The autumn wind was blowing, and the leaves were slowly drifting away, as if it also reflected the coldness of her mood. She is a good friend of mine, and she recently missed the parent-teacher conference because of her daughter, and she couldn't help but shed tears when she talked about the reason. I tried to comfort her so that she could really let go of her inner anxiety and unwillingness.
She told me that her daughter's Xi grades had always been poor, and she was even at the bottom of her class. In order to give her daughter a better education, she invested a lot of time and financial resources, but the effect was almost zero. My daughter transferred to another school and made up for Xi, just to catch up with the academic progress, but the results were still unsatisfactory. Faced with her daughter's difficulties in Xi, she felt increasingly helpless and frustrated.
However, when faced with her daughter's academic Xi dilemma, as a mother, she can try to think and deal with it from different perspectives. First, she can re-examine whether her expectations for her daughter are too high and whether she is overemphasizing the importance of academic Xi grades. If you can adjust your mentality and focus your family education on cultivating your daughter's interests and personality development, you may have unexpected changes. Secondly, she can communicate deeply with her daughter, understand the specific difficulties and problems her daughter encounters in her Xi, and try to give her more support and help. At the same time, she can also encourage her daughter to establish a correct attitude and values towards Xi learning, so that she knows that the importance of learning Xi is not only in the level of performance, but also in cultivating her comprehensive quality and ability through learning Xi.
This friend told me that while she was worried about her daughter's Xi, her own health was deteriorating. She has been facing the pressure of the family's finances and the burden of taking care of her daughter for a long time, which has led to a gradual collapse of her physical and mental qualities. She felt that her health was getting worse and worse, she was often sick, and she was unable to attend her daughter's parent-teacher meetings because her health did not allow it. Her physical examination results showed abnormal indicators such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular problems, severe anemia, and even cough variant asthma. These health issues left her worried and fearful about the future.
When it comes to physical and mental health, she needs to realise that it is equally important to protect her physical and mental health, so that she can better support and help her daughter. She can seek guidance from a professional medical institution, and at the same time, she can also look for some psychological counseling to help relieve stress and improve her mentality. In addition, she can seek the support and understanding of family and friends to share her worries and concerns, so that they can be her emotional support and confidants. Through these efforts, she is better able to face life's challenges and provide better companionship and care for her children.
Faced with the dilemma of her daughter's Xi and the pressure of physical and mental health, she decided to let go and truly let go of her inner unwillingness and anxiety. She recognizes that she has done her best, and she has no regrets, regardless of the end result. She decided to respect her daughter's choice, let her go her own way, and wanted her to live a happy life.
When facing the dilemma of their children's academic Xi, parents should have a correct attitude and accept the actual situation of their children. Every child has their own characteristics and potential, and the value of a child cannot be measured solely by Xi academic performance. If your child's Xi learning difficulties are beyond our scope of help and support, we can seek professional tutoring and educational institutions to provide more targeted help. At the same time, we should also cultivate children's interests and hobbies and comprehensive qualities, so that they can find their talents and specialties in many aspects.
My conversation with this friend made me realize that as parents, we should not be overly impressed on our children's academic Xi grades, but should focus on their physical and mental health and happiness. Every child has their own path to follow, and we should respect their choices and give them the support and understanding they deserve. The most important thing is that we must really let go of our inner anxiety and unwillingness, and give our children a relaxed, warm and free environment to grow up.