In the love story of her parents, Ge Meixia is not only the hero and heroine, she and An Jie have similar experiences, but due to the differences in the people they face, their fates are also different.
In order to get the items that An Jie has at her fingertips, Ge Meixia must put in great effort and thought.
However, when I ** "Parental Love" again, I realized that it is no wonder that Ge Meixia was able to succeed in the end because she has a unique "wisdom".
Not being satisfied with the status quo pushes her to a higher realm.
When An Jie leads Ge Meixia into a new world, he also evokes dissatisfaction in her heart.
For Ge Meixia in the past, the world An Jie once lived in seemed to be everything she experienced in her dreams.
She may have heard and understood about it, but she had never actually seen or touched it with her own eyes.
As is generally seen in the Peach Blossom Garden, it is certainly a joyful and carefree environment for us.
So when An Jie and Ge Meixia put on her gorgeous dress, went to An Jie's residence, and enjoyed a cup of coffee in her courtyard, Ge Meixia had a real experience of this lifestyle.
However, it brought him a sense of novelty, and at the same time evoked a deep resentment in her, making her wonder why she couldn't live like that
Thanks to the support of An Jie's officer husband, he was still able to live his previous life.
Ge Meixia witnessed this way of life, and also saw that Jiang Defu's identity could protect her wife from punishment, how could she be willing to choose an ordinary man again?
Ge Meixia is extremely anxious about her future, and she longs for someone to protect her.
She aspires to live a life similar to Anjie's.
This also explains why Ge Meixia still began to take care of her courtyard in her later years, imitating An Jie's appearance when she was younger, and began to taste coffee.
What An Jie had in the past, Ge Meixia can now have, although it is a long process, the final outcome is still the same.
Ge Meixia finally had the opportunity to send an invitation to An Jie, so she specially prepared her best quality coffee to entertain An Jie, which made Ge Meixia feel very proud and satisfied in front of An Jie.
Patience is often more important than venting.
Although viewers often habitually compare Ge Meixia and An Jie together, they are actually two very different people other than their birth backgrounds.
Despite the huge blow to her family, she still lived well thanks to the protection she received from her brother and sister before she got married, as well as Jiang Defu's continued protection after marriage.
Therefore, An Jie still retains the unique pride and arrogance of Miss Capitalist.
When something unpleasant happens to An Jie, the first thing she thinks of is definitely not patience, but this does not mean that An Jie is stupid, but she thinks that she does not need to be patient.
Throughout his life, Anjie has hardly experienced any injustice, except that he is limited by others because of his identity.
However, Ge Meixia is different, she doesn't seem to reveal anything to her family in the play.
It is conceivable that in the context of that unique era, Ge Meixia's father was a fish bully, and he must be the first target to be suppressed.
Her family did not hand over their property like Anjie's brother did, thus avoiding a catastrophe.
In the countryside, the sky is high and the emperor is far away, how can people who have been oppressed for a long time forgive those enemies who oppress them.
Therefore, Ge Meixia's predicament will definitely be more serious than An Jie's.
The residents of the island often mentioned Ge Meixia's family background to An Jie and his family, and they habitually referred to her as Yuba's daughter, which also kept the whole family at a distance from Ge Meixia.
It is not difficult to imagine what kind of time Ge Meixia spent on the island.
Therefore, although her background has many similarities with An Jie, she is not as arrogant as An Jie, and she chooses to be patient when faced with difficulties.
It is no exaggeration to say that Ge Meixia did not go to darkness in the end, which is really an incredible miracle.
We should all learn from Ge Meixia and try not to consider the potential impact of others on us. Although Ge Meixia was forced to do this, her way of learning did make our lives more free and comfortable.
Rather than losing control of your emotions, you should choose to let go.
When Ge Meixia faced her own dilemma, she also considered how to save herself, thinking that it was a good opportunity to establish a relationship with Lao Ding.
After years of pure heart and few desires, Lao Ding finally ushered in the right path of his career. On the island, his career has been solidified and all aspects of his life have matured, which has finally given him the opportunity to think about his relationship choices.
Although Teckwah has always had affection for him, he has always hoped to find a well-educated woman like An Jie. On the island, there are very few people to choose from, and Ge Meixia, who has never experienced marriage, is undoubtedly his preferred partner.
In fact, it was risky for Ge Meixia and Lao Ding to be together, because on the island, no one did not know that the commander's sister had a crush on Lao Ding.
Although An Jie was in a bad mood, Jiang Defu did not intend to abuse his power to arrange the marriage of the Huang brothers.
In the incident involving Ge Meixia, whether it was a brother or a sister, Jiang Defu chose the relationship of brothers because he had experienced similar things to himself in the past.
He naturally hoped that Lao Ding and Ge Meixia could finally come together like him and An Jie.
Unfortunately, Ge Meixia's self-rescue attempt this time was unsuccessful, and she didn't expect Wang Zhenbiao to suddenly appear on the way.
Wang Zhenbiao used Ge Meixia's family background as an excuse to force Lao Ding to give up his marriage application with Ge Meixia.
When Wang Zhenbiao suddenly cut off her retreat, Ge Meixia felt helpless and had to choose to swallow her broken teeth into her stomach.
In this context, can Ge Meixia really have no grudges against Wang Zhenbiao?Although he was only one step away from this door of life and death, Wang Zhenbiao still resolutely kicked it back to its original place.
Don't you have any grudges against Lao Ding?But Ge Meixia knew that Lao Ding really had nothing to do, because she had elderly parents and young children, and the whole family depended on this job to make ends meet.
He would never give up his position in the army, and the importance of a woman had not yet reached such a level.
However, this does not mean that Lao Ding lacks courage more than Jiang Defu, because Lao Ding has too much wealth, and he needs to take more responsibility for his family.
Ge Meixia realized more deeply that crying, making noise and hanging are all useless behaviors, and she herself does not have the confidence and confidence of Dehua, she prefers to let go without reservation, maybe this can be impressive.
Be clear about what you're aiming for.
In the end, it was my "enemy" who saved me.
As we all know, the final ending of the story is that Ge Meixia married Wang Zhenbiao and left the island with Wang Zhenbiao, who was about to be promoted, and finally started the life of an official wife she dreamed of.
The resilience of Ge Meixia is truly astounding, and when she faces those who have humiliated her, she is able to let go of her guilt, build a warm family with them, and even take on the responsibility of taking care of the children.
It must be admitted that Ge Meixia has indeed achieved feats that are difficult for ordinary people to accomplish, which has also won her the ruthless evaluation of netizens for her.
When Ge Meixia faced the island that once bound her, she did not leave any nostalgia. Even if the person who pulled her up in the end was anyone who had humiliated her, she wouldn't have any guilt.
After all, she had achieved her goals and had received some support for the rest of her life, so the hardships she had experienced before were no longer important.