When discussing the topic of childbearing, I asked my mom and aunt how much it hurts to have a baby, but their answers were perfunctory. In the past, people just called postpartum depression hysteria or madness, and didn't tell you which women would have some psychological and physical problems after giving birth. I think it's hard for men to really understand this, and I think a lot of these stories are creating anxiety, and they think that as long as they are postpartum and prepared, the impact won't be huge. I told my boyfriend that he might have problems with urinary incontinence after giving birth, but he didn't agree with it until I mentioned my mother's situation. I've heard them talk about how their grandmothers would use things like potatoes or sweet potatoes to force them back in order to keep their guts in place, only to have them get sick and rotten. For me, I chose to do pelvic floor muscles** when I gave birth, and I spent 3,000 yuan**, and I paid more than 200 yuan after the medical insurance discount. And my friend chose 5000 yuan ** because she also has a piriformis problem. The ** cost of a regular hospital is actually not expensive, and medical insurance can also reimburse it, and the doctor will not sell it to you. Usually only the rectus abdominis and pelvic floor muscles are examined, and my rectus abdominis test results were not problematic, so only the pelvic floor muscles were repaired. It's just for the sake of a hard mouth. During pregnancy, my mom was very confident in telling me that she didn't have so many postpartum sequelae after giving birth and that she needed so much postpartum repair now because of her age. When she wasn't feeling well, she would tell me that these problems were left over from the birth. My mom is the kind of person who is embarrassed to dry on the balcony **, or even embarrassed to throw sanitary napkins directly into the toilet trash can, she asks me to put sanitary napkins in a black bag and throw them in the trash, these more intimate things I don't think she will tell me in my life. The driver once talked to my mother about his wife's herniated disc in his lumbar spine, and he used his mother as an example of how she could work in the fields after giving birth to several children, which was used to imply that women are hypocritical and pampered. These words really make me feel sad, this is the so-called husband, the so-called son, they would rather you be a donkey, and they are so proud to call their mom an old scalper, men have no empathy for women, whether they are as a father, husband or son. Of course, not all men are like this, and I'm talking about the exceptions for those who don't care about girls.
The physical harm of childbirth to women cannot be ignored. In addition to the severe pain during childbirth, women also face a range of physical problems during the postpartum period. In the past, people only knew vague statements about these issues, rather than specific explanations. In every village, there are rumors about a family whose woman has become a crazy woman after giving birth, but no one tells you what to expect after giving birth. This will lead to a lot of women not having enough awareness of the problem before having children, resulting in anxiety and worry. When girls first know that they are fertile, they will feel fearful and uneasy about the pain and problems that come with childbirth.
For men, it is difficult for them to fully understand and empathize with the pain of female childbirth. For them, it's just an abstract concept, and they can't experience the pain firsthand. As a result, they tend not to have much empathy for the issue. This may be because men have not gone through the process of childbearing and cannot truly appreciate the pain and difficulties that women endure. Moreover, in society, many people always perfunctory this issue with "everyone comes over like this", downplaying the pain of childbirth, thinking that as long as they are well prepared for the postpartum period, it will not have much impact. However, this is not the case, and the impact of fertility on a woman's body is profound and cannot be ignored.
During the process of childbirth, a woman's body undergoes a lot of changes. The severe pain during childbirth cannot be ignored, and the woman's body is subjected to great stress and pain during this process. After childbirth, the woman's body still needs some time to recover. For example, many women may experience relaxation of pelvic floor muscles and decreased bladder function during childbirth, which can lead to problems such as urinary incontinence. In addition, childbirth may also bring other physical problems, such as causing certain damage to the female reproductive system, increasing the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease, uterine prolapse and other diseases. These problems may appear immediately after childbirth, or they may appear gradually during childbirth.
Therefore, it is necessary for women to fully understand the pain and possible physical problems of childbirth when considering childbearing. In this process, we need to provide women with better education and information so that they can face and prepare for childbirth more rationally. At the same time, men should also respect and care more about women's physical health, and provide them with more support and help.
In addition to physical pain, childbirth can also bring psychological distress and stress to women. Childbirth has a profound impact on women's mental health. For a period of time after childbirth, women often experience psychological problems such as postpartum depression. However, in the past, people had very limited understanding of postpartum depression, and few people were willing to discuss this topic.
Postpartum depression is a serious psychological disorder, which can make women depressed, anxious, depressed, and even have suicidal thoughts. However, in the past, people's understanding of this issue was very limited, and some people even called it hysteria or madness, and did not really recognize that it was a mental illness that needed to be taken seriously and **.
Therefore, it is also a distress for women to face psychological problems that may arise after childbirth. They may feel confused and helpless as to why they are in such an emotional state. At the same time, the psychological changes brought about by childbearing often affect women's relationships with their families, including their interactions with partners, children, and other family members. This psychological distress and stress has a big impact on women's physical and mental health.
However, men are often unable to truly understand and empathize with this psychological distress. They lack understanding of postpartum depression or other psychological problems and are unable to appreciate the pain and difficulties experienced by women. In society, men tend to downplay this problem with "everyone comes this way", thinking that postpartum depression is just a normal psychological reaction and does not have much impact. However, this notion is wrong, postpartum depression is a mental illness that requires attention and **, and has a significant impact on women's physical and mental health.
Therefore, we need to pay more attention to and understand the impact of fertility on women's mental health, and provide more support and assistance. We need to educate men more about postpartum depression and other psychological issues so that they can better understand and care for women's mental health. At the same time, it is also necessary to strengthen the prevention and improvement of postpartum depression to help women who suffer from psychological distress to regain their balance and happiness.
Fertility has a profound impact on a woman's physical and mental health. Severe pain and physical problems during childbirth, as well as postpartum psychological distress, require our attention and attention. We need to provide more education and information so that women can be more rational about and prepare for childbearing. At the same time, men should also be more concerned and respectful of women's physical and mental health, and give them support and help. Childbirth is a painstaking and painful process, and we should work together to safeguard women's physical and mental health.