Tongali, 46 years old, divorced due to "mannequin" and was cold-fought by her father, and is still single.
How would you go about being a mannequin?You shouldn't behave like that!Please don't enter this house again!In September 2002, Tongali's father looked angrily at his daughter opposite, and the booklet on the table called "Tongali *** Technique Photo" was even more unacceptable.
Although some people may not be familiar with the name, it will feel familiar at the sight of her face. She has played roles in dramas such as "Kangxi Dynasty", "Huanzhu Gege", "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", although she is not famous, she is not unknown.
But surprisingly, she gave up her original acting career and chose to become a mannequin, and became famous for a photo book, won the title of "China's first nude model", and became a pioneer of Chinese body photography.
Even now, mannequins are still unacceptable among conservative Malaysians, so the pressure on Tongali is self-evident.
Tongali's choice back then broke down her marriage, her relatives left her, and she was looked down upon by everyone. However, what is the story behind this difficult choice?
Now, 20 years later, what is her life like?How did she get involved with the entertainment industry?In 1994, Tongali, who was still a sophomore in Beijing Dance, and her classmates came to the filming site, wanting to dance part-time, but no one came after waiting for a long time, and several students couldn't help but get anxious.
With the encouragement of several people, Tongali bravely found a director. She didn't expect that this move would open a beautiful fate between her and Shen Dong. Shen Dong, a talented son who graduated from Communication University of China and a national first-class director, although he has seen countless beauties in the entertainment industry, as soon as he saw Tongali, he was deeply attracted to her.
Seeing Tongali who came to the door, Shen Dong was very moved, he personally arranged the shooting of several people, and took care of it very thoughtfully, and even offered to send Tongali back to school.
Seeing this polite man, Tongali's vigilance was slowly lowered, leaving behind *** This beautiful fate, and it began.
With his passionate pursuit and meticulous care, Shen Dong successfully won the heart of Tongali. Their love is sweet and happy, and Tongali's dance career is thriving.
However, as she grew older, she faced a real problem: with an endless stream of new people in the dance industry, her peak was about to pass, and she needed to find a new way out to keep her glamorous life alive.
As a person who loves dance, she doesn't want to be obscure after retirement, she wants to be able to continue to stand on stage and bring joy to the audience.
She was inspired by her classmates who went to film and became an actor, she has an outstanding figure and appearance, and her boyfriend is a director, isn't this a godsend?So after graduation, Tongali decided to pursue an acting career, and her boyfriend Shen Dong was very supportive, but he hoped that the two would get married first and then break out, and Tongali agreed.
The two have been in love for many years and have long regarded each other as soul mates, and their parents are also very satisfied. In 1998, the two entered the palace of marriage, the family was stable, and Tongali decided not to hesitate anymore and bravely chase her acting dream.
Under Shen Dong's recommendation, Tongali successfully won several roles, and she tried her best to perform them, but unfortunately, these roles did not cause much repercussions.
Only then did Tongali realize that her husband's previous words were right, although the dance industry relies on youth, the competition in the entertainment industry is more intense. She originally thought that she was outstanding in appearance and temperament, but among the many beauties with diverse styles, she gradually lost her advantage.
In addition, because she is not from a professional background, she lacks the talent for acting, and although the roles she plays are beautiful, they lack uniqueness. Although she has participated in many films, she has never been able to make a mark, which makes her very anxious.
In order to improve herself, she even studied at the Beijing Film Academy for a few months, but she still couldn't change the status quo.
She is currently at a low point in her life, looking back on the past journey, although everything seems to be going well, why can't she be recognized by the public?Tongali, a dancing girl born in Hefei, Anhui Province in 1976, has lived a privileged life since she was a child.
Her father, a soldier turned police officer, was trained in militarization from an early age. However, this conservative notion made her parents angry at her choice to become a mannequin.
Despite her strict parents, they were full of love and nurtured Tongali to be smart and graceful, which was appreciated by neighbors and relatives alike.
Tongali has shown extraordinary dancing talent since she was a child, and her parents saw it in their eyes and were overjoyed, and decided to send her to a professional dance institution to study. There, her strengths became more and more apparent, and the teacher realized that it was a precious dance seed.
However, in order not to waste her talent, the teacher suggested that Tongali switch careers to gymnastics. After careful consideration, Tang's parents decided to follow the teacher's advice and sent her to a sports school in Anhui Province.
Unsurprisingly, Tongali also excelled in gymnastics, and soon achieved excellent results and became the pride of her family.
In a few years, Tongali won the gold medal in gymnastics at the Provincial Games, won the honor of being an outstanding athlete, and her name spread in local circles. However, fame at a young age was a bit boring for Tongali, because dance has always been her favorite.
As I grew older, this love became more and more determined. After in-depth study with her parents, she decided to give up gymnastics, give up her original superior learning, and devote herself to the pursuit of dance.
Due to her previous training, Tongali made rapid progress in dance, and finally got admitted to the Anhui Provincial Art Institute and became a freshman dancer.
