Title When I moved to a school district house, my sister-in-law gave me a red envelope of 10,000 yuan, but I turned a deaf ear
Sometimes, when we are in trouble, even our own brothers don't necessarily lend a hand.
When siblings start their own families, their relationship will inevitably change, and they are both your relatives and other people's family members at this moment.
Feelings are always changing.
Wang Na (not her real name) is a very filial daughter-in-law, so she has been busy providing all kinds of help during her father-in-law's illness, however, her brother and sister-in-law chose to ignore the "help" of her younger brother Wu Ming (not her real name) and her brother-in-law.
As a result, after a long time, their 10,000 yuan still did not make Wang Na "change her mind".
Wang Na and Wu Ming were college classmates, and the two met in college and later became boyfriend and girlfriend
At that time, everyone was very open, and they didn't have the idea of getting married if they fell in love, including Wang Na and Wu Ming.
They have a good relationship, but they don't reach the level of "love".
But how many people can stay with their loved ones for the rest of their lives?Most people end up choosing to marry someone who seems right for them and have children.
Wang Na and Wu Ming had a happy time in college and also worked in the same company after graduation.
Although the salary is not high, it is okay to share a house.
So, they started living in a shared house.
Sharing a house is one of the ways to evaluate whether a person is suitable to be a partner, and it is through this step that the relationship between Wang Na and Wu Ming develops.
Wu Ming's parents have a very good impression of Wang Na, because Wang Na is not only cute in appearance, elegant in temperament, but also very outgoing, which is very suitable for helping Wu Ming in Mu Ne deal with interpersonal relationships.
In addition, Wu Ming's parents also prepared a red envelope of 20,000 yuan, which can be said to be very generous.
In getting along, Wang Na also felt the importance and love of Wu Ming's parents, which was why she decided to marry Wu Ming.
The in-laws did not ask for a bride price, but instead put forward the idea of adding Wang Na's name when buying a house.
Wang Na was born in a single-parent family, and the attention of her in-laws gave her more trust and confidence in Wu Ming.
Later, after they got married, Wang Na often accompanied her in-laws.
Whether it is walking together, shopping, or holiday greetings, or traveling, Wang Na is never absent.
Later, my father-in-law suddenly collapsed, and after being sent to the emergency department, I found out that he had an incurable disease, and there was very little hope in China.
Despite this, Wang Na still decided to fight for her father-in-law's life, because he had regarded her as his own daughter for many years.
* It requires expensive fees, and Wang Na and Wu Ming have limited financial resources and can only borrow money from everywhere.
Luckily, some relatives were willing to help and lent them some money.
However, when they approached their brother and sister-in-law to borrow money, they were refused.
My brother and sister-in-law usually do a small business and have a good business, but they are not short of such money.
However, not only did they not borrow money, but they also said something nasty.
They felt that their father-in-law was so old, even if the treatment was successful, the recovery would not be as good as before, and there was no need to spend this unjust money, thinking that Wu Ming and Wang Na had a problem with their brains.
In addition, they thought that Wu Ming and Wang Na would only go to work with a fixed salary and would definitely not be able to pay back the money in the future, so they finally refused the request to borrow money.
Wang Na and Wu Ming saw the true colors of their brother and sister-in-law, remembered their words, and turned to other relatives to borrow money.
Although my father-in-law was able to save his life in the end, the operation consumed too much energy and he passed away within a few years.
Years later, Wang Na and Wu Ming thought about their son's future and used all their savings to buy a school district house.
Although his son is still in elementary school and doesn't need this house, the original owner is in a hurry to sell, so it is cheaper than other houses, so Wang Na and Wu Ming decided to buy this house.
However, Wang Na's brother and sister-in-law immediately became greedy.
Because their son is about to enter junior high school and wants to go to this school, they envision transferring the house to them first, waiting for their son to go to high school, and then transferring the house to Wang Na and his wife.
As a result, Wang Na and Wu Ming decided to refuse after discussion.
First of all, this matter involves the children's studies, once the house is transferred to the brother and sister-in-law, their children are likely to continue to study in high school in this school, and according to the brother and sister-in-law's style of conduct, they may deny not returning the house in the future.
Secondly, since they were refused to borrow money, Wang Na and Wu Ming have had very little contact with their brother and sister-in-law, and they have nothing to talk about.
However, my brother and sister-in-law took the initiative and transferred 10,000 red envelopes the next day to congratulate Wang Na and her husband on their new home.
But Wang Na ignored it completely, and then, her brother and sister-in-law called Wang Na six more **, but Wang Na did not respond.
Sometimes, when it comes to relationships, it's a duty to help, and it's a duty not to help
When we are in trouble, we like to turn to others for help, and sometimes we even feel resentful that others have not reached out to us.
But who is born to serve others?Even those closest to us are not obligated to bear the consequences of our personal actions.
Because these things have nothing to do with other people, only with us, and other people can help us, mostly because they have a good character and a good heart.
Wang Na and her brother and sister-in-law are just relatives, and her brother-in-law's affairs are not her own affairs, so she doesn't have to satisfy her brother and sister-in-law at all"Requirements:"。
Helping my brother and sister-in-law is lovely, but not helping my brother and sister-in-law is no problem at all.
After all, when my father-in-law needed the support and companionship of his relatives the most, my brother and sister-in-law couldn't do anything at all, but they fell into the ground.
Compared with her brother and sister-in-law, Wang Na just refused their request, which was already benevolent.
After all, no one wants to invest too much time, energy, and affection in someone who doesn't show affection.
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