Han Han once said: "When a woman looks up at the sky, she is not pursuing a specific goal, she just feels lonely." "For women in long-distance relationships, the biggest test is loneliness. My lover is far away, and it is indeed quite bitter to face life alone. A long-distance relationship is not just an interweaving of feelings, but also a kind of perseverance. Only when the two have firm beliefs and unswerving love can they carry out their relationship to the end. In real life, a long-distance relationship is a test for both couples. Although a long-distance relationship gives both parties some room for reverie, not being able to see your loved one for a long time inevitably leads to a sense of insecurity. Especially for women, the insecurity in love can easily breed suspicion. Once the communication between the two parties is reduced, and the bond of affection is lost, love often drifts apart in suspicion. Many women in long-distance relationships feel lonely and suspicious because of the lack of emotional and physical companionship. At this time, men must give women comfort in time, be more caring and considerate, and let women be cared for and pampered.
So, how should women in long-distance relationships solve their "needs" when they have "needs"?Here are the real experiences of three women, so don't be shy after reading them.
01 Ms. Zhang: Try to be patient Ms. Zhang is 24 years old this year, and she has been in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend for two years, and she can only see each other two or three times a year on holidays. When asked about this question, she admitted that the long-distance relationship did make her feel very hard, and when she was lonely, she inevitably felt pain in her heart. However, Ms. Zhang can also understand her boyfriend's situation, after all, everyone needs to work to earn money nowadays, and they don't have much time together. In the past two years, she has deeply felt that she has missed her boyfriend, especially at night, and the loneliness has made her cry more than once. Subsequently, Ms. Zhang gradually adapted to living alone, and would refrain from doing so even if she had a "need".
Sometimes, she can't stand it, so she will send ** to her boyfriend, pouring out the pain of missing, which can be regarded as a kind of spiritual comfort. Although it was very uncomfortable to go through such torture, she was determined not to be sorry for her boyfriend. Of course, women need the company of men, and the lack of male care for a long time is indeed painful, but she loves her boyfriend so much that she has to endure it silently. Ms. Zhang said that she hopes to marry her boyfriend as soon as possible and live happily together, even if life is hard, at least not as lonely as a long-distance relationship. The most important thing in a long-distance relationship is mutual trust and persistence, and she firmly believes that the two will definitely be able to move towards marriage.
Ms. Li: Learn Xi and enrich yourself Ms. Li is 23 years old this year, and she and her boyfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for more than a year, and the two have only met three times. When she is not accompanied by her boyfriend, Ms. Li will participate in various Xi after work, such as interest classes. She said that through Xi, she can not only acquire more knowledge, but also make a lot of friends, so as to avoid feeling lonely. Ms. Li believes that this is a good way to distract her attention and make her life more fulfilling, so that she no longer misses her boyfriend all the time. She also made a lot of friends, chatted when she had time, and went out to play together, and her life was very exciting.
In this way, getting through the lonely period of a long-distance relationship can largely relieve the pain of loneliness and longing, and make yourself happier. Ms. Li emphasized that in a long-distance relationship, women must learn to relieve stress in other ways, and when they have their own things to do, their physical desires will not be so strong. Therefore, she advises long-distance couples to make themselves fuller, so that they can avoid unfounded worries and the relationship will be more harmonious.
Ms. Yang: Ms. Yang is 25 years old and has been in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend for three years, and she only sees her two or three times a year. During these three years, Ms. Yang endured lovesickness alone, and at first she would cry at the thought of her boyfriend. Because she is more sensitive, whenever she misses her boyfriend, she will take the initiative to call him ** or send ** to share her feelings with her boyfriend. Through frequent contact, she found that it not only kept the relationship going, but also helped to deepen the relationship. As a result, Ms. Yang developed a Xi of keeping in touch. Whenever she misses her boyfriend, she will take the initiative to contact, the two parties will make an appointment, and then share each other's hearts.
When she has a "need", Ms. Yang will tell her boyfriend tactfully, and then talk through ** at night. She said that every time she communicates with her boyfriend, it is very pleasant, full of laughter, and the relationship heats up because of it. This way makes her feel that long-distance relationships can also be interesting. Ms. Yang and her boyfriend have been comforting and supporting each other, and their relationship has grown stronger day by day. Therefore, she believes that long-distance relationships are not terrible, as long as they maintain frequent contact and communicate more, the relationship will not be indifferent. A certain saying once said: "The best comfort is wordless companionship." "For long-distance couples, it's crucial to care and stay connected in a timely manner. To tolerate each other more, trust each other more, and remain loyal to sincere love can make the relationship stronger. In a long-distance relationship, when a woman has needs, in addition to the comfort and care of her boyfriend, women also need to develop their own ability to solve their needs and actively adopt ways to relieve the stress and pain of a long-distance relationship. The experiences of these three women can be used as a reference and may make your long-distance relationship smoother. There is a good saying that a long-distance relationship is a test, but getting through it is light and happiness. I hope that women in long-distance relationships can persevere, do not give up easily, and believe that as long as men and women who truly love each other will be able to get through the difficult time of long-distance relationships and usher in a happy future for each other!