Over the next few years, she trained relentlessly, graduated with honors, and went straight to the Provincial Song and Dance Troupe to perform on a bigger stage. If this plan is followed, Tongali may become an outstanding dancer or possibly a dance teacher.
However, fate is always full of mysteries, and it guides Tongali to pursue bigger dreams. With each performance, she fell in love with the feeling of being in the spotlight, longing to be seen by more people, eager to stand on a bigger stage.
However, performing only in the province could no longer satisfy her desire. Therefore, in 1993, Tongali was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy and prepared to continue her studies. However, her years of study had drained most of the Tang family's savings, and now in Beijing, where the expenses were even greater, the family's financial situation became even more difficult.
Tongali is a sensible girl who understands the hardships of her family, so she began to use her spare time to earn money from advertisements and performances in school to reduce the burden on her parents.
It was in this process that she met her husband Shen Dong and officially entered the showbiz. However, Tongali did not have much success in the entertainment industry, so she felt anxious.
In this case, she made one"The rebellion and the separation"The decision to try human photography. In 2001, while filming an advertisement, Tongali met photographer Zhang Xulong, who was full of praise for her figure.
This was Tongali's first step in becoming a pioneer in body photography.
Zhang Xulong is known as the "Prince of Photography" with his unique aesthetics and superb shooting skills, and has discovered and cultivated many beautiful models. This conversation opened Tongali's eyes to her own possibilities, and she began to develop a strong interest in the modeling industry.
After returning home, she began to delve into the field and approached Zhang again to discuss. Zhang Xulong encouraged her to try to shoot *** photo, and firmly believed that this would make her an instant hit.
However, for traditional Chinese people, ** art photo is an unacceptable concept. Tongali was shocked by this, because she knew what it meant.
Tongali initially steadfastly rejected the offer, fearing how she would face her husband and family if the photo was taken. However, after much deliberation, she began to question how much more youth she could have
If you miss this opportunity, can you return to your family and continue to live a life of husband and children?Tongali attaches great importance to her career, and she finds it difficult for her to accept such a life imagination.
So, after many days of deliberation, she finally decided to be brave enough to give it a try. So, in 2002, a beautiful album called "Tongali *** Technique Photo" came out, and its sales far exceeded Tongali's expectations.
Tongali's name became well-known overnight, and in just a few hours, her *** photo album was sold out, setting a sales record of tens of thousands of copies.
Over the next few months, her fortune skyrocketed, earning hundreds of thousands in profits, which was amazing. As the first person in Chinese mainland photography to publish *** technical photography, her works have sparked heated discussions and once become a hot topic in society.
Tongali also became one of the top ten beauties, with a real-time search volume of up to 100,000, and even surpassed well-known actresses such as Lin Chiling, Cecilia Cheung, and Ruby Lin, and became the focus of attention.
Once upon a time, Tongali was unknown in the entertainment industry and no one cared about it. However, her life has changed because of a series of opportunities. She received invitations from many directors to participate in many works such as "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" and "Yangtze River Criminal Police", and finally had her own place.
However, there are countless shadows behind the success. Zhang Xulong, a person who sued her because of the interests of the album, made her the focus of ** again. What made Tongali even more painful was that her parents wanted to cut off contact with her after finding out about the incident.
In her father's conservative values, the daughter's behavior is a disgrace to the family, and he can't hold his head up in front of his relatives and friends because of this. Since then, the relationship between father and daughter has become ossified, and more than a decade has passed, they have never reconciled, and the father's attitude towards her has not changed.
Shen Dong once regarded his wife as a treasure, but as time passed, his attitude gradually changed. At first, Shen Dong did not get angry with his wife, but chose to endure it silently.
However, this incident was like a thorn in Shen Dong's heart, and the ridicule and banter of his wife by the people around him tore his wounds again and again. Whenever he saw his wife, Shen Dong would think of those strange eyes and words, and as time went on, the communication between the two became less and less.
Tongali tried her best to save this relationship, and took the initiative to mention her husband's wish to conceive a child, but Shen Dong did not show excitement after hearing it, but showed a sad face.
He said he didn't want his children to suffer ridicule and discrimination from others. Tongali's heart ached. The couple, who were once deeply in love, finally broke up. In 2008, they divorced, and she gradually faded out of the public eye.
Nowadays, it is very difficult to keep up to date with the latest news from Tongali. She is 46 years old and has never remarried, nor has she returned to showbiz, but focuses on her beauty career.
When she was young, she achieved the peak of her career, and now she may just want to live peacefully and be an ordinary person.
In an interview, a reporter asked Tongali if she regretted taking the human photo, and she replied: "I thought about it, but now I am relieved." If I were to go back in time, I would still choose to do it.
This shows that Tongali has reconciled with herself, and she believes that there is nothing wrong with this choice, but she has paid a lot for it.
Life is a journey from which there is no turning back, and every step requires us to think carefully and weigh the gains and losses in order to have no regrets. There is no standard answer in life, only by living oneself can you write your own wonderful chapter on the answer sheet!