Procrastination seems to have become a common problem for children in many families, and parents are also heartbroken and have enough fire for it. However, when faced with such things as homework grinding and procrastination, you really can't hope that your child will stick to the end. Sometimes, we parents have to hold on a little more than our children.
1. Procrastination makes children form a selfish character.
In fact, procrastination does not seem to be a disease, but this state definitely needs to be treated. When a child has procrastination, it usually shows itself in things that he doesn't like. If he doesn't like to write his homework, he will put it off until the end, and when he doesn't want to eat, he will grind. But if you let him go out and play, he will quickly put on his shoes. Slowly, children are reluctant to try things they don't like, do things too casually, and become very selfish. This is not conducive to the child's future development, and it is likely to be rejected by many friends because of his selfish personality.
2. Poor self-care and self-reliance.
Some children have normal motor skills, but they are lagging behind in language skills, drawing, scissors, and other activities that require coordinationBecause of lack of concentration, it is easy to get injured in sports and life due to blind play methods or behaviors.
3. The child has no interest in what he is doing.
We all say that "interest is the best teacher", and everyone will be happy and excited from the bottom of their hearts when they do what they are interested in, and then the action will naturally speed up. After understanding this, let's reflect on why children are slow to do things, is it possible that they are not interested in this matter at all?Due to the lack of power, it is rubbing.
Develop children's hands-on skills
Alfred Adler, a quote from the book "The Personality Education of Children": "Behind a child who has a habit of procrastination is a mother who tidies up everything for him." "In the child's view, everything can be done by the parents, so that the child can easily develop a dependent character. Parents should let their children manage their own affairs, let their children understand that they should do their own things, toys they play with on weekdays, change clothes, their own small school bags, etc., these mothers should let their children try to clean up.
Help your child break down goals
When a child sets a grand goal, parents can help the child break down the goal, implement the implementation of the goal, and break it down to the tasks to be completed every day. For example, let children memorize an ancient poem, ten English words, and a new knowledge point every day to reduce the pressure on children, complete a little bit every day, and gradually gather less into more, leading to the end of their own goals.
Parents can make an agreement with their children that if they do their homework faster than usual and take a shower and sleep as soon as they finish watching TV, they can reward their children with toys they have always wanted or take them to watch a movie they want to watch. Let your child experience the reward of not procrastinating.
3. Learn time management.
The sooner parents guide their children to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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