Text|Baili Ziqing
When you pursue a girl with all your heart, she will tell you that she is a slow heater.
In this case, most men will choose to believe. But sometimes, it's actually a woman's cover-up. Because some women are not the slow-burning type. Of course, she naturally has a reason for doing so. Women say that they are slow-burning types, and there are 3 layers of deep meaning, and men must read women's minds
It's a kind of euphemistic refusal.,The implication is that you can do it yourself.,Anyway, I don't have a time limit for this kind of slow heat.。
This situation is often more hidden. And many men, often not easy to notice. If a woman is not willing to accept your pursuits, she will behave like this.
She deliberately says that she is a slow-burning type, and she will also show the characteristics of a slow-burning woman when she gets along with you. In this way, it will make you believe that it is true. Then you yourself will weigh the pros and cons to make a choice.
Most men will choose to give up. After all, it doesn't take too much time and effort.
So, how can we tell if this situation is true or false?After all, some women are indeed slow-burning.
It's actually quite simple. Think about it from two perspectives. One is to understand through the side. Look at what the people around her say about her. If you can find out her previous relationship status, you can also make a rough judgment. The second is how you see how she treats other suitors. If you alone have such an attitude, be enthusiastic about other suitors. That means she's a tactful refusal.
Therefore, men themselves have to make judgments based on the actual situation. Naturally, you can know whether what the woman said is true or not.
If a woman just wants to use this to embarrass you and make you retreat. Forget it, because in such a situation, there is no point in continuing to pursue.
It is a temptation and a test. This is how women come to see your perseverance and determination.
Some men are indeed very realistic and realistic. When I heard the woman say that she was a slow heater, she gave up directly. In this way, your purpose is exposed.
Some women do test men in this way. And this trick also works very well.
On the one hand, he observes calmly, and on the other hand, he also allows men to think for themselves. If a man is truly in love with this woman, he will not give up easily. If it's just lip service, then it's going to give up right away.
And in this way, the woman will naturally be able to achieve her own goals. She would be able to tell if the man really liked her. And then she makes her choice.
Admittedly, this is a good strategy.
It's just that for men, they have to think about it seriously. Combined with the reality of the situation, as long as you can judge whether a woman is really in this state.
So the key is to see for yourself what the situation really is. If you don't pay attention to it yourself, you may be misled. In this way, it will not help you in any way.
It's really a slow-burning type, and I'm afraid you're in too much of a hurry, so mention it in advance. In fact, she really wants to seize this relationship.
Some women are indeed the kind of girls who are slow to heat. When you pursue her, she actually likes you. Think you're a good candidate. And at this time, she will have a worry in her heart. She is afraid that her slow heat will make you lose patience. So, let me tell you about it in advance. In this way, you have a mental preparation.
For men, they also have to understand the mind of this type of woman. In fact, many times, the key to emotional matters depends on what the actual situation is. Because sometimes, we like to take things for granted. That's not right.
The specific response of the woman and the actual situation, we must be carefully figured out. This is important. We don't care what her intentions are, as long as we can figure out the actual situation ourselves, we will not make a misjudgment.
This is a test for men.
Emotional Lesson:
For men, when encountering such a situation, it is necessary to be calm. In fact, there are many men who are just not calm enough. And then take it for granted, and the result is a wrong judgment. In this way, you will only be left with regrets. When you think about it in the future, you will definitely regret it.
But the regret at that time no longer has any meaning.
A woman's mind is actually very simple. It's not as complicated as we think. As long as we keep a clear head, we can naturally roughly guess the intentions of women. In this way, we have a better grasp of our feelings.
This requires us to be vigilant at all times when pursuing women. Many men, in fact, are not serious enough. It's your own attitude and behavior that is problematic.
Whenever we start to pursue a woman, we have to be strict with ourselves. In this way, we can cope with it no matter what the final outcome is. From this point of view, it must be taken seriously. No matter what a woman is thinking, we have to figure it out. In this way, you can really grasp your feelings.
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