Have you ever felt lost, overwhelmed, and at some point as if you were walking on a road with no end in sight?This feeling can be frustrating, helpless, or even hopeless.
But, don't worry, we've all had moments like this. Today, we're going to talk about this topic and see how you can find your way and regain your confidence in this uncertain world.
Haruki Murakami wrote in The End of the World and Cold Wonderland: "Some things are only a long time and impossible to understand, and some things are understood and it is too late." Most of the time, we feel lost and confused when we have to choose to act without knowing our hearts clearly.
01 Recognize yourself
When we feel deeply lost and confused, the first thing we need to do is to recognize ourselves and know ourselves clearly, which is a long and difficult process that requires us to constantly reflect and explore our inner world.
We are soberly aware of what we care about most in this world, not money and status, nor lust for profit, to clearly understand our original intentions, understand what is the most important thing in life, what is the most important thing for ourselves, only by understanding ourselves, understanding our hearts, in order to find what we really want, in order to pursue with a goal.
02.Set goals
Once you've identified yourself, the next thing to do is set goals. This goal can be long-term or short-term. However, no matter what the goal is, it must be realistic and actionable.
When you want to change, but you don't believe that you can do it well, you set a lot of rules and regulations for yourself, don't set limits for yourself at any time, because you have infinite possibilities.
I am deeply touched by the following sentence: "Our life today was chosen three years ago, and our life three years later is the choice we made today." ”Today is the most important beginning of a person's life, grasp today, live in the present, work hard and persist with firm confidence, take the first step in life, and complete a beautiful life with a new perspective and way of thinking.
After digging oneself again and again, dissecting oneself, and training oneself, one can make one's soul more noble and pure, and find a home for one's heart.
03.Take action
Once you've set your goals, it's time to get started. Only through practical actions can you allow yourself and your family to live the life you want. Perhaps, there will be setbacks, but as long as you are firm in your beliefs and brave in the face of difficulties, you will definitely be able to get out of the confusion.
The firmness after confusion, the groping in the confusion, find a new breakthrough for yourself, shout that your heart is no longer wandering, let your heart no longer panic, so that your heart is always full of faint joy and hope, from now on, the ability to have happiness is a kind of luck, but also a kind of happiness.
04.Learn to let go
Sometimes, we feel lost because of something, and even deprive us of the right to be happy, so we need to learn to let go. There are some things that we can not control, nor can we control them, rather than entangled in them, irritate ourselves, and disturb the peace of mind, it is better to let go of the burden in our hearts and move forward lightly.
Let go of the regrets and pains of the past and better embrace the future. Don't force it if it's not your own, as the saying goes, there are times in life, and there are times in life when you don't force it.
05.Find support
In the process of breaking through the hurdles of life and getting out of all kinds of confusion in life, the reconciliation and support of others are indispensable.
Seek spiritual reconciliation and verbal communication in order to achieve spiritual harmony and empathy.
In short, people are not terrible when they are confused. By recognizing ourselves, setting goals, taking action, learning to let go, and finding support, we can find our way and regain our confidence. Let's face life's challenges and difficulties bravely!
The best release in the world is to let go of yourself, don't take obsession as a prison, trap yourself, learn to be relieved, don't get along with yourself, remember that your own is never time, but the relief and pattern in your heart, let go of yourself and you will definitely go to happiness.