13-year-old children are in the period of adolescent rebellion, the sense of independence and autonomy are rapidly increasing, everything wants to be their own decision, especially for the attitude of the school Xi is very different, the most obvious manifestation is that the rebellious does not want to go to school. So, how can children improve their grades?The child is 13 years old and doesn't want to go to school, what to do
1. Listen and understand. The first thing is to listen to your child's heart, not to rush to express their opinions, but to listen patiently to their thoughts and feelings. Find out why 13-year-olds don't want to go to school and what makes them rebellious. This helps build trust and allows children to feel that their feelings are respected.
2. Find resonance points. Once you understand your child's point of view, try to find points of resonance with them. This may include talking about their interests and hobbies, and how to relate those interests to the school curriculum. If a child is passionate about a particular topic, then encourage them to explore this interest and consider combining it with schooling so that they can see the practical application of the learning Xi.
I believe that many parents will be troubled by their children's learning habits, and it seems that relying on their children'XiXi s conscious understanding does not seem to work, and there is no directionAs a parent, I am also afraid of indiscriminate command and misguidance, and the child's learning Xi are not worrying until I saw the Tutu classroom two months ago, under their guidance, the child has developed a lot of good Xi habits, and the learning Xi is also a lot more positive!I feel finally relieved!
3. Find ways to stimulate your child's interest. 13-year-olds have different interests, perhaps they are more interested in a certain subject, theme or type of books, we can try to find books that match their interests and guide them to explore their areas of interest in Xi. At the same time, they can also be stimulated to be interested in reading through a variety of reading experiences, such as listening to stories and activities in the library or bookstore.
4. Care more about children. Most children want their parents to care more about them, and the fact that children don't want to go to school may be a means to attract their parents' attention. 13-year-olds say big or small, they have their own considerations, and their personalities have not yet been completely settled. When a child is 13 years old, it is a very critical period, and what parents can do is to accompany and care, and pay more attention to their children's growth.
How can children improve their grades?The reason why the child does not want to go to school at the age of 13 is rebellious
1. The family atmosphere is not harmonious. Home is a place where children stay more in addition to school, the family atmosphere greatly affects the child's psychology, the child lives in a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere of the family atmosphere, and will naturally regard the home as a warm place, reducing its psychological pressure, most of the children with a harmonious family atmosphere are sunny and positive. As a parent, we should handle the relationship between family members well, and parents should try to make the relationship between family members harmonious.
2. Lack of Xi hobbies. Children who have not learned Xi hobbies will find learning Xi very boring. In the Xi of learning, I can't feel the joy and satisfaction of learning Xi, so I procrastinate when I Xi to study, and I don't want to go to school.
What to do if a 13-year-old child can't keep up with his Xi
Let children be aware of their own Xi level, and do not set Xi goals beyond their own ability. Parents should let their children realize that the setting of Xi goals should be in line with their own strength and level, not too high or too low, so that they can achieve their goals step by step.
That's it for sharing how children can improve their grades, making a scientific plan and solving problems step by step. On the basis of understanding the cause of the problem, it is particularly important to formulate a scientific Xi plan. You can start from the basic knowledge of the subject, how to solve problems, time management and other aspects, and make adjustments in a step-by-step and planned manner. Reasonable arrangement of Xi time for each subject and gradual deepening of knowledge understanding will help to steadily improve performance.
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