the filming of "The Years of Burning Passion" that she met drama actress Sun Haiying, so that her relationship and marriage finally came true.
Sun Haiying was very gentle and considerate to every little emotion of Lu Liping, she took good care of Lu Liping and Zhang Boyu wholeheartedly, and did not disappoint her.
Zhang Boyu, who lacked the company of his biological father, finally experienced the taste of fatherly love.
recalled that Zhang Fengyi once said that his child was ugly, handed him over to Lu Liping to raise him like a hot potato, and ignored him in life, which can understand why Zhang Boyu has a grudge against Zhang Fengyi in his heart.
In the face of the indifference of his biological father Zhang Fengyi, the sensitive adolescent Zhang Boyu often makes some radical and rebellious behaviors.
Just like a routine, he stayed at Zhang Fengyi's house on weekends, but kept silent about him, and got along well with Zhang Fengyi's wife, Huo Fan.
Despite Zhang Fengyi's dissuasion, he still secretly signed up for a tutoring institution to learn Xi acting skills, hoping to break into the entertainment industry and prove his strength to Zhang Fengyi.
After learning that his son was going to learn to act, Zhang Fengyi directly complained about his son to the camera, but the audience criticized Zhang Fengyi, thinking that he didn't take good care of his children in the past, and now what qualifications does he have to interfere with Zhang Boyu?
Lu Liping, an ex-wife, is very supportive of her son's choice. Zhang Fengyi was not angry that Zhang Boyu was disobedient, but angry that he thought everything too simply.
Mr. Zhang, who had been in his social circle for too long, knew that people would attack Mr. Zhang's appearance, and he feared that Mr. Zhang might not be able to withstand the pressure.
But there was a lack of communication between father and son, so in this case, Zhang Fengyi did not know how to express his concerns, so he left Zhang Boyu and the public with an image of "impatience".
Sure enough, some viewers will say that he polluted their eyes after Zhang Boyu's debut;They will compare him with Zhang Fengyi, thinking that he is far inferior to Zhang Fengyi.
Some people even joked about his career and made him "quit the circle" ......It was only at this moment that Zhang Boyu understood the meaning of Zhang Fengyi's words, but this did not weaken his determination to realize his dream - he wanted to become an excellent actor.
Zhang Boyu was loved by the audience for playing the role of Wang Fatzi in the movie "Notes on Tomb Robbery", which gained more attention, and the facts once again proved that "the emperor lives up to his hard work".
It can be seen that appearance is not the only criterion for judging whether a person is suitable for being an actor.
The father-son estrangement between Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Boyu is not easy to eliminate. In a variety show, when asked about his biological father, Zhang Boyu couldn't help but redden.
We can't accurately infer what Zhang Fengyi was thinking. Marriage is a very important event in a person's life, but as the biological father of the groom Zhang Boyu, Zhang Fengyi openly chose to be absent.
Perhaps he thinks he's very different, and he has a point. However, we feel that Zhang Fengyi's behavior is very ruthless and has no respect for his son.
The father-son feelings between them are complex and twisted, and I have to admit it. I lost that natural intimacy at the beginning, and later we always got along with each other full of tension, but I longed for the other party to understand me.
When people generally thought that Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Boyu, father and son, were incompatible, some people unexpectedly found that they were shopping together. Zhang Fengyi walked leisurely, while Zhang Boyu rode a balance bike to follow him, leisurely and unhurried.
The relationship and relationship between Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping have completely ended, and such a situation is indeed not easy to appear. However, the father-son friendship between Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Boyu is inseparable.
Although Zhang Boyu's biological parents are both actors, as the child of a star, he embarked on his own acting career with his own efforts.
They have now started their own families and are living happily. The grievances of the previous generation have long been diluted by time, and for Zhang Boyu's growth, he constantly adjusts his mentality, and he ** himself from the heart, this kind of perseverance is really commendable